When did Clinginess become my bare minimum?
I don't know at what point it happened, but one day I woke up and realized that neediness/clinginess is the number one thing I look for in a sub. Of course it's nice if they say "daddy" and they are into the same kinks as me. But more than anything else? I need to be on their mind. I want them to struggle to focus if they haven't heard from me in a few minutes. They will fold their arms and stamp their feet to the ground if I haven't given them the attention they crave.
Why did that become the thing I seek the most? Maybe it's a power thing...the notion that the other person can't properly function without my attention, my care, my guidance.
When a little jumps into my arms, wraps her legs around me like a koala and refuses to let go? That's all I need as a pleasure dom, because I know I am giving her what she really needs.
When I am between her thighs with my tongue and she grips my hair like it's a life preserver? That's her holding onto me for dear life while her world spins.
When she begs me to fill her? Her ankles on my shoulders? Begs me to breed her? It's because she wants my seed with her, my presence with her, at all times.