u/Conscious-Cup5655

Hello everyone reading this. I'm M19

Sometimes when I'm horny I want to be dominated or like given femdom instructions on how to jerk off... But it's really hard to find anyone willing to do that. Onlyfans is mostly chatters and they're trying to suck all the money you have. Reddit on the other hand is easier, but I came across a problem of blackmailing I'm the community (I have been blackmailed twice) and now I kinda don't know what to do, because I want some real human, real connection but I am scared of getting blackmailed.

Is this a standing problem or am I just dumb and didn't figure it out yet?

Thank you everyone for replies!