u/CardiologistOdd3168

SD favouriting profiles in Seeking even after exclusivity talk. What would you do?

He was showing me something on his phone and the browser opened to his favourites in Seeking. I saw that he has favourited some profiles 3/4 weeks ago.

What hurt me is that it was never brought up in discussion. I would have been okay if he was being transparent about his search for another sb. We have been together for almost a year, I am seeing him exclusively. We had the exclusivity talk. He said there's no one else he is interested in.

I don't have the energy to bring this up to him yet.

In another instance, I saw him talking to another girl in Reddit. I could not read the full conversation, but I read only one line:

*Hit me up when you arrive in [country where we live], and let's see where you and I at.*

He said this already a few months into our relationship, which I have thought has grown beyond the confines of the SR. He tells me he loves me. I know I love him deeply.

The dishonesty and betrayal is crippling me.

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u/CardiologistOdd3168 — 13 hours ago