u/Cautious-Opposite177

I am somewhat new to this world and would really appreciate some pointers from the group. From what I can tell this is a very supportive community and would like to lean into that if I could. I know my account is very young, but not sure what to do about that other than just continuing to show up and be a real one.

Where do folks meet people? As a male, there seems to be tons of fake accounts/OF/CC out there, but where are the real people?

Is it ideal to post regularly ones A/S/L, or is this seen as desperate and/or sketchy, as in fraudulent?

Lastly, are there other groups to join that I am not thinking about?

I really appreciate any input and apologize if this is in anyway inappropriate or asking too much. Much love.