Mommy stopped responding…
I recently sent a closing text to who used to be my mommy, since she has not responded to any texts I have sent her in a week. I’m mostly just a bit confused more than anything. She was a really close friend to me while we were in a group dynamic for a while, then after a shared poor experience with a dom, we decided to stay in contact.
Following this experience, eventually I chose to lean away from any sort of the domme side of me and let her own me. We both are switches, and both were supposedly interested in the dynamic shift. For a little bit it was great, and we loved the new speed and style of relationship we had. I trusted her, she knew my limits, and let me push them safely and comfortably.
Then, after having vanished for like 4 days, she finally responded to my texts. We had a great 2 days where we played around with hypno and switching and a whole bunch of stuff that I genuinely enjoyed, and thought she did too. But then after that night of play, she hadn’t responded to any texts, including the very next morning. A week later, still nothing.
So yeah… I don’t understand what happened. I apologized and miss her and hope she’s ok…
Then I found out today that she was texting other people. That technically is fine, we allowed each other to freely play with others so long as we kept each other as highest priority. So… that hurt a bit to find out.
If you’ve made it this far, thoughts, advice, support, suggestions, all of it is welcomed and appreciated. If the person I am referring to in this post sees it, please reach out privately and not in front of the internet should you want to reconnect. But yeah. Any amount of support or comfort would mean the world rn. Thanks…