u/ConsistentCook4106

Women today and the lack of skills

Women today and the lack of skills

I’m not here to talk down to women, but the younger generation has really missed out on much needed skills. I am speaking of home making, cooking, planning meals, a selection of good healthy unprocessed foods.

When I met my wife she was 37 and I was turning 51, she had zero cooking skills and after meeting her mother I understood why.

We drove to an Amish town and I picked up a 25 pound bag of hard white wheat berries, she looked at me all confused.

The next weekend, I showed her how to make her own flour from a hand grinder I had. I showed her how to make sourdough bread. She was even more confused because there was no sugar in the house. The only thing processed was a few spices I had. These were basic things her mother failed to teach her even though she was taught by her mother.

She knew absolutely nothing about meal planning or preparation. If it didn’t come from a box or jar, she was truly lost.

More confused, I did not buy meats from box stores but from local farmers, the same with dairy. I showed her how to make her own butter from raw dairy, watching the cream separate. A city girl going into chicken coops and picking up a few dozen eggs.

Again these are things her mother failed to teach her. I grow my own garlic, Siberian and elephant. I grow a lot of my own vegetables even today, as well as herbs.

So every year I buy a half side of beef eh about 2600 or so, I buy the whole Ribeye and cut my own steaks.

These are necessities women and men are not taught today.

A woman who is taught good skills can run a home efficiently and actually becomes easier once there is a pattern in place.

Until my wife had met me she had never held an iron. She didn’t understand why I bought coffee beans in bulk 5 pounds at a time. The same with meats in the end, it’s not only better for you it’s less expensive.

It was not my mother or father who taught me but my grandparents. The same with skillets and Dutch ovens nothing but cast iron in my house.

Times have definitely changed today and it’s mainly because of both parents working today.

Buying fresh meats you know what is in it how the cattle is fed, baking your own bread you know the ingredients, compound butters with herbs and more natural fat content.

My mother spaghetti was her specialty because it was cheap and easy but learning from my grandparents I knew at a young age what foods were bad and good. Every morning my grandmother got up at 4 am to prepare breakfast, at 6am there was a feast on the table.

Today one income homes are possible with the right planning and running an efficient home. You can actually eat better and cheaper with proper planning.

The above may not seem important but I’m speaking from nearly 64 years of experience.

u/ConsistentCook4106 — 5 days ago

Training my cunt

The positions in the photo I use nearly all on a daily basis.

Exactly 2 weeks after we met my cunt moved in, I was 50 and she just turned 35.

The first year she was not allowed on the furniture at all. This included when company was over as well. If I had company she was the maid for the evening as well.

While not allowed on furniture, she was also limited as to where she could sit, at dinner table she sat on floor next to me and this included if yes company was present.

I taught her how to sit like a proper woman, legs closed together and palms in lap. She was only allowed to speak when spoken to as well. In public she walked 2 steps behind me holding onto a belt loop.

She has to ask permission for anything she does including going to bathroom. I instruct when to shower and I inspect cunt to insure it’s smooth. Even in public she has to ask permission to sit, begin eating anything that requires movement.

I required her to keep a daily diary on her, if she left the house, she had to write,date, time and mileage of car along with destination arrival and mileage. Once her car reached a 1/4 tank of gas, she would inform me and I would fill it.

I used daily and hard explaining how she belonged to me while I was fucking her. She would spend 1 and 2 hours just slowly sucking cock. At times she would service in front
of company. At times I would just edge for a few days fucking her several times daily and each time, the hole was different.

What I was accomplishing was changing her whole mindset. The key was to remain consistent on a daily basis. After using her , I would not hold her or tell her how well she did, I just instructed her to shower.

It was amazing watching her personality slowly change and become what I had intended.

Every night for the past 14 years I’ve gone to sleep with my cock in her mouth and she remains until I’m fast asleep. There have been exceptions due to her being sick but other than that, there is no excuse.

Truly amazing

u/ConsistentCook4106 — 8 days ago

Why be a Trad wife?

Under the right circumstances being a Trad wife can be very rewarding.

First we as men need to make sure our wives have some type of security in place. Men expect the wife to be home taking care of everything. However what if something happens to you? The wife has zero work experience, bills to pay, adding a mortgage, yea doesn’t look to good.

Even though my wife works outside the home, but she had a PHD when we met. If something happens to me, I have an insurance policy that would set her up for life, mid seven figures. Security.

Being a Trad wife is not for everyone, not every female fits into that category. Some women want independence which I never understood. Work 40 plus hours a week, the average commute today is roughly a hour, do add 10 more hours a week being stuck in traffic. What do you end up with? No life, no time for yourself, no time to unwind and just let go.

What woman does not want security, stability, being a priority?

The most popular topic here is about how to use women, free use sex, how they should submit at all times which by the way is true. However, a patriarchal relationship runs much deeper than that.

I get pussy anytime I want, head anytime I want , if shes sleeping and I want to bust one I just crawl on top.

Not all traditional marriages want children, this is my second marriage, I have 1 child from previous marriage but neither one of us wanted children. It might seem selfish but we are free to travel myself being retired I go as I please, last week I gave my wife a days notice, hey I’m flying out to Portland tomorrow for a day. I was invited to tour a cast iron factory. We take 1 or 2 cruises a year, or Saturday morning I’ll wake her up and tell her to get ready, we are going somewhere, it may be for the day or overnight.

We attend a small southern Baptist church sometimes and is very patriarchal based. Not all the men there make 6 figures, a few 45K or less. They live a simple life and happy, money is nice but does not make your life happier. It’s the home and the relationship that counts. I know a couple who lives on a homestead both work the farm, both very happy.

I’m more about structure, controlling my home and environment. I handle issues before they become problems. That is what a man does, provides.

u/ConsistentCook4106 — 9 days ago

Patriarchy Lifestyle

This group is not a pick up group, if you are here posting repetitive looking for someone, I will remove your comment.

We are an educational support group, we are all here to learn from others and share what we know.

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u/ConsistentCook4106 — 14 days ago

Men why hide who you are?

I’ve always had a dominant personality going way back in my younger years.,I still road a school bus when I tied my first cunt up between two trees in the woods.

Yea I didn’t date much then but had a regular rotation going on. As I got older and bolder, I was always upfront about what I was looking for, the cunt either said yes or I was sick.

It wasn’t until my late 30’s early 40’s I realized I was missing out on something. Pussy was like weeds growing in the yard, plenty to go around.

I was 48 when I was introduced to my current cunt, and she had just turned 28. The difference with her was she knew what I was about before we met. I was not interested in a relationship, but after a few weeks of communication I agreed to meet her.

At that time I had let a homeless female move in with me. She was in bad health and I was helping her get on disability. Her only rent was cleaning up a little around the house.

The cunt showed up , we both were standing on the porch, she got out of the car in a micro skirt and see through blouse. Kelly said dude you’ll never pull that in. Well! 3 weeks later she moved in.

I actually have a full training program, at a younger age I was in the BDSM lifestyle. The lifestyle laid the foundation for my beliefs in the patriarchal system. However i was never into the kink side of things, i was more about control, structure and being very organized.

My approach was much different because i actually took the time to get to know the cunt. For weeks I would just let her ramble, while I’m soaking in information. In a short period of time, I knew her better than she knew herself, her thought process, her habits, her pitfalls, better than her friends or family knew her.

By doing so, it allowed me to get in her head, I could manipulate her thought process, change her habits and implement new habits. She’s going through changes and doesn’t even realize it. Totally changing her personality, her behavior. The way she walked, spoke , sit and ate.

She was open to her parents about our relationship as i was with mine. Even when we go visit her parents, she will ask for permission to sit or eat. Out shopping she remains 2 steps behind me, walking with hands clasped in front.

She voluntarily tells me everything and I mean everything. I just has a new AC installed and i was out, once he finished and she paid him with money I had left her it should have been done. Later that night she starts getting text from this dude, yea my mistake for putting both numbers on contract.
He’s getting all personal and had the nerve to ask her out. She immediately showed me the text. I called him and he denied it. Fucking incredible.

Anyway you have the ability to create the perfect cunt. You can mold her into anything you want. However you have to know who you are and what you want your house to look like. If you say something, then mean it, always keep your word.

In the beginning, use her and use her hard , this will remind her what her main purpose is. Let her know sex is not about her, it’s about you. Truthfully what do you care if she cums or not? Her pleasure should not be your concern, if she asks to cum throw her a vibrator. Her only purpose is to serve you domestically and sexually.

Don’t worry about what others think of your relationship, most of all your family, they are not paying your bills. Just be who you are, and if they disown you, what do you care?

u/ConsistentCook4106 — 15 days ago
▲ 82 r/1950sHouseholdWives+1 crossposts

Needing to serve is half the battle, it has to be a need not a want.

You have to listen and not just hear, those are two different things.

In your mind you already know 90% it’s just implementing your thoughts.

You must listen, observe and do exactly as you are told. When given instructions, follow 100% not 50%.

Cooking is easy just takes a little patience and being able to follow instructions. Never cook the same dinner twice in one week. Find a recipe on line research and implement.

Recognize you are property, recognize you are inferior and not equal. Recognize you were created for two purposes, breeding and pleasure. Recognize sex is not about you, it is solely about your man.

You must be in the right frame of mind, keeping the word submission in your mind. Your only purpose is the home, and keeping the man happy.

When you read a book, you are reading someone else’s opinion, you are reading their thoughts or life experiences that works for them. What works for someone may not work for you.

I’ve trained many cunts , I’ve even trained for other men which is enjoyable. At times breaking the spirit and other times training went smoothly. What training program works for one will not work for another, why? Different personalities, different habits, needs.

Often over time men grow soft or to comfortable in a relationship changing the dynamic. It’s important to remember she is there to serve be it domestic or sexually.

I had a cunt tell me one time she had a headache, so I said number one all you have to do is lay and spread and here is a geography lesson, I am at the other end of the continent nowhere near your head so just lay and spread here is two advil.

So the bottom line is you already know

u/ConsistentCook4106 — 17 days ago

We have hit 7.000 visitors a week now,that is a major achievement for a group that covers such a lifestyle.

The man who started this incredible group Main_Speech6883 is responsible for putting everything together.

The information shared here is actually a pocket guide to the lifestyle and a ton of information is shared. When it is good information and correct we praise, when wrong and incorrect, it’s removed and taken care of promptly and privately.

What makes a huge difference here is the majority of the men here are conservative and I’m not solely speaking of politics, but we live within a conservative nature.

Patriarchy refers to a social system where men hold primary power and authority. This lifestyle is characterized by male dominance in various aspects of life, including family, politics, and economics. In a patriarchal society, men are often seen as the heads of families and decision-makers, while women may be relegated to subordinate roles, impacting their participation in public and private spheres.

Authority Structure: Men typically have control over family and community decisions.

Gender Roles: Traditional roles often dictate that men are providers and women caretakers, reinforcing inequality.

Cultural Norms: Societal values often prioritize masculine traits and devalue feminine qualities, perpetuating gender stereotypes.

Being only two genders, the male leads and female follows.

This is so everyone has a clear understanding of the lifestyle and what we as males stand for.

Main_Speech6883 and myself would like to thank everyone here who is a member and those who visit.

You all are truly appreciated.

Leland

u/ConsistentCook4106 — 19 days ago