And well... I managed to become a spectator-husband during my wife's bisexual intimate encounter. It was a total pleasure watching her enjoy herself and climax at least five times with her friend... I learned how to touch her and make her enjoy it like that just by watching.
Well, the question remains. After three outings my wife has had with her friend—two of which ended in intimate encounters—is it time to ask if I can join in and get approval to participate?
It’s that time of night when my wife still hasn't returned from her outing with her friend; a few minutes ago, she sent me a text saying she was already on her way home. I think she’s finally taken the next step... My stomach is churning with anticipation, waiting for her to tell me about it. My question is: Should I let the moment pass and not ask her anything? Or should I start asking questions?
To continue with my line of questioning... my question is this: If my wife already has it in mind to get intimate with another female partner, how do I let her know that I want to watch—to observe that hidden desire she possesses—and that I want to see her act on what she mentioned to me about sharing a girl with her?
Thanks, everyone, for your comments. First off, the idea of setting the mood by asking that cheeky question—"Remember what you were saying about interacting with a girl?"—actually worked. She just thought for a moment and said, "Yes, I remember. Would you like to see me like that?" To which I replied, "Yeah, why not? I’d love to." We had a pleasant dinner two days ago, and she told me all about the girl in question—a coworker of hers—as well as the conversations they have and their interactions.
I am a man, and my wife is bisexual. A few years ago—after we were already married—she confided in me that, at some point down the road, she would like to try something with another woman. She was explicit in telling me that she would also like me to be present and to participate alongside her—something along the lines of sharing the moment together. That idea has now popped back into my head, and my question is: how can I get her to remember it and actually put it into action?