r/Patriarchy_Lifestyle

Should women vote?

I am a woman and been a former feminist for some months. I am still very new and trying to find my way. I have seen this discussion being brought up before but I would like to know your opinions. Should women be allowed to vote and if why not please share your opinion

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u/Adventurous_Bus_248 — 6 hours ago

I love men so much

I love the way they speak, the way they smell, and the way they carry themselves.

I love what they've created, I love their confidence and i love the way they know everything and are so gracious enough to guide me. I love what I can do for them.

I love that I can devote my body, my womb, my time and my freedom to them. I just love men lol I truly do.

I'd sooner obey a man I don't know than I would my own mother since I know she's just a cunt like me.

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u/Awkward_Sorbet9920 — 1 day ago

I am pro patriarchy despite all my success

I am an incredibly successful woman. Like really successful. Mostly because of my looks. People are literally paying to see me at cons. And i'm dating a very stereotypical macho who treats me more like property than an equal. Someone who at least financially is less successful than me and still feels superior to me simply because i am a woman.

And all my girls don't understand it. They always tell me i could get any guy, that i could find someone that treats me like a goddess. That i don't have to put up with a guy that's playing games, sometimes making fun of me and disregards my wishes and opinions. Someone who goes around telling his friends about my holes.

What they don't understand (they all struggle to find a man, i wonder why).

I love this guy.

It's incredibly freeing that he doesn't put me on a pedestal like everyone else and treats me like property instead.

I love that he makes me work for his affection instead of showering me with it by default like my fans do. That every "good girl" must be earned. I love the way he objectifies me and treats me like a fuckdoll instead of using velvet gloves because he is too afraid to fumble me. It makes me feel more like a desirable woman than guys begging to lick my boots.

Submitting to him makes me feel more safe and cared for than any guy "who would do everything for me". Because i know he would fight if someone tried something funny with his property. And i love that when i am at home, all my responsebilities are reduced to making him happy.

And no success in the world, no bad bitch girlboss moment can compare to waking up on a strong mans chest in the morning and his arms wrapped around my body.

I think many girls just don't understand what it's like because they haven't even tried dating such a man.

I do think womens right are important. Like the right to vote. Politically equality is important. But domestically? No, men and women are not the same and no male feminist ally in the world has made me needy for him the way a masculine man like him does.

I'm of slavic origin but living in western europe and something i think is funny, that slavic women i grew up with all are way more agreeable with me on this than more western women, and way happier too, being in similar relationships, which just makes me feel more like i am right about this

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u/Ok_Door5881 — 1 day ago

the beauty of patriarchy and why it matters: From a cunt that was raised in it

As someone raised in a very strict patriarchal home where women submitted to men and obeyed without question and were treated like queens with marriages that lasted forever. I always knew this was how nature intended love to be. The divorce rate in my families and friends homes were basically zero when following this lifestyle fully.
All the women in my family were extremely happy because they submitted themselves entirely to their man and put so much effort into making them happy and refusing to let themselves go like most modern women.

feminism treats patriarchy and submission like humiliation and leadership like oppression, but in the right hands, being led is what women truly desire. Deep down, our true nature is to submit and worship a man who knows how to truly lead. It makes us so wet knowing we have the ability to please and fulfill a man and it’s all we were born for.
We know deep down men are superior and that men built this country, while also protecting us and they deserve the best not half assed obedience, but true worship for all they sacrifice for us.

True patriarchy means giving control up. letting a man decide what you’re worth, which is likely not much. our bodies aren’t meant to be sold, they’re meant to be taken, used, raped, owned, and bred.

i personally don’t want freedom, i want to be fully stripped of it. collared, trained with a boot on my face and reminded every day that i have the privilege to serve and worship a king that chose me to be his subhuman servant.

I want to be owned, humiliated, kept naked on all fours in a slutty cosplay or naked*.* i want to be broken until all i know is his cock as my religion. and if i cry? good. it means i still have pride left to beat out of me

I don’t want to compete or try to be equal with the man who decides to own me. I want to trust him enough to let him lead without constantly questioning every decision or nagging him. There’s something so hot about belonging to someone strong enough to carry the weight for both of us and knowing he knows what’s best for me.

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u/petitewaifu___ — 1 day ago

Women's right should be men's rights.

I think it is generally a good development that women are able to be more and do more in society than in the past but the rights they gained during these developments seem to be continously mismanaged by women as individuals as well as by women as a group. Often not just towards frivolity but also towards the general detriment of broader society as a whole. I therefore suggest the reinstation of a system of male guardianship where men will effectively manage their women's rights for them towards more productive ends. Women could still participate in society mostly the same way as we would see now but their efforts would be aligned with the overall goal their man has for her and his family.

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u/MisterxCardinal — 1 day ago

He needs your obedience and your submission

The greatest mistake modern women make is believing they need to entertain a Man with their opinions. A traditional Man does not need your insights on politics, finance, or philosophy. He needs your obedience and your submission.

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u/CollectionRare2425 — 1 day ago

Looking to make friends into patriarchy and tradlife stuffs

Hiya!

Just as the header reads, I've been looking to make some more friends of any gender interested in patriarchy, 1950s, tradlife, etc!

While I am open to a friendship evolving, my main goal is just people to discuss things related to those topics and more in a platonic way 🫶🏻 big bonus if we have other things in common too!

Feel free to message me Sir's, ladies, if you'd like to be friends 🥰

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u/softest- — 2 days ago

What’s one of your favorite ways to remind a woman she’s inferior?

I have a lot of experience with Master/slave relationships, misogyny and kink. This isn’t just role play to me, I suppose.

Anyway. Personally, I love to sit down to a nice meal that’s a woman has cooked for me and not allow her to eat with me until I’m done. The woman needs to kneel next to me and wait on me, ready if I need anything like a drink or a napkin. When I’m done and she’s cleaned up my dinner, I serve the woman’s dinner in a dog bowl and let her know she’s allowed to eat now.

Another favorite of mine is relaxing after a long day, pushing her face into my asshole and telling her not to make a peep as she licks my asshole. Fully ignoring her, watching tv, scrolling through my phone, reminding her she’s just a nice little asshole cleaner.

Making a woman sleep on the floor at the edge of the bed or in a large dog bed is always nice too.

Doing these things doesn’t mean you don’t love them or care for them, it’s to remind them of their place in the relationship.

How about you, what are some of your favorites?

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u/oofughagh — 2 days ago

I love this sub! Finally a place where I can be myself

As a male I love this sub.

Finally a place where I can mouth my opinion that I believe that women should be considered property again.

Either of their fathers or husbands.

And that I believe that they were created to be used, to serve men and to pleasure them and carry on the mans lineage and bread mens children.

I am excited for the day when I marry and when I own my own woman that I can use whenever and however I like.

Everyday I would user her to have sex with her. When I wake up and after I come from work while she is serving in the house. Also in the night when I am in the mood.

And I would let her dress nicely to show them off to my friends as you show of property because that’s what she is.

I want to control every single bit of her entire life. I’m glad that women exist to serve us men and be used by us.

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u/QuitOk1561 — 4 days ago

I love my patriarchal tradlife ❤️

I always felt a little bit at odds with society in general and other girls my age specifically, because i always valued traditionally feminine things and most of all knew i've always wanted to become a mother at some point. When i was young i always dreamed of this cliche shining knight in armor who would come into my life someday and make me his.

in some ways, i strongly believed in gender roles.
That man are strong warriors and Farmers and that women are Caretakers, the entertainment after the work and future mothers.

And i love being feminine anyways.

But i've also valued my independence and womens rights a lot aswell, and i am in many ways a strong feminist too. I think what really puts me at odds with other girl has always been that i don't think being a strong woman and being a traditional woman are at odds. I mean i know my great grandmother was an incredibly strong woman, living through WW2 and taking care of her kids while her husband was in the war.

Anyways, i was always a little the odd one out when all the girls around me lost their virginity in hook ups and short team flings and pressuring me into getting laid aswell, and i was really uncomfortable with the idea of letting random guys touch me so intimately.

I saved myself up for the right one, but less so out of some sense of purity, and more so that i just disliked hook up culture.

As i got "older" (i mean im still in my early 20's), i realized what irks me so much about both feminism and all this new manlyness, whenever i saw guys talking about he need for pure virgins, or when i saw girls talk about the kind of guy they are into.

Basically everyone wants a Trad Spouse.
all guys want a submissive girl that takes care of their house and children
And all girls want a strong, masculine husband that can lead, provide and protect.

But nobody wants to be that themselfs.

Guys want that wife, but don't want to provide, and girls want a provider without giving back anything

And then i realized, of course everyone nowadays is single and can't find the right one.
And that's when i started to change my own attitude a little.

Like i said, i always wanted to be a little bit more traditional than others, but i realized if i want a genuinely good husband, i'd also have be a genuinely good wife and changed my expectations a little. That it's okay to be dependent on him if he treats me right. That i should be soothing for a man, not nagging him etc. etc.

And it took me a while, but eventually i was approached by a man who had the values i was looking for, and when we both carefully talked about our expectations on our first date, we connected so well, because we just ended up talking about the stuff i've just been writing here.

We very quickly became a couple and i had the time of my life. At first i still felt a little weird/awkward about giving up "control" in this relationship because it was an unusal feeling for me, but very quickly it just felt natural when i experienced first hand that he is a genuine kind of provider.

And so i became very quickly content and safe letting him lead this relationship. From deciding what we do on our weekend, when we do it (You know what i mean :p) and the larger development of our relationship.

My life genuinely feels so, SO much easier and more fun since. Like all my responsebilities in the world have been reduced to taking care of this amazing man that's taking care of me.

On our 1st anniversary he already put a ring on me :3

Probably because we worked out so well, but also because we both thought it'd be right to have kids while we are still young ourselfs because that's just better for the kids themselfs.

Currently he is renovating my late grandmas house when he isn't working and once it's done, we'll move in and start with our own family, and i am honestly so excited.

Thankfully he's earning very well (He's a bit older than me afterall) and we won't have to pay rent, so we already made up our minds that i'll be a full time wife and mom when it's all in place. I already quit my job, to help him a little with the renovation and doing the garden and other housekeeping work.

I genuinely can't wait for the day when me and my first to kids (out of more probably) can greet him coming home from work and eat the dinner i cooked for us all

I almost wish i could freeze myself until the house is properly done at least hahahaha

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u/Ok_Door5881 — 3 days ago

I’m a future doctor but the domestic lifestyle sounds more and more appealing to me…

I’m 26 and working towards med school. I’m planning on applying next year. I’ve never been with a man ever (I used to only like women) but I definitely have a type. Masculine, provider, strong and confident. It was embarrassing at first to admit to myself that I want an energy like that in my life.

I hate to say it, but even though my life is being devoted to becoming a doctor, I have lots of “domestic“ thoughts lately. When I meet a man I’m attracted to, it feels like a deep part of my mind just wants me to take care of him and produce children for him. A thought I literally have when I see a hot guy is “I want to have his babies”. It’s like there’s a new submissive and frustratingly lazy part of my brain that doesn’t care so much about my future plans and just wants to be comfy and cozy under the leadership of a man. It’s a bit disconcerting sometimes considering I always wanted to prove I was better.

I’m just a bit confused on what to do with these thoughts and wondering if they might get more intense over time or lead to something.

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u/Far-Bluebird-6470 — 4 days ago

A Case Against Women's Rights

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Nature, not prejudice, divides the sexes. Men and women differ not merely in anatomy but in psychology, cognition, and temperament: differences documented across cultures and confirmed by evolutionary biology. Men evolved as hunters, competitors, and risk-takers; women as nurturers, consensus-builders, and caregivers. These are not stereotypes imposed by patriarchy. They are adaptations refined over hundreds of thousands of years. A society that ignores this is not progressing but deluding itself.

For most of human history, the division of labor this produced was not oppression but optimization. Men assumed public roles because they were suited to them. Women managed the home and raised children because that work is foundational to civilization itself. The family was not a prison but the basic unit of social order. Rights, in this view, are not abstract entitlements but functional tools. Women did not need voting rights, property rights, or workplace protections because the men bound to them were obligated to represent and protect their interests.

Feminism dismantled this coherence without replacing it with anything better. Women entered the workforce en masse and birth rates collapsed. They delayed or abandoned marriage and loneliness became epidemic, for both sexes. They were told that career achievement would fulfill them and studies consistently show women today report lower happiness than their grandmothers did. The liberation promised turned out to be liberation into 60-hour work weeks, daycare dependency, and the erasure of the domestic sphere that once gave life much of its meaning.

From this perspective, women's rights are not superfluous because women don't matter but because the framework of individual rights is the wrong lens through which to view sex relations. Society functions through complementary roles, not competing individuals. When women are encouraged to behave like men (to prioritize career over family, autonomy over commitment, self-expression over duty) everyone loses. Men lose partners and purpose. Women lose children and community. Children lose stable homes. And the civilization that depends on all of this slowly dissolves.

The conclusion drawn is bleak but internally consistent: the extension of rights to women was not progress but a category error the application of liberal individualism to a domain (sex, family, reproduction) where it was never appropriate.

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u/GermanFatherFigure — 5 days ago