How do lesbians fit into the Patriarchy?
Hello Sirs,
For context I am a lesbian currently dating a bisexual woman who I plan on marrying. I have little interest in having sex with men, and yet lately I’ve been fantasizing about a man ‘adopting’ me and my girlfriend in a patriarchal arrangement. Obviously my girlfriend would have no problem serving our man sexual, but I would be somewhat hesitant. So Sirs, how would you personally handle such a situation?
I have a few ideas for arrangements in this situation below, but of course I am only a woman so please take these as conversation starters rather than real answers. Women are welcome to comment as well, but I will obviously be paying the closest attention to the Sirs’ responses. Thank you for your attention Sirs.
There are plenty of non-sexual ways to serve a man. While my girlfriend handles our man’s sexual
needs I will clean, cook, make repairs, and generally keep the house in order.While I will not necessarily be required to have sex with my man, I will be expected to sexually appease him in other ways such as serving as eye candy/decoration, cuddling, being groped, or having sex with my girlfriend for his viewing pleasure
I will be required to have sex with my man but only rarely and on a set schedule. This would server as a regular reminder of my position under him without requiring me to have sex with him beyond what is strictly necessary.
I will be expect to serve my man the same as any bisexual or straight woman would. My preferences are not more important than a man’s satisfaction.