u/Celina_moon

My boyfriend likes the idea of receiving a bj but he doesn't actually want me to do it because it feels demeaning for me, basically the action of sucking dick feels humiliating to him so he doesn't want me to do that for him. He likes to go down on me though and can go for hours. Personally I like the idea of giving him bjs because it's a form of control for me! I'm not gonna force him to accept anything he's not comfy with but I wanna know if any other doms or subs have experienced this and is there anything more I can help him with?

So recently my boyfriend told me that he would like it if I used a clicker on him, I know what it is and what it's supposed to do but I'm not so sure how to go about it 😅 Do I click right after he does something I like or while I give him the reward for behaving the way I want him to? This might sound like a silly question but I honestly have no clue 😭

To give more context, we have an established Dom sub dynamic and are both pretty kinky. Stuff like dacryphilia, somnophilia, cnc, pegging etc and if anyone has ideas on how to incorporate any of these with clicker training it'd be great!