(28F) Being denied made me squirt

My husband and I dabble in a lot of kink and bdsm related play, and recently he brought up the idea of denying me from orgasming for several days and keeping me edged the whole time.

For reference, we have a pretty active sex life and unless one of us is sick or life is just crazy we are having sex close to every day typically. So, 5 days without cumming for me is a lot.

Typically we would start a day off by him fingering me in bed for a bit to get me worked up. During the day I’d have to go and rub myself a bit here and there to keep me pent up, though honestly after 2 days just feeling my panties rub against my pussy was enough to make me ache.

Finally when it was time to end my denial he spent a good 20 minutes just rubbing me, fingering me, playing with my clit, etc.

He said I should cum while filled with cum, but it would be too hard for me to be fucked and not cum. So, he slid his cock into me and proceeded to “jerk off” into my pussy. That was humiliating but also incredibly sexy.

After that he got me right to the edge of an orgasm and then let me cum (thank GOD) by slapping my clit repeatedly.

We didn’t end there and had sex more. At one point I was riding his thick cock and felt legitimately stupid, like the only thing I was good for was taking cock. He started grabbing my hips and thrusting up into me really hard, and I ended up cumming and squirting on his cock.

The 5 days was hard but by god was that a good way to end it.

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u/CigarrosMW — 6 hours ago

(28F) Being denied made me squirt

My husband and I dabble in a lot of kink and bdsm related play, and recently he brought up the idea of denying me from orgasming for several days and keeping me edged the whole time.

For reference, we have a pretty active sex life and unless one of us is sick or life is just crazy we are having sex close to every day typically. So, 5 days without cumming for me is a lot.

Typically we would start a day off by him fingering me in bed for a bit to get me worked up. During the day I’d have to go and rub myself a bit here and there to keep me pent up, though honestly after 2 days just feeling my panties rub against my pussy was enough to make me ache.

Finally when it was time to end my denial he spent a good 20 minutes just rubbing me, fingering me, playing with my clit, etc.

He said I should cum while filled with cum, but it would be too hard for me to be fucked and not cum. So, he slid his cock into me and proceeded to “jerk off” into my pussy. That was humiliating but also incredibly sexy.

After that he got me right to the edge of an orgasm and then let me cum (thank GOD) by slapping my clit repeatedly.

We didn’t end there and had sex more. At one point I was riding his thick cock and felt legitimately stupid, like the only thing I was good for was taking cock. He started grabbing my hips and thrusting up into me really hard, and I ended up cumming and squirting on his cock.

The 5 days was hard but by god was that a good way to end it.

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u/CigarrosMW — 6 hours ago

28 [F4A] Illinois/online - being the wife that fucks her husband a lot makes me happy

I hear some of my friends complain about how often their husbands want sex, or want their dick sucked, and I’m like what’s the issue?

Having sex with my husband 5-6 times a week just feels normal, yet some people act like 1-2 times a month is outrageous.

Kind of a rambly post, but never really understood the complaints. Would be interested in hearing others thoughts

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u/CigarrosMW — 9 hours ago

28 [F4A] Illinois/online - being the wife that fucks her husband a lot makes me happy

I hear some of my friends complain about how often their husbands want sex, or want their dick sucked, and I’m like what’s the issue?

Having sex with my husband 5-6 times a week just feels normal, yet some people act like 1-2 times a month is outrageous.

Kind of a rambly post, but never really understood the complaints. Would be interested in hearing others thoughts

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u/CigarrosMW — 14 days ago

28 [F4A] #illinois/online - married men, did you fuck your wife on the first date?

Just curious to see how common this is! If not, how many dates in? Would love to discuss more :)

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u/CigarrosMW — 15 days ago

[F4A] casual nudity and sex scenarios

There’s something really hot to me about situations where nudity isn’t expected but ends up happening and the nude person(s) are very just “oh, I guess I am naked” about it. Whoever sees them like that may not have such a reaction. Maybe they are apologetic, try to be polite and look away, or can’t help but steal some glances.

So while walking in on your friends hot sister changing is fun, if she’s immediately covering up and telling you to leave, it’s less hot to me.

And a nude beach or sauna is hot too, and fulfills the casual/nonchalant aspect of it, you also kinda expect to see that going into it.

Imagine instead you’re at your friends house hanging out and his mom or wife just strolls through the living room topless. You do a brief double take to try and make sure that you’re seeing this correctly. She just smiles and says hi, like nothing is going on.

What do you do? Maybe your friend just kinda shrugs and smiles, he knows what you’re thinking but that’s how it is at home.

Likewise I extend this a bit further with sex. Say you have the same situation but you walk in on your friend fucking his wife. He’s just like “oh hey, go grab a drink I’ll be done in a minute.” It’s clearly not some porn logic scene where you’re invited to join, but also not a “oh shit get out” moment.

I’d love to discuss various scenarios involving the above themes, maybe with myself as the person being naked and unconcerned about it, or the person being exposed to the casual nudity.

Not really looking for a full on narrative driven roleplay, more of a discussion about the idea, different scenarios, how people might react, etc

Kinks include exhibitionism, nudity, public play, voyeurism, odd dynamics (like the idea of mom just strolling around nude), many more on the more hardcore/sex side which we can discuss.

Limits are the usual, no overt violence, blood, rape, most bodily fluids/waste (pee is a bit of an exception as well as the obvious ones like cum), foul smells, etc

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u/CigarrosMW — 19 days ago

28 [F4A] #illinois/online - older redditors, what was it like trying to jerk off/find porn back in the day?

Ideally I’d say I’d like to hear from people 50+.

We can learn a lot from more experienced people! And today I’m just curious, now a days it’s so easy to find whatever you want porn wise. Wanna watch some slutty college girl destroy herself with an absolutely massive dildo? Takes 3 seconds. Want just boobs? Endless amounts.

But surely back many years ago it was harder. And I’d like to hear about and discuss what that was like. I grew up with plenty of internet porn myself, so around my age probably won’t be able to answer what this was like, no offense.

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u/CigarrosMW — 20 days ago

28 [F4A] #illinois/online - have you ever physically picked someone up to fuck them?

Or had that done to you!

There was some confusion last time I made this post. I’m talking about being physically hefted up and held like that while being fucked. Not like a hookup!

Done this recently for the first time and would like to talk about it :) answer questions, etc

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u/CigarrosMW — 21 days ago

28 [F4A] #illinois/online - have you ever picked someone up and fucked them? Or had that done to you

Just experienced this for the first time over the weekend and wanna talk about it!

Not looking to meet :)

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u/CigarrosMW — 22 days ago

[F4A] what are the different types of MILFs/wives?

More of a discussion today.

Something based on a past discussion and it just generally appeals to my minds desire to categorize or label things.

Moms, MILFs, wives, they come in many different forms. Truly you couldn’t create a small list of categories that captures them all but in a broad stroke I think we can get there.

You have your “average” moms. Not hot, but certainly not ugly. Before getting pregnant she was probably more “pretty/cute” than anything and still retains a lot of that. Never lost all the baby weight but also some of that stuck around where you want it (tits, ass, thighs.) I feel like there’s something particularly alluring to guys about this type… and I’m curious why

Then you get your hot moms. Fit, on top of it, makeup always done and everything in order. They’ve always been this way. Honestly besides a few stretch marks or the like you could never really guess they ever had kids.

Your “invokes pictures of Venus, Aphrodite” types. Curvy, never attempted to shed any baby weight and you know what? Doesn’t matter. You wouldn’t want her to anyway. Soemthing about them screams “keep me pregnant.”

That’s just a few that pop into my mind. Most of these apply to wives as well as moms. If you like to discuss things as a sort of broad category please reach out!

I’d also be down to discuss this similar idea but for men/husbands if anyone likes that idea :)

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u/CigarrosMW — 25 days ago

Any experience/recommendations with portable sex swing mounts?

I am referring to something like this

https://a.co/d/0glo391T

Ideally I’d prefer to avoid those over the door frame style ones or something that takes drilling/mounting into a hard point. Something that could be pretty easily set up and taken down/stored discretely is ideal.

It would just be me and my partner using it. I’m a little hesitant to get something like that off Amazon but considering proper safety precautions I think it could be ok. Just curious if anyone has used something similar and enjoyed it, hated it, similar recommendations, etc

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u/CigarrosMW — 1 month ago

[F4A] the company culture at your new job is certainly different

“Here at TecCore we pride ourselves on our unique company culture. It really is everything and what sets us apart. It help creates a bond between our employees that you just don’t see elsewhere which is what makes our products stand out.”

The interviewer droned on and on. You sat there and nodded, looking at them on the computer screen during your video interview.

You’ve heard this a million times. Amazing company culture, we are like a family, blah blah blah. Oh god, do they have a pool table in the break room or weekly happy hours? Crazy sock day? Wow. It didn’t matter to you. You started to tune it out a bit. A job is just a paycheck after all really.

Rest of the interview goes fine. You ace the questions and a few days later you get the offer letter which you sign happily after seeing the salary number. It’s at least 25% higher than market rate for a fairly simple job. A couple weeks go by and you have forgotten about the spiel about company culture.

Orientation day is here! Woohoo. You arrive and get greeted by HR and badged into the building. Taken to a training room which is when you started to notice things seemed a little… different?

One of the presenters was wearing a top that barely left much to the imagination about her breasts and an equally short skirt and you swore and either didn’t have panties on or they were see through. But course you try not to stare, first day and all.

“So I’m sure you were told about our unique culture here, which we really do pride ourselves on. To help you get your feet wet with that, we welcome new employees with something besides a welcome basket”

She holds out a small bucket full of little pieces of paper. “Grab one” you reach in and pull one out, reading it.

“Oral sex from your presenter!”

“Oh! Oral! I love when new employees pull that one out” the girl is already getting on her knees and seems genuinely happy.

Hmm… yeah, not the usual corporate happy hour or cringe team building exercise.

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That’s a little sample for an idea I had recently. A company that takes a much different view on “culture”. The idea I had was basically an office that is one big freeuse fuck fest. Instead of some lame break room with a mini fridge, it’s a sex room with a bunch of toys. If you’re stressed about something you’re working on, someone will be happy to jump in and lend a hand. Or a mouth. Or a hole. Once a week there’s a raffle to pair two people up to fuck while others watch and cheer. Just silly and over the top stuff like that. Not super “realistic” but a fun fantasy.

My kinks are pretty varied and include freeuse, bondage, multiple partners, some pain play/rough sex, cum, like a lot of cum, group sex, anal, on and on.

Limits are mostly anything overly “gross”, so like vomit, scat, most pee, foul smells, super rough/violent, actual non con, you get the idea. We can discuss any specifics

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u/CigarrosMW — 1 month ago

[F4A] the no good teasy neighbor girl

Just want a mostly discussion today with maybe a little bit of rp thrown in.

But you know the type of girl I’m talking about in the title. Teasy, flirty, drives you up a wall but seemingly never quite lets it go “too far”

You swear she makes it a point to sunbath whenever you do chores. First few times are a coincidence, but you notice every time nearly without fail that you go to mow, 2 minutes later she’s out in her backyard in a bikini.

She seems to love to come by and pester you in the garage while you’re working on something. Asking questions, just hanging around.

Maybe she occasionally tells a story from college that seems to cross a few lines, but never anything too bad.

I think you get the idea. I picture the setting as a nice suburbia type, likely you’re a bit older than me and I’m tempting. What sort of things would really drive you wild? Would you ever make a move or just enjoy the tease? What would you fantasize about?

Kinks include legal age gaps, teasing, casual nudity, accidental nudity, voyeurism, edging, casually talking about sex, etc

Limits: anything overly dark or violent. Most bodily fluids except cum and spit etc, non con, bad smells, you get the idea. Anything unsure of just ask

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u/CigarrosMW — 1 month ago

[F4A] the company culture at your new job is certainly different

“Here at TecCore we pride ourselves on our unique company culture. It really is everything and what sets us apart. It help creates a bond between our employees that you just don’t see elsewhere which is what makes our products stand out.”

The interviewer droned on and on. You sat there and nodded, looking at them on the computer screen during your video interview.

You’ve heard this a million times. Amazing company culture, we are like a family, blah blah blah. Oh god, do they have a pool table in the break room or weekly happy hours? Crazy sock day? Wow. It didn’t matter to you. You started to tune it out a bit. A job is just a paycheck after all really.

Rest of the interview goes fine. You ace the questions and a few days later you get the offer letter which you sign happily after seeing the salary number. It’s at least 25% higher than market rate for a fairly simple job. A couple weeks go by and you have forgotten about the spiel about company culture.

Orientation day is here! Woohoo. You arrive and get greeted by HR and badged into the building. Taken to a training room which is when you started to notice things seemed a little… different?

One of the presenters was wearing a top that barely left much to the imagination about her breasts and an equally short skirt and you swore and either didn’t have panties on or they were see through. But course you try not to stare, first day and all.

“So I’m sure you were told about our unique culture here, which we really do pride ourselves on. To help you get your feet wet with that, we welcome new employees with something besides a welcome basket”

She holds out a small bucket full of little pieces of paper. “Grab one” you reach in and pull one out, reading it.

“Oral sex from your presenter!”

“Oh! Oral! I love when new employees pull that one out” the girl is already getting on her knees and seems genuinely happy.

Hmm… yeah, not the usual corporate happy hour or cringe team building exercise.

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That’s a little sample for an idea I had recently. A company that takes a much different view on “culture”. The idea I had was basically an office that is one big freeuse fuck fest. Instead of some lame break room with a mini fridge, it’s a sex room with a bunch of toys. If you’re stressed about something you’re working on, someone will be happy to jump in and lend a hand. Or a mouth. Or a hole. Once a week there’s a raffle to pair two people up to fuck while others watch and cheer. Just silly and over the top stuff like that. Not super “realistic” but a fun fantasy.

My kinks are pretty varied and include freeuse, bondage, multiple partners, some pain play/rough sex, cum, like a lot of cum, group sex, anal, on and on.

Limits are mostly anything overly “gross”, so like vomit, scat, most pee, foul smells, super rough/violent, actual non con, you get the idea. We can discuss any specifics

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u/CigarrosMW — 1 month ago

[F4A] you find a cute gal tied up in the woods

I wanna say for starters despite how a scenario like this could “realistically” go I want to keep it light hearted and more fun. Imagine that my character actually wants this.

You’re on a nice hike. Enjoying the warm sun on your skin as you move along the trail and take in the beautiful scenic mountain views. As you round a hook in the trail off the path a bit you think you see someone, maybe struggling a bit? Blink and you’d miss it, but you caught the glimpse and decide to investigate.

Pushing into the woods a bit you do a double take as you realize it’s a woman, tied up to a tree (or a rock, or something similar) and completely naked, or perhaps just scantily clad

“Hey! Hey… a little help?” I call out, though I don’t seem exactly desperate. “As you can tell I’m literally a little tied up here?”

Ideally I think it could be fun to have this play out as several different hikers coming by and exploring how they’d react. Does one just turn around and leave, assuming this is some kind of set up? Maybe someone decides to take a nice fondle of my boobs before helping me out (or just leaving me!), perhaps someone else wants more from me.

What else? Is there a sign on the thing I’m tied to that says “free pussy!” With maybe a cooler full of water or other refreshments near by for the tired hikers?

I think there’s quite a few different ways it could go basically

Kinks for this include bondage, free use, cumshots, being groped or stripped, multiple partners, and many more (just ask)

Limits, again, anything too dark or extreme. Smack my butt sure but dont just beat the tied up girl. No pee, vomit or shit. No blood. No hardcore degradation/humiliation.

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u/CigarrosMW — 1 month ago

[F4A] you find a cute gal tied up in the woods

I wanna say for starters despite how a scenario like this could “realistically” go I want to keep it light hearted and more fun. Imagine that my character actually wants this.

You’re on a nice hike. Enjoying the warm sun on your skin as you move along the trail and take in the beautiful scenic mountain views. As you round a hook in the trail off the path a bit you think you see someone, maybe struggling a bit? Blink and you’d miss it, but you caught the glimpse and decide to investigate.

Pushing into the woods a bit you do a double take as you realize it’s a woman, tied up to a tree (or a rock, or something similar) and completely naked, or perhaps just scantily clad

“Hey! Hey… a little help?” I call out, though I don’t seem exactly desperate. “As you can tell I’m literally a little tied up here?”

Ideally I think it could be fun to have this play out as several different hikers coming by and exploring how they’d react. Does one just turn around and leave, assuming this is some kind of set up? Maybe someone decides to take a nice fondle of my boobs before helping me out (or just leaving me!), perhaps someone else wants more from me.

What else? Is there a sign on the thing I’m tied to that says “free pussy!” With maybe a cooler full of water or other refreshments near by for the tired hikers?

I think there’s quite a few different ways it could go basically

Kinks for this include bondage, free use, cumshots, being groped or stripped, multiple partners, and many more (just ask)

Limits, again, anything too dark or extreme. Smack my butt sure but dont just beat the tied up girl. No pee, vomit or shit. No blood. No hardcore degradation/humiliation.

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u/CigarrosMW — 1 month ago

28 [F4A] Illinois/online - what’s something unusual you find physically attractive on someone?

Big tits, nice ass, muscles. Those are all a granted.

Legs, pussy, pretty cock as well. Even things like feet I’ll count as common.

Ever look at a girls belly button and just be like “oh I’m hard”? Or her fingers, nails, etc?

You get the idea, anything that isn’t the “usual” that gets you going id love to hear about :)

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u/CigarrosMW — 1 month ago

[F4A] your experienced slut gf teaching you sex

I reached my hands behind my back and fiddled with the hooks to my bra. After a moment it came undone and I slowly slipped the garment off my chest, revealing my tits.

I paused for a second and just let you take in the sight, studying every detail of your face. Your eyes were firmly glued to my boobs, like I didn’t even have a face.

“Well, what do you think?” I finally said, with a little giggle.

I’ve participated in complex bondage play, groupsex, been to bdsm dungeons and more. But still, something about being the first set of tits a guy has seen never gets old to me.

I step closer to you as you stammer out “the-theyre amazing” snapping from your trance a bit.

“Well, don’t be afraid to touch them. They aren’t sharp” I laugh a little at my own joke as your hand comes up and stops just an inch from my chest, like you’re doing one final check in that this is okay, before grasping them firmly and getting your first handful of tit in your life.

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That’s just a little sample of a possible scenario. But basically, very experience girl with an inexperienced partner. You wouldn’t necessarily need to be a complete and utter virgin, but like if you have had sex with multiple people probably not fitting the bill. Male, female, doesn’t matter to me!

Could be many ways to go with this. Maybe you absolutely love and adore the fact I’m so experienced and teaching you. Maybe it makes you jealous. Maybe you’re turned on by it and also jealous. Who knows!

Ideally I’d like to do this as a sort of mix of roleplay and conversation. Get a feel for the sort of things you’d like and different ideas you have and mix in bits of rp.

My kinks include inexperience, virgins, teaching, blowjobs, cumplay, rough sex (more performed on me generally), public sex, groupsex, bondage, some light cucking or sph can be hot and work with this.

Limits are mostly things like poop, pee, outright violence, blood, beast, bad smells (some body odor descriptions are good though! Like a musk), I think you get the idea.

Looking forward to chatting! :)

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u/CigarrosMW — 2 months ago

[F4A] you find out your cute crush is into what?!

Imagine you’re in that “getting to know you” phase of chatting with your crush. It’s all been pretty innocent up until now. Maybe a little light flirting and some compliments back and forth. You haven’t been sexual yet, maybe shared a kiss or two after a date.

One night while texting somehow or another the conversation takes a slightly more sexual turn and the good old “so… what are you into?” Question is popped. She seems a little shy or hesitant at first. You gently reassure her it’s okay and to please just tell you.

And the flood gates open a bit. It’s more than just “I like rough sex, like spank me and stuff”.

What is it you’d be shocked to hear? Would you be shocked and disgusted, or delighted, or a little taken aback but oddly curious? What do you hope her answer would be?

Basically looking to chat about that, not a full blown rp but a general kind of world building sort of deal where you finally get some of the details about the things your crush likes in bed and how you react to it, what things you’d hope for and what might be a deal breaker.

Obviously it’s best if it’s a bit more than “sucking dick” or something. My kinks are varied and pretty open, for this I’ll say broadly nothing illegal, extreme violence, vomit, poop, or other overly gross stuff.

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u/CigarrosMW — 2 months ago