u/Throwaway-20-1

I might be considered weird here or something but there’s just something so endearing and submissive about worshiping your husbands or boyfriend’s feet. Like kissing it, massaging it, licking it, rubbing yourself against it, having it rest on your face or body.

Everything about feet worship just screams submissive to me and I’m someone who doesn’t have a foot fetish. It’s just the power dynamic aspect of it that I love.

With my ex, I used to massage his body while holding his foot up to my bare chest and then massaging it and sometimes by kneeling on the ground while he’s watching tv on the bed and massaging his feet from there.

Unfortunately things didn’t work out for him but I’d love to be even more devoted to my future partner this way. This is just a very small aspect of what I find appealing in a traditional patriarchal relationship

My bf started cheating on me a few years back and initially I was upset but it slowly turned into it being my fault for not having sex regularly and for being fat etc. he then slowly conditioned me into believing that a one sided open relationship is the best thing for us even after I had lost the weight.

He now fucks whoever he wants and I stay loyal to only him. I even pay for his hotels and dates and clothes at times.

We’re long distance for now.

He doesn’t like it if I watch and just wants to humiliate me emotionally and psychologically.

Can u suggest some innovative ways to do it?

One of it is was for eg, when I was visiting him, he once took me and his other girlfriend on a car ride, had me bring coffee from the store for them while they made out in the car and then had me stand outside facing away while they fucked.

A similar one was him having me wait in the car downstairs while he went on a date with his side chick. And then they’d come back and would ignore me completely while making out in the back as I drive them both home.

Please suggest some new ways to me, I don’t want him to get bored of me and leave, it lately feels that way. What are some other ways I can keep him interested, he really likes demeaning and degrading me

My bf started cheating on me a few years back and initially I was upset but it slowly turned into it being my fault for not having sex regularly and for being fat etc. he then slowly conditioned me into believing that a one sided open relationship is the best thing for us even after I had lost the weight.

He now fucks whoever he wants and I stay loyal to only him. I even pay for his hotels and dates and clothes at times.

We’re long distance for now.

He doesn’t like it if I watch and just wants to humiliate me emotionally and psychologically.

Can u suggest some innovative ways to do it?

One of it is was for eg, when I was visiting him, he once took me and his other girlfriend on a car ride, had me bring coffee from the store for them while they made out in the car and then had me stand outside facing away while they fucked.

A similar one was him having me wait in the car downstairs while he went on a date with his side chick. And then they’d come back and would ignore me completely while making out in the back as I drive them both home.

Please suggest some new ways to me, I don’t want him to get bored of me and leave, it lately feels that way. What are some other ways I can keep him interested, he really likes demeaning and degrading me

For both men and women. What are the circumstances when either should be allowed to cheat and what consequence should they face (if any)?

Women should belong to their male partners ONLY. Women shouldn’t be free use for strange men. Idk but I’d like my man to be very possessive of me. This of course is only for the wives or girlfriends and not for mistresses or prostitutes etc.

I’d like my husband to be extremely possessive of me and control almost every aspect of my life. I’d be fine with him wanting to share his mistresses with other people if he wished though.

But even for that, it cannot be completely free use for strange men.

Why on earth would a master want THEIR submissive to be used by someone without his permission?

A society where men rule and women are subdivided into two parts. Wives and whores. Wives are supposed to be virgins and remain loyal to their husbands while husbands have the sexual liberty to do as they please.

I really enjoy the idea of being manipulated into this dynamic. That it starts off as a joke and then transgresses into a test of loyalty and love I’d have for my husband by accepting his “transgressions”.

I love to think that my husband would be my entire world while I’ll just be a part of his.

Men would simply be superior and women would be lucky to be under their protection. I’d devote myself to my husband so much. I’d even cook food for him while he fucks someone in the bedroom. Or clean the sheets while they shower.

This idea reinforces that men will always be superior to women. A woman would play 2 roles : the wife would be the caretaker of his emotional and domestic needs and the whores for his sexual ones. Wives would have to take their husbands permission to even step out. Their only duty would be to cook, breed and take care of children and anything else the husband desires.

I also really like the idea of my husband wanting younger women as soon as I turn 30 or become pregnant. And him manipulating me into believing that him cheating is the only way I can show him my love and devotion during these “difficult times”