Womanizer Next or We-Vibe Melt?
I’m fairly new to toys and I’m not sure which type of sex toy I should be looking for.
I recently purchased the OG Magic Wand (with two settings) and it’s a little underwhelming because I need the highest setting to finish but it gives me very short mini orgasms and is just not that intense for me. I think I might have desensitized myself after using my Theragun for too long but it’s definitely too intense because it causes swelling and bleeding so that’s why I bought the wand but it but I’ve had much better luck with the massage gun. I do think the wand serves me well for warming up though. Idk why but it feels best to stimulate my upper labia and push hard near clit rather than directly on my clit. My first toy was one of those self thrusting ones that did nothing for me other than my first time using it.
I’ve been reading a lot about air suction toys and I’ve never tried one but they seem to please the majority of vulva owners but I’m skeptical because I’ve never enjoyed receiving oral, idk if my partners have been bad at it or if there’s something odd about me. I don’t know how to find out that answer. Whenever I receive it I just feel grossed out and queasy like the feeling you get from being tickled but not the same ticklish sensation and not turned on. I also don’t enjoy clit stimulation from fingers either. With both things in mind, would I still likely enjoy an air suction toy? I enjoy and can finish from penetration a bit more often but it’s usually not as intense. I wonder if there’s something wrong with me sometimes because most women almost have the opposite experience.
Right now I’m considering one of the Womanizers, either the Next (leaning towards this) or the Enhance or the Duo or the We-Vibe Melt 2. These seem the most enticing because of reviews of quality and they’re supposed to be pretty quiet and the and Next is supposed to only work with skin contact. I’m open to more suggestions as well, thanks!