Pulsating Pain in outer hip/thigh area right before and during ejaculation
For the last eight years I have been "suffering" from a throbbing pulsating pain in the area where the thigh, hip and buttox meet. This pain occurs during sex in the seconds before ejaculation through ejaculation. It is horrible.
I am 47 now. At age 33 I got a vasectomy and age 37 I got a vasectomy reversal. Directly after the reversal, I felt fine but 6/8 months later is when my pain started i also developed peyronies at the same time. Since it started at the same time I developed peyronies- I feel like it is likely related. when I am having sex or manually ejaculate - right before the ejaculation comes and through the ejaculations- lingering for 30-45 min after, I have an extreme, muscle or nerve pain - right in my side where the hip meets the thigh and butttox. when looking at skeletol drawings, I believe there is something there called the Bursa. I went to the urologist, neurologist, pelvic floor PT, did MRI's
I am from CA. I went to a doctor in Florida, Dr. Sijo J. Parekattil who specializes in cryoablation of the spermatic cord, which is basically freezing nerves believed to have caused pain. I was skeptical but desperate and hopeful. The surgery was about 6k plus travel feels. The full recovery was about a month. The surgery did not help me at all. This is not to disparage Dr. Parekattil, we both knew it was a long shot, he thought he could help me, we gave it out best shot and it didn't work. The Surgery might have made it a little worst because I now feel a throbbing pain in the area where I feel the pain, even where there is no ejaculation. I was very disappointed but am starting to accept this is my life and doing all I can to adjust to my reality. I likely wont be able to enjoy sex again. Its a brutal existence - but what can anyone do?
This is on the pelvic floor thread but this could be a back issue or something else. I am desperate and open to any and all options.
To top this off - I suffer from POIS and I wonder if they are somehow related. I know there are so many in this world who suffer so I try my hardest to keep that in the front of my mind and be Thankful for what I do have.
I pray for relief. Has anyone went through anything like this where they were able to find a solution?
My last thought is this pain could be caused by the LCFN Nerve being tethered to scar tissue.
Please help me if you can?