Are we physically incapatible?
My bf (M37) and I (F32) have been dating for nearly two months now. We met back in October and dated for a while then but then I called it off. (Long story)
Every time we attempt to have penetrative sex, I stop feeling anything and it's really frustrating. It also makes me sad because there's all this build up for both of us and then.... nothing. And I know he feels bad about it and that's what makes me sad because I don't like hurting people.
I can feel everything else (foreplay) and it's very obvious I'm very turned on in those moments. So I don't quite understand why all feelings go away after about a minute or so, maybe less.
I don't like to compare and contrast but I've never had that problem with anyone before and he says neither has he. I do take paroxetine for depression and anxiety but again, I've been on it for over a year and with my ex I never had this issue. I feel like this might happen when you have sex with someone for the first time or the couple first times because of nerves or something. But him and I are way past that point.
I feel like he deserves someone who he can actually enjoy sex with and that might not be me. That maybe we would be better off as friends because we get along really well.
Has anyone else experienced this before?
Tldr: boyfriend and I might be incapatible because all feeling during sex goes away.