I’m a dominant man who is sweet and caring outside of play but craves intensity in the bedroom. I enjoy rough, degrading, and humiliating play but only with someone who fully consents and understands the dynamic. I’m not looking for ONS, I prefer ongoing connections, whether it’s a D/s relationship (poly or mono) or an FWB arrangement with a strong power exchange.
Recent US transplant to Thailand this April. I would love to find a connection. Ideally, I want a loving, romantic relationship with a strong D/s dynamic that thrives in the bedroom and behind closed doors.
I thrive on attention, consistency, and devotion. I prefer a sub who is eager to please over one who leans into bratting. Although some playful sassing is welcome. I value clear communication, emotional intelligence, and a genuine willingness to explore submission.
Outside the bedroom, I’m down-to-earth, love nature, and enjoy hiking. I don’t care about money or status, how you treat others matters most to me.
About Me:
• Single, 6ft, no children
• STD-free (expect the same)
• I have mostly dated Black, Latina, & Asian women (not a fetish, just a pattern in my dating history) and not closed off to white women just no history.
• Enjoys deep conversations, humor, and emotional intelligence in a partner
Kinks I Enjoy:
• Humiliation, degradation, bondage
• Breeding play (I’m sterile & only within a closed, STI-tested dynamic)
• Throat training, gagging, choking, slapping, spitting
• Freeuse, CNC, orgasm control/denial
• Giving tasks to complete when we’re apart, worship, praise
Bonus if you’re also into:
• Anal training
• Piss play, cuckqueening
• Strong communication and emotional intelligence
- give great massages
- enjoy traveling
Hard Limits:
• Blood, minors, scat, permanent damage, non-consensual harm outside kink dynamics
I’m looking for someone who enjoys deep connections, is communicative, and is genuinely interested in exploring a D/s relationship. Consistency and attentiveness matter to me. I prefer to get to know each other before jumping into anything sexual, let’s chat, meet up, and go on a normal date first.
How to Message Me:
If you’ve read this far and are interested, send me a message including:
• Your age, location, and relationship status
• What interested you about my post and what you’re looking for
• An interesting question to spark conversation
- your limits especially if I have listed them in my kinks (show me you’re attentive)
Please be engaged, ask questions, and be willing to have an actual conversation. One-word messages like “Hey” or “Hi” will be ignored.
Must be DDF
If this resonates with you, reach out. I’d love to hear from you.