So I'm going to her apartment for the first time, and we've already agreed we're going to have sex. Do you guys usually bring a small gift the first time you go to a woman's place? If so, what do you usually bring?
Okay, I had a date with this girl a couple of months ago, and I messed it up because I didn't escalate. At the time, I was in a bad mental state and lacked confidence. Before that, on most of my first dates, I ended up bringing the girl home.
Anyway, last week I texted the same girl and offered to drive her back to the city where we live after a wedding we both attended. She agreed, and after a few hours of driving, we stopped in front of her apartment. I brought up our previous date and admitted that I had made a mistake. She turned to me and said, "Okay, I'm listening." I replied, "I don't have anything to say," and then I kissed her. She kissed me back and seemed to like it.
We agreed to meet again, and my question is: should I start escalating over text and make the conversation a bit more sexual, or should I just wait until we see each other in person?
I just wan’t to start approaching, but cannot push myself into the fire and do it consistently. Not that i never approach, but most of the time i am just using situations where its already set up, like in the gym or similar. I am considering to hire a coach and push myself all the way through comfort zone, any suggestions?