u/Cellatid

I know this is a long shot, but I’m looking for someone who is:

- married and does not want to change that
- holds discretion as a high priority
- is looking for primarily physical intimacy because it’s missing from home; both eagerly giving and enthusiastically receiving
- treating that physical intimacy as something fun and understandably needed (for example, let’s take turns! Today, I just feel like a giver, and I’m going to treat you so well, pamper you, rub your neck and temples, and make you cum hard if that’s what you need, but if you just want to feel close without the fluids, that’s understandable and lovely too. Sometimes I just want that as well, but sometimes I just want to dominate hard.)
- open to catching feelings but with the bittersweet full understanding that the affair can never become something more than that (you’re my person and I’m you’re person, and that is special in its own fucked up way. We are all humans with beautiful imperfections.)
- understands that we’re both busy and have to prioritize our own families from time to time.

A little about me:
- athletic dad of young kids
- strong career
- pretty nerdy
- naturally introverted
- loves the quietude of nature and the mountains, but can appreciate those who love the opposite as well
- coffee drinker, brews my own tea
- highly creative and very passionate when it feels right
- highly educated but I don’t care if you are
- dominant

I’m kind of a straightforward problem solver type of person, and the way I see affairs is - it’s a type of solution. If we both want to have a positive experience and go about this in a smart way, if we can be discrete, if we want to keep things simple and fun, sexy, good vibes, then it can be something wonderful and meaningful in its own way.

Reach out, I’d love to hear from you.