I have a friends-with-benefits arrangement with a woman who is into BDSM and that sort of thing. So far, we’ve only had good, vanilla sex, but she told me she has a preference for BDSM and rougher play—specifically things like bondage, choking, and CNC (Consensual Non-Consent).
The problem is, I have absolutely no experience with any of this, though I’d really love to try it out with her; I just don't know how to get started. I figure the whole "dominance" vibe probably won't work very well if I keep stopping to ask her if I'm doing it right.😅
Should I talk to her about it beforehand, or do I just dive right in and start tying her up or choking her?
Basically, in a scenario where we’ve already started making out, do I just "take" her, or how exactly should I approach this?
I’d really appreciate any helpful tips! 🙂