u/Crazy-Thoughts4667

How do I (M) test the waters with engaged friend(F)?

A friend of mine is engaged. Once, years ago, we drunkenly talked about being kissing buddies. But we never talked about it again for whatever reason. I just chalked it up to a stupid drunk night we both had, even though I was the one who brought it up. We got distant for a while due to life being life and started reconnecting recently. Everything seemed to be getting back to normal.

Then, I looked at her on her new socials.

Two thirds of her pics are pretty normal. The other third are of her showing a decent amount of skin.
Bikinis, tight gym clothes, the works. She even will pose in these tight shorts of hers while looking over her shoulder at the camera and make a point to stick her ass out.

Like any other horny guy who has had too many edibles late at night, I started liking a few of these pics. I liked some safe ones just to have some deniability. But I’m sure it was obvious what I was doing. One time, I even commented and said how good she looked in one of her more "booty-full" photos. She publicly liked it, but didn't write anything.
I mentioned how good she looked in one particular outfit privately a different time. I think that doing it this way helped because she thanked me this time and used WAY too many exclamations.

So yeah. I'm testing the waters with my engaged friend. Anybody have any advice for how to test the waters here? Anyone ever have any luck with this kind of situation?

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u/Crazy-Thoughts4667 — 5 days ago

Good movies with cheating?

Who doesn’t love a good sizzling romance on screen? Especially if it involves cheating.

I was talking with another person from this sub (Hi!) who recommended Babygirl to me. Not only did it feature a woman having an affair with her subordinate at work, it also featured quite a bit of Anthony Banderas (who played the husband)’s bare chest! It was a fun and fairly steamy watch.

Has anybody else seen the movie? Or have any cheating movie/TV show recommendations? A TV favorite of mine is Kelso cheating on Jackie with Laurie on That 70s Show!

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u/Crazy-Thoughts4667 — 5 days ago

What made you finally think to yourself, "I'm going to be a cheater,”?

As someone who has helped people cheat, sexted with cheaters, and had a cheating d @d (can’t write it normally without being auto-flagged), I’ve always been curious about the other side of the coin. What made you finally embrace cheating? Did it happen while reflecting upon an impulsive night? Or was it more drawn out, the end of an ongoing issue that just became unbearable?

Happy to listen! I’m all ears to you wonderful cheaters!

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u/Crazy-Thoughts4667 — 8 days ago