u/CuriousAfterDark18

My fiance and I are wanting to explore D/s and BDSM dynamics, but we're both complete beginners. One thing we've discovered is that he really likes being called "Sir," and I like the idea too, but I always feel awkward or can't find a natural moment to use it.

For those with experience, how did you ease into incorporating titles like "Sir" or other D/s elements into your relationship? What beginner-friendly things helped you explore the dynamic without feeling forced or like you were playing a role?

Also, if you could give one piece of advice to a curious couple just starting to explore BDSM together, what would it be?