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This is part of my series about an education reform. This class is an advanced version of "Obedience and servitude to your husband" and it will not focus on sexual things, that's for an 18+ follow-up course.

In a proper patriarchal relationship, female obedience is foundational and non-debatable, it's the bare minimum. Even though it requires some effort from the female to obey, it ultimately comes down to following orders and instructions, often simplified for the female brain.

In order to step their game up, females need to take some initiative and anticipate what's expected of them. It requires carefully studying the habits and preferences of your man and making use of that knowledge in various situations.

When he comes home from work, the dinner you make should make his mouth water. After he's eaten and sat down to relax, you should know whether he'd prefer you rub his back or massage his feet. Whether to fetch him a beer or a glass of whiskey. What kind of movie or a show he'd like to watch etc.

Sometimes his input is necessary, he may change his taste or preferences. But ultimately, it's your job as a female to make his life easier, providing excellent service that fulfills all his wishes, ideally without him needing to say a single word.

This post derives from my previous one about a reformed education system, focusing on the class in the title. I'll provide a summary of what should be taught in this class.

The fact that females must dress according to their husband's/boyfriend's rules needs no explanation. But what should she do when still unowned? Men have different tastes, but there are some preferences that they have in common. These preferences reflect the basic rules of appearance for females:

• Work out and keep a healthy weight. Be slim and toned, not overly muscular. Focus on lower body, especially your butt.
• Wear skirts or dresses. Pants are discouraged, but if necessary, they should be tight-fitting and highlight your curves.
• Remove body hair below your eyebrows and keep your skin smooth.
• Keep your hair long, take care of your nails, eyelashes etc.
• Your body language, manners and other non-verbal actions play a huge role in how you're perceived. Behave in a feminine manner.

These are of course approximate and aim to please the largest group of men possible. You could "specialize" in a certain way, aiming to attract a specific type of man. I'll give two examples that are pretty much polar opposites, to illustrate the point.

Traditional girl:

• Wear sundresses and other feminine, but not revealing clothing
• Keep your features natural, don't get plastic surgery
• Your makeup should be soft and minimal (but still done carefully)
• Be bubbly, smiling and inviting

Whore:

• Wear high heels, short skirts, skimpy tops - cover as little as possible
• Consider fake tits, lip fillers, rhinoplasty etc.
• Wear a lot of makeup, fake eyelashes, long nails
• Be promiscuous, slutty, be an easy fuck

There are billions of men, each with their own type, so no matter what path you choose, you will attract a lot of men, as long as you work hard for it. The most important thing to keep in mind is that you're not doing this for yourself, but for men and their viewing pleasure.

The fact that the current school curriculum needs a reform is pretty obvious, the debatable part is how to do it right. I'll approach it from the patriarchal perspective and design it so that it compliments what parents teach at home.

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First of all, classes should be separated by gender, mostly. The very basics of literacy and math should be taught to both genders, but after that is where it should split.

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Boys' curriculum doesn't need to be altered much, apart from adding classes teaching useful life skills like leading the household or some practical physical skills. Otherwise they're fine to learn academics and grow up to be scientists, businessmen, leaders etc.

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Girls' curriculum however needs total restructuring. After they learn the basics, these are the classes that should be taught:

- Cooking and inventing recipes

- Efficient and non-disturbing cleaning

- Raising and nurturing children

- Obedience and servitude to your husband

- How to be humble, apologetic and grateful in a relationship

- Dressing and altering your body to the male gaze

- Anticipating and fulfilling your husband's needs and desires (non-sexual)

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After the girls become 18 years old, classes about sexuality are necessary too. Like how to please a man, unimportance of female pleasure and orgasms, how to be sexually down for anything etc.

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I thought about making separate posts for some of these classes and providing more details. That might be interesting too.

To reinforce the patriarchy in our society, future generations must be raised right. Since parents are the first people that their kids look up to, it's up to them to establish traditional gender roles within the family, so that the children can later extrapolate them to their adult life.

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Mothers should teach their daughters servitude and submission to the men in their lives. That means they should focus on cooking, cleaning, raising kids and serving their husbands in whatever way he wants, fulfilling his every wish. Daughters should be humble, silent, apologetic and obedient to every man in the family - that includes brothers, if they have any, even younger ones.

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Boys need to learn from their fathers that they are to provide for their family and lead them. They are the ones that will make decisions, so they need to think carefully and responsibly.

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That kind of education at home is what's missing in order to get us back to a properly functioning society.

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P.S. I was thinking of doing part two about education in school. It's been covered quite a bit already, but maybe some of you want to hear a different take.

Feminists spend a lot of time trying to push the narrative, stating that females don't dress for the male gaze, but rather for themselves. While obviously false, an owned female should not only dress for the male gaze, she should dress for a specific man.

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Your visual presence should be pleasing to his sight and he should be able to control it however he wants. He likes you in dresses? Go and pick a cute one. You think you look cute in dark hair, but he prefers blondes? Make a hairdresser appointment.

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If you would rather dress in comfy clothes that day, ask yourself: would he prefer you wear sweatpants or a mini skirt and heels that turn him on? You can't be lazy, because that will kill the feminine inside you. And to be feminine, you gotta put in the work to make his head turn when he sees you. It's a small sacrifice, that will make his day and probably get you a good pounding as a reward.

Apology is a great tool for a female to show her humility and deportment. It's an important part of her day-to-day life and her willingness to apologize is equally important.

A female should apologize quickly and frequently. It shows awareness of needing his guidance and demonstrates her respect for him. She should also apologize for things he didn't witness, like breaking a plate when he's at work. It shows she can be trusted and freely accepts his punishment, which will help her become a better version of herself.

An apology doesn't always have to be about things she has control over. A well-behaved female will apologize for things like his car breaking down or him having a bad day at work. It's not her fault, but her apology is a good way to calm down the situation and defuse some anger.

Overall, a habit of apologizing even for the smallest things is a great virtue for a proper, humble, patriarchal female.

There's no doubt that a patriarchal leader needs to be a man that is strong, wise, decisive and caring. In return, the female gets structure, security, clear purpose, protection, etc. while being obedient and serving him. That's a win-win situation, right? As it turns out, often just on paper.

A proper patriarchal dynamic, to me, isn't a partnership where both parties' needs are balanced on some imaginary scale. It's asymmetrical by definition and it's supposed to stay that way. I'm not saying he should take advantage of her and get high on a power-trip, that's what weak men do. But there needs to be a hierarchy of needs, where mine come first and she should be happy to support and satisfy me first.

The phrase "happy wife, happy life" is especially popular among boomers. They're a perfect example of a generation that was raised right, but boomer men let their women walk all over them. Not in every marriage of course, but they marked the beginning of an end of an era.

There's a thin line between being aware of her needs while leading and tipping the whole dynamic to her side. I've seen it many times:

• "A good man is a provider" - she starts valuing his wallet more than him
• "My submission to you is a privilege, not a right" - he becomes a soft dom, almost submissive himself
• "I need aftercare" - the whole act becomes about her

The answer is to never cross that line. Find the right female, be unapologetic and stand your ground. And to the females who still think like that, life isn't a BDSM scenario in which you get prioritized. Your value is in how well you serve me and how humble you are while doing that.

This one is sexual but I think it's necessary to put out there.

Much focus is being placed on female sexual pleasure and especially female orgasm, even lack thereof. Female orgasm denial has spawned entire subreddits and other communities based around it.

I think this approach is doomed to fail from the get-go, when viewed from a patriarchal point of view.

Whether you want to grant or deny a female her orgasm, she is inevitably put in the center of attention. I've seen in countless times, where females proudly brag about the number of days they went orgasm free. Or how their men make sure she doesn't cum during sex.

My approach personally is that I truly don't care about your pleasure and orgasm. That way you can stay both denied and humble and focus all your attention on me, not your explicit denial. I'm being pleasured and you're not being acknowledged, looks like a win-win situation to me.

This may be unpopular among some men or females but I think the current approach is truly spoiling females involved in it. I'm open to discussion regarding this topic.