MFM first time advice
Married for 2 years, together for almost 20 yrs.
We have talked about the idea of having a 3some or swap with another couple just for curiosity and fulfillment of a new fantasy.
One day came out the name of a co worker (male) and I noticed she wasn’t saying no but also neither accepting the idea. But I felt she had that curiosity of adding this guy.
We talked at work (wife doesn’t know) but he shows me a video of a partner he had and he is hung and that’s something we both agreed to find for a first time. But since I work with him I don’t want things to be awkward d after. So undecided if to just go with it or find someone or couple that we don’t know.
Also the agreement was to find another couple but of a guy or girl came before that will be ok too.
Honestly I think is harder to find a girl to add as a third. Advice.