How can I teach him how to make me orgasm with his hands?
After years of only being able to orgasm with a vibrator I have finally taught myself how to do it with my hands. I can do it by myself (need to have one hand working on the inside and one on the outside) or while he penetrates me during sex in missionary.
Because it only happens in missionary it means we end up always just doing the same thing which is getting boring. It also takes ages. I think if we were more successful with foreplay this would help.
I just can’t seem to teach him how to do it with his hands (oral doesn’t work for me as I need lots of pressure). I’ve tried verbal feedback and moving his hands but he seems to always revert to the same movement.
I don’t know if it’s because it’s a two hand job, or if it’s because I need a specific kind of pressure in a very specific place but what he’s doing doesn’t feel that good. On my own I can orgasm in about 10 mins but after 20 mins plus of foreplay I’ll be nowhere near.
Any tips on how to teach him?