r/Patriarchy_Lifestyle

I find often times, when you belive in truth, people who are afraid label you as hate

I pride myself on intellectual honesty, on seeking and adhering to truth, and yet i get called so many nasty things by people who refuse to hear the truth

I get it, people who do hate will take the truth, twist it to their means, fracture and corrupt it beyond recognition by their hatred

But truth is important. Like jumping into a cold pool on a hot summers day

But as soon as that initial shock wears off, it just feels good to relax in the cool water, away from the oppressive heat

Men and women are different, and thats ok. Everyone is different, we each have different strengths and weaknesses.

And thats ok

Society should be comfortable letting everyone contribute with our own strengths, and supporting eachothers weaknesses

Men aren't superior to us women because theyre perfect, or better than us at everything, neither of those things are even true

But what is true, is that men are more consistent and stable emotionally, making them significantly better for longterm decision making than the average woman

But, conversely, men are more prone to anger from the same testosterone that makes them physically stronger than us women

And thats where our place as women comes in helping make decisions

Our strength isn't in leading, or having power, we're not strong enough for that

Our strength lay in how we can support our men, our emotional instability gives us perspective on how to be empathetic to the men, and they can rely on us to help temper the anger they have to deal with inside them every day

Good men know how to use their strength to be kind and gentle

Good women know how to use our empathy to work together

Society has always flourished when individuals were able to cooperate with our unique strengths, instead of competing to be the same one note slop

Thats not hate, its love for natural humanity

most my life ive really struggled with the romantic side of relationships due to mental illness, but it seems like ive just been mislead on how it really should be. the personhood given to me has never resonated, like in typical females where we usually feel we deserve it.
men who dont view me as equal validate something deep in me where i actually feel seen..

From what I’ve seen this page isn’t a kink page and you guys actually are in support of the patriarchy, when I grew up women were telling me how bad the patriarchy was for women, so I’m curious why do you all like it so much?1

I [34F] am ready to serve my purpose. I understand that I'm realizing it late, but I'm ready to have a man take ownership of my body and mind.

I want to have all the babies we can, serve you, be loyal to you and take care of you.

How would you handle me after being only with women my whole life??

Will you forgive me for being fat? Let me show you I can drop the weight.

When, (if ever) in your opinion do we females become “expired”? meaning, we have lost or have begun to lose the youthful worth we once had, I know some men believe it to be 25, others 30, and to some it’s never.

what’s your view?

thank you Sir’s.

A society where men rule and women are subdivided into two parts. Wives and whores. Wives are supposed to be virgins and remain loyal to their husbands while husbands have the sexual liberty to do as they please.

I really enjoy the idea of being manipulated into this dynamic. That it starts off as a joke and then transgresses into a test of loyalty and love I’d have for my husband by accepting his “transgressions”.

I love to think that my husband would be my entire world while I’ll just be a part of his.

Men would simply be superior and women would be lucky to be under their protection. I’d devote myself to my husband so much. I’d even cook food for him while he fucks someone in the bedroom. Or clean the sheets while they shower.

This idea reinforces that men will always be superior to women. A woman would play 2 roles : the wife would be the caretaker of his emotional and domestic needs and the whores for his sexual ones. Wives would have to take their husbands permission to even step out. Their only duty would be to cook, breed and take care of children and anything else the husband desires.

I also really like the idea of my husband wanting younger women as soon as I turn 30 or become pregnant. And him manipulating me into believing that him cheating is the only way I can show him my love and devotion during these “difficult times”

I want to obey a man but I don’t have one. I want to do things where I follow his instructions about whether I can cum/ rub my pussy. I really want to have sex but I want to get married first.

There is a concept in psychology called cognitive dissonance. Cognitive dissonance is the psychological discomfort you feel when your actions, attitudes, or beliefs contradict one another. This often happens when someone is confronted with new information or evidence that contradicts something that they have believed or been taught. We are experiencing a time of widespread cognitive dissonance when it comes to feminist indoctrination versus the reality that people see.

Feminism preaches a doctrine of equality between the sexes, the supposed evils of male aggression, the claimed crimes of male 'oppression', 'rape culture', the 'glass ceiling, and just general whining about the inequality of the world. These ideas are instilled into people's minds and reinforced through multiple different channels. The lies become essential parts of peoples' beliefs.

But then they see and feel the reality of natural patriarchy and the tendency of people, male and female, to accept a hierarchy of males above females in society, social relationships, and sexual relationships.

They see that men are historically the leaders. They feel a natural order of males above females. They recognize the tendency of females to crave rough and controlling partners. These differences between the indoctrination of feminism and the realities of history, biology, and psychology, can cause severe cognitive dissonance.

Relief and freedom come from accepting the realities of natural patriarchy, male superiority, and female inferiority. Accepting these truths and LIVING BY THEM is what can release our minds from the pain of confusion around gender roles.

Males: take your place above females. Act with Superior intellect, determination, decision-making, and aggression. This is who we are and who we are meant to be.

Females: learn your place at the feet of superior males. Allow yourself to live by your true cravings; to be controlled, dominated, trained, and used however he desires.

Peace will follow when we accept these roles.

I was raised in a very patriarchal home and within my culture the woman bowed to men to show respect and honor. How do modern men feel about this? would you be into it if your woman wanted to?

Hello Sirs,

For context I am a lesbian currently dating a bisexual woman who I plan on marrying. I have little interest in having sex with men, and yet lately I’ve been fantasizing about a man ‘adopting’ me and my girlfriend in a patriarchal arrangement. Obviously my girlfriend would have no problem serving our man sexual, but I would be somewhat hesitant. So Sirs, how would you personally handle such a situation?

I have a few ideas for arrangements in this situation below, but of course I am only a woman so please take these as conversation starters rather than real answers. Women are welcome to comment as well, but I will obviously be paying the closest attention to the Sirs’ responses. Thank you for your attention Sirs.

1. There are plenty of non-sexual ways to serve a man. While my girlfriend handles our man’s sexual
   needs I will clean, cook, make repairs, and generally keep the house in order.

2. While I will not necessarily be required to have sex with my man, I will be expected to sexually appease him in other ways such as serving as eye candy/decoration, cuddling, being groped, or having sex with my girlfriend for his viewing pleasure

3. I will be required to have sex with my man but only rarely and on a set schedule. This would server as a regular reminder of my position under him without requiring me to have sex with him beyond what is strictly necessary.

4. I will be expect to serve my man the same as any bisexual or straight woman would. My preferences are not more important than a man’s satisfaction.

This is part of my series about an education reform. This class is an advanced version of "Obedience and servitude to your husband" and it will not focus on sexual things, that's for an 18+ follow-up course.

In a proper patriarchal relationship, female obedience is foundational and non-debatable, it's the bare minimum. Even though it requires some effort from the female to obey, it ultimately comes down to following orders and instructions, often simplified for the female brain.

In order to step their game up, females need to take some initiative and anticipate what's expected of them. It requires carefully studying the habits and preferences of your man and making use of that knowledge in various situations.

When he comes home from work, the dinner you make should make his mouth water. After he's eaten and sat down to relax, you should know whether he'd prefer you rub his back or massage his feet. Whether to fetch him a beer or a glass of whiskey. What kind of movie or a show he'd like to watch etc.

Sometimes his input is necessary, he may change his taste or preferences. But ultimately, it's your job as a female to make his life easier, providing excellent service that fulfills all his wishes, ideally without him needing to say a single word.

In biology, there is a term for the differences between individuals of the two sexes inside the same species. It is *sexual dimorphism*, (di-: two, -morph: form). It encompasses the physical as well as the behavioral differences between males and females.

Many animals and even some plants demonstrate truly extreme physical differences between individuals of the two sexes. Lions, orangutans, gorillas, deer among mammals. Peafowl, Angler fish, birds of paradise are even more obviously different, male to female. Animals also show significant differences in behavior of the sexes.

Humans are absolutely included in the group of animals that show significant dimorphism, physical and behavioral. Body hair, facial hair, muscle mass, fat distribution (including breast tissue) are obvious physical traits that differ.

But even more than our outward differences, humans are vastly different, males and females. Due to the enormous social complexity in humans, we show equally complex cultural differences in sexual dimorphism.

Males are almost always the people drawn to, and capable of leadership on big scales and small scales. Men lead nations and they lead their female. Men dominate societal relationships and men dominate individual females.

Females are much more likely to follow and submit.

These are biological and long-known differences.

Sexual Dimorphism: possibly the best evidence to support patriarchy. And now you can use it in any discussion you might have with the misled or weak.

I know of some Men who are happy to have an intelligent wife, university educated even, perhaps even with her own career And her own money,

in contrast, I have a great aunt and a great uncle who are on the opposite end. of the spectrum, my great aunt cannot read beyond a first grade level, and knows no maths beyond basic addictions subtraction and multiplication. she never learnt beyond that when she was young and when her marriage to her husband was arranged he did not allow her to learn more than that, as he does not believe it’s necessary for a woman, and. thinks it may lead they to be rebellious. of course, that is very extreme and although they are both very happy together, that is a kind of marriage that’s almost impossible to have nowadays. but I suppose my question is, would you want it of you could have it? it’s of course a burden to take on, even now with her in her 60’s and him in his late 70’s, she is still reliant on him, but TIU can certainly see that it fulfills them both. Especially when he reads the bible to her, which, according to him is just about the only book he allows her to have access to.

some may call their marriage abusive, but personally, while it may be outdated, I find it quite sweet. And If I lived in a different time, I’d maybe even want a marriage similar to it myself.

I am trying to learn more cooking skills, be better at physical appearance, do the chores in the house. Is there anything I should absolutely be doing apart from these ? I’m currebtly also in university.

I was talking with a Man I know a few days ago and we somehow reached the topic of false allegations. as in, a girl lying and accusing a man of rape. he argued that the punishment for such a female should be even harsher than the punishment given to actual rapist.

His argument was basically that, in most situations, the crime of raping a girl isn't usually entirely on the man, often she has some fault too, by for example, dressing immodestly, putting herself in an unsafe station/place, or even leading the Man on. the Man, while in the wrong for using a girl that does t belong to him-is ultimately running on natural instinct and should be given some grace unless he injured her brutally or went after an underage woman. and he thinks a fine should be the punishment in most cases or a two year prison sentence at most.

however, he argued that in the case of a girl making a false accusation, there is no excuse. it can't be argued that her natural instincts led her to falsely accuse him, nor can she argue that something he did caused her to lie, rape is a mistake made in a moment of lapsed judgment, a false allegation is a calculated and sinister thing, and he even said that he would support life-imprisonment for any female who makes a false-allegation is the lie ruins the reputation/life of the wrongfully accused man. and even corporal punishment.

what's your opinion on this, Sirs?

I'm personally inclined to agree with him, as some who HAS been raped I'm the past, it really wasn't as awful and traumatic as most would lead you to believe, I didn't even feel the need to press charges against him, I think the punishment he would have gotten would have been far too harsh compared to the "harm" I suffered. But of course, some girls have worse experiences.

personally, I think in an ideal world a girl who lies about a man like that ought to legally bound to serving him for as long as he chooses, as compensation to him. but of course. that's too unrealistic to ever happen sadly. sorry for rambling sirs, thank you if you read the whole thing and shared your thoughts♥️

I was wondering under this lifestyle, do you feel like you are indebted to your husband because he is paying the bills and owning you. I hope to find a man who wants to own me and I’m trying to see how I can get prepared for that sexually.
Thank you