u/CandleLeast150

Wondering which is better? Opinions?

Im looking for a masturbator for me, I am 6.3 inches and decently girthy. I am looking for something I can use which doesnt really look anything like a pussy at all, i want something which looks like an ordinary object, but is silicone or soft and feels really really intense. Because I want to use it in the bedroom with my partner sometimes and I feel strange using toys which look realistic, but I also want something which is very intense and feels good because I want to edge and train myself to last longer, like a soft sex toy with some kind of weight which feels real, and I dont want any plastic casing, I dont really like the hard plastic casing like you get with fleshlights, I want something soft which I can squeeze and use under the covers and press against my partner without feeling uncomfortable. And something not open ended with suction preferably.

Does anyone have any recommendations for highly intense soft masturbators? I was looking at the Loma Candle Pure, but I can't seem to get it in the UK for collection.