u/Calm_Recommendation0

As the title says i don't enjoy sex with my boyfriend. We have been together for 2 years now and I've talked to him and showed him on numerous occasions how to please me and turn me on, it just feels like he doesn't listen at all and when it comes down to do it I just feel apprehensive and not excited to have sex with him, even him fingering me is horrible. We've brought sex toys into it for me but he finishes too early when we use them. I can't keep going like this... what do you suggest?