u/Confident-Soft1446

My wife and I had our first experience, and we both want to explore it again. The challenge is that she wants it to happen naturally like the first time, but I’ve told her that might be hard to recreate—we kind of got lucky since it happened on vacation at a resort. She feels weird about actively seeking people out online and worries it makes it feel more like a hookup. From what I’ve seen, though, a lot of people chat for a bit first or meet for drinks to feel things out before anything happens. Do you think that approach might help her feel more comfortable trying online? Also, I noticed she was recently looking at swinger R4R