u/Capital_Act5765

I’m trying to make my wife feel appreciated and sexy again. Our sex life has died off after having kids. They are still young so life is pretty full on balancing kids and work etc. She used to be quite open sexually but has very much lost interest over the last 8 or so years. Here’s the plan: As a treat and a surprise for her I’ve booked my wife a relaxation massage after work one evening and a local high end motel room for the night where she can go out and have a nice dinner on her own and go back to the motel and just relax and have a night on her own. It sounds a bit strange but I know she will really enjoy this. I thought about buying her a vibrator and boxing it up for her as a surprise present that she can open in the room that night. I’m not going to buy a huge cock shaped dildo or anything cringy but something more stylish I guess. She doesn’t have any toys and has never been overly interested in them. It’s definitely something I want to explore with her though. The thought of her opening it and hopefully using it while she’s alone is a big turn on for me. Hopefully her too! Anyway I guess I’m wondering from a busy woman’s perspective. Do you think this is a good idea? Is the vibrator a nice touch or is it cringy? I guess I could put a note with it. Not sure what to write. Or should I leave the vibrator out all together? Thanks.