u/C4-Goes-Kaboom

I know there could be a vast difference in what constitutes as findom. I’ve seen dozens if not hundreds of posts with different takes on what the verse actually means. I dabble and lurk in a few subreddits and those that post, dommes in particular, to which they are looking for subs and it’s usually just posting porn or psuedo porn. From my point of view findom is you know— financial domination. I’m unsure buying content, paying for a menu/nudes, is what a findom dynamic is, but I apologize for my ignorance if I stand corrected. More like sugar babying, but I digress. I’m not hating on those that post nudes or lewd content, but like what about findom is it if I just send 20 bucks to see your asshole?

I’ve been dabbling inside findom for a while now, but took a long hiatus until now. You can see some of my comments in other subreddits where I shit post and have fun, but I’d thought I’d dip my toes here and see if there’s anything out there.

I’m a sub, male, in my late twenties in the United States. I’ve been into the BDSM space for a few years now with a lot of it being femdom and findom oriented. Sadly, a lot of it has been online with no irl experiences. I enjoy tasks, goals, punishments, and rewards to help the dynamic stay fresh and not enter a lull of just asking the same small talk questions.

Outside of kink I’m a bit of an introverted nerd. I don’t like going all out that much and just enjoy sticking to myself. Love video games, anime, comics, manga etc. Huge gamer and have most platforms but I primarily play PC. Though I’d say most of my game collection is on PS4/5. I love to yap, especially about deep conversations or taboo topics such as sex, politics, and religion. If you enjoy voice chats/voice notes that’s an automatic +

What I’m looking for: I’m realistic about this space. I’m more than likely not going to meet you, fuck you, or date you. Though it would be nice, it’s not expected. I’m looking for a dominant woman who I can share entertaining conversations, build a bond, and simp/spoil when we are in that mood/space. I love dynamics which are task oriented to help me keep me on my toes and ultimately entertain the domme. Wheel spins and video game findom related games are fun too.

What I’m not into: Not really into fincucking, faceless dommes, or anyone looking just for a silent ATM or strictly a dynamic oriented around sex/money. I know that’s the premise of findom, but if we are going to make this work long term there has to be more of a substance.

I can verify via Yoti or showing my ID ( blurring the important pieces. ) I have most if not all payment platforms but it seems most people use Throne, Cashapp, Apple Pay and Venmo. Then, for chatting platforms I use Discord and telegram.

Budget and kinks/limits will be discussed in DMs as I feel like that’s a bit more intimate and can be negotiated.

I think that should answer most if not all questions most dommes may have about me. So, if anyone is interested lemme know.