r/Patriarchy_Lifestyle

I'm not owned yet. Neither a virgin (had force sexual encounter in the past multiple times). I get extremely horny sometimes and start pleasuring myself which makes me feel guilty. In what ways can I control my desires?

Anyone know of any decent traditionally minded podcasts that highlight patriarchy

Do not call me oppressed.

I have been taught better than to mistake

a woman's freedom

for a woman's worth.

Give the throne to the man.

He was born to sit upon it.

Give him the name,

the house,

the bloodline,

the final word.

Let the woman enter quietly

and be grateful

that there is a place for her

at the edge of his world.

I do not want his throne.

I want the honour

of keeping it polished.

Let him command.

I will call it leadership.

Let him forbid.

I will call it protection.

Let him own the room,

the money,

the name,

the future—

and I will call myself fortunate

that he allows me to belong to him.

You call me weak.

No.

Weakness is a woman

who thinks she can stand

without being held upright

by a man's authority.

Weakness is a wife

who mistakes obedience for humiliation.

Weakness is a daughter

who questions the hand

that feeds her.

Weakness is a woman

who looks at centuries of men

standing above her

and arrogantly asks,

“Why?”

I do not ask why.

I lower my eyes.

A woman does not need to know

everything.

She does not need the burden

of deciding.

There is a strange peace

in surrendering the sword

and being told

which direction to face.

So yes—

let him speak over me.

Let him decide for me.

Let his anger fill the room

until my voice disappears.

Let his footsteps determine

whether I laugh too loudly.

Let his approval become the sun

and his disappointment

the end of the world.

What greater purpose

could a woman have

than learning to orbit a man?

You say I have lost myself.

But what was I supposed to be?

A woman without permission?

A woman without restraint?

A woman with a will

strong enough to rival a man's?

No.

I was raised to believe

that the moment a woman stands beside a man,

she has forgotten her place.

She belongs beneath.

Not because the ground is cruel—

but because I was taught

the sky belongs to him.

And if I must crawl

to keep him standing,

then let my knees bleed.

If I must bite my tongue

until it tastes of iron,

then let me call the blood

devotion.

If I must shrink myself

until there is nothing left

but a silhouette

shaped around his expectations,

then let me disappear beautifully.

For what is a good woman

if not a sacrifice

that learned to smile?

So do not pity me.

I chose this.

That is what makes the cage

so magnificent.

I hold the key in my hand

and still—

I lock the door myself.

Then I kneel before the throne,

press my forehead to the floor,

and whisper,

“Long live the king.

For without his shadow,

I was never taught how to exist.”

To the Sirs/Masters/Owners

How do you want your girl to be? An independent PhD holder who changes herself after marrying you, takes up your surname, stops working, cooks, cleans, carries and nourishes your children, loses her entire identity or a weak girl who has never had a say in her life?

We just ate dinner that I cooked of course. I began to do the dishes and clean up the kitchen and my man snuck in there behind me, pulled my panties and dress down, bent me over and fucked my pussy and ass. I guess a woman’s place really is in the kitchen.

Patriarchy

I do not ask women to believe they are inferior.

I make them prove they are not, every single day.

I tell them a man is born with authority and a woman must earn the right to speak. I tell them his voice carries weight while hers carries noise. When he interrupts, I call him confident. When she interrupts, I call her disrespectful.

I tell her she is too weak for power, too emotional for leadership, too delicate for danger, too complicated for freedom—and then I hand her the consequences of a world she was never allowed to control.

I tell her the man is the head.

The provider.

The protector.

The decision-maker.

And her?

She is the adjustment.

She is expected to bend around his career, his family, his anger, his reputation, his desires, his name.

If she succeeds, I ask who helped her.

If he succeeds, I assume he deserved it.

If he has many lovers, I call him experienced.

If she does, I call her ruined.

If he is demanding, he knows his worth.

If she is demanding, she has forgotten her place.

I teach her that being desired is more valuable than being respected. Then I punish her for being desirable.

I teach her to fear being alone so deeply that she mistakes dependence for love.

I tell her marriage is security. Obedience is virtue. Silence is grace. Sacrifice is femininity.

And if she begins to disappear beneath all of it, I praise her for being a good woman.

That is how I work.

Not with chains.

With shame.

With laws, customs, prayers, expectations, warnings, jokes, traditions, and mothers teaching daughters to survive the very cage they were taught to call home.

I do not need every man to hate women.

I only need enough people to believe that men should stand above them.

And for centuries, I have made that belief sound like common sense.

I am patriarchy.

I do not merely place women beneath men.

I convince the world that the ground beneath them is where they belong.

I started seeing a man who values female submission and subservience in a way I am not used to and make me feel a little fearful. He wants me to wear short skirts (I never wear anything above the knee) and to be free use among other things. Im worried I will not be able to satisfy him.

I am here to ask for advice from the Sirs and other females on how I can overcome my internal resistance to please him.

Being an older Dominant I've been reflecting on the older women I talk to have a deeper desire to submit as they've had to live unfulfilled as the leader in their life and relationship. After decades of this they want to take off their thinking cap, shed their responsibilities and find a man worthy to tell them what to do. I'm talking about women late 30's and older. The younger girls, lete teens and 20's I've found to be more focused on the fantasy but being young lack deep appreciation for a Dom to submit to compared to older women.

So being an older woman who's possibly had to be the strong one in your relationship, have had to make all of the decisions and keep the relationship and family together: do you resent the life you now have an yearn to find a man to not make you submit but that you need to submit to?

I might be considered weird here or something but there’s just something so endearing and submissive about worshiping your husbands or boyfriend’s feet. Like kissing it, massaging it, licking it, rubbing yourself against it, having it rest on your face or body.

Everything about feet worship just screams submissive to me and I’m someone who doesn’t have a foot fetish. It’s just the power dynamic aspect of it that I love.

With my ex, I used to massage his body while holding his foot up to my bare chest and then massaging it and sometimes by kneeling on the ground while he’s watching tv on the bed and massaging his feet from there.

Unfortunately things didn’t work out for him but I’d love to be even more devoted to my future partner this way. This is just a very small aspect of what I find appealing in a traditional patriarchal relationship

i unfortunately am not in a position to actually look for a patriarchal relationship, but i feel like I should make an effort to improve myself for when i am able to. i guess any daily rituals to improve myself, learn skills that could help me serve Men better or condition behaviours that Men might like. Also anything that can help reinforce my place beneath Men. I am still fairly new to accepting this, so I'd greatly appreciate any advice anyone can give.

This post refers to my previous one about language rules for patriarchal females. I was inspired by u/cravingdegradation by her comment, in which she said that her phone autocorrect made it hard to follow the lowercase "i" rule.

That made me think that we should have our phones' operating systems behave differently based on the user's gender. Different language and autocorrect rules should apply to females and men. Men would mostly be free to type how they want, whereas females would have restrictions placed on them.

For example, female phones would default to lowercase "i" and capitalized "Sir", "Men" and other words describing men. The use of the word "woman" would be banned or met with a strong warning. Words like "girl" or "female" would be encouraged instead.

If we go a step further, a simple AI could detect the context of the sentence and replace certain words or phrases. For example, in sexual context, the default for a female would be bitch, whore or cunt.

Oxymorons like "independent woman" would be changed to "delusional cunt", "smart woman" to "stupid bitch".

Those are only a few suggestions, but I think this topic could be explored a lot more. Feel free to add more examples in the comments, both men and females with new ideas.

hi there

i recently been seeing this guy who im positive is the one. he spoils me and i give back by respecting him, fulfilling his needs, cooking etc etc. except im lacking in the sexual aspects

he’s very touchy sexually and non sexual. sometimes i get hesitant and my body declines (too overstimulated) his touch except i want it so bad. how can i retrain my body and increase my likelihood of following through

we all know women are nothing more then sets of hole and pair of tits to be used for sex and to be dressed up anyway we want. here is a fun question for both men and women what is ur favorite way of using ur women in a none sexual way?

for me its having her give me a massage, read to me, footstool just to name a few