u/CuriousHotMadre

Just updating my wife’s night last night. Started a new post because the original was getting really long. So if you’re just now reading this, you’ll have to go back to my original post to get up to speed. We’ve had a lot of great feedback from everyone and she has been following my posts and your comments along the way. She did say my post was really good and she is enjoying keeping up with it. 👍

So she danced with the 25 yo several times and was really into him. Apparently he was with a group of several guys. There was another guy in that group she was really digging too. He was 28 yo. She danced and chatted with him as well. It was getting close to midnight and some of the girls in the group were ready to go home but the bar didn’t close until 2 am. My wife was having a great time and obviously wasn’t ready to leave so she was a little bummed. She excused herself to the ladies room so we could talk. She told me they were about to leave and she wanted to give one of her notes to one of them but she didn’t know which one to give it to. So I just simplified it for her. “Which one do you want to fuck more?” She replied, “I really like the 25 yo the most.” So I said, there’s your answer and where is the note? She said” it’s in my hand and I’m about to walk out and give it to him on my way out of the bar.”

I cannot remotely explain the excitement I was feeling in that moment. My heart was racing. Hands trembling a little bit with extreme butterflies. It’s like a state of euphoria. It’s hard to explain if you’ve never experienced that. My wife has NEVER done anything like this before. She’s just never had the confidence like that to pursue a man. Plus we’ve been together since school, a total of 35 years, so there hasn’t been many opportunities for her like this. This was without a doubt the most daring thing she’s ever done. She also was excited but extremely nervous. I reassured her before she walked out the bathroom that she could pull this off.

So, she leaves the bathroom and walks over and slips him the note. She said he seemed surprised by it but very interested. She told him she was about to have to leave so hit her up sometime. Remember she’s with vanilla friends so she’s doing all of this incognito. She gets back over to the table thinking that the group is ready to head home but the plans changed. My wife and 2 other girls weren’t ready to leave so they ended up staying while the rest of the group returned home.

Now she feels like she’s in a quandary. She gave the guy the note because she thought she was leaving. Interesting predicament. They get back to the table and he noticed she was back and immediately came over and started flirting with her in front of the girls. She said she had to pull him to the side and calm him down before he busted her out. 😂 I’m not sure what happened after that with him. She seems to think she may have scared him. She hasn’t received any messages from him yet but I bet she will. I’m not clear, but I think he kept his distance after the talk. He will be in for a nice surprise if he does reach out to her. She has some sexy pics for him ready to deploy 😈.

She did end up dancing with the 28yo some more that night. Not sure if she gave him the other note she had but I don’t think she did. She was feeling really good. I could tell she was having a great time. When you’ve been together as long as we have I can just feel her energy. Even in text messages. I knew she was feeling really confident and that really winds me up.

As the night wore on she was getting really buzzed and I wasn’t getting any updates. So I’m sitting here wondering and waiting. What she’s doing? Maybe she is dancing and pushing her tight little ass up on this young man’s hard cock on the dance floor. I did tell her that if she was brave enough to take his hand and guide it up that short skirt to her sweet peach and then reach down and grab his cock and feel it grow in her hand. She never said anything so I don’t think she actually pulled that off.

As the night got later the messages were few. Which was fine. It added to the excitement on my end. It made my mind race thinking about her being a naughty girl for Daddy. Then I received a text from her when the bar closed that they were in a cab headed home. That was it. No details on who was in the cab or anything like that. So again my mind was racing thinking about everything. I text her and told her I would be up until I knew she was home safely and to let me know when she was home. I stayed up waiting and waiting. Nothing from her. I checked Life 360 and it said she left the bar but it didn’t show her home and wouldn’t update. I’m not going to lie I was worried and really anxious. This was totally out of character for her to not check in at bed time. I finally dozed off and was back up in an hour checking my phone hoping to see she had made it home, but nothing still. I will say the cell service at their house is sketchy at best but they do have good WiFi so that’s why I couldn’t understand why she wasn’t getting my messages or responding. I laid back down but couldn’t sleep. I heard my phone ding about 8am. It was her. Damn was I relieved. The most precious thing to me on this earth was safe at home. She said that her WiFi got turned off at home unbeknownst to her so she wasn’t getting my messages and she did actually send me a message last night when she got home. I got it this morning when she turned her WiFi back on. 🤦‍♂️ For context, my wife is a blonde and a little dingy on occasion. She got a little scolding but not too bad.

That was a recap of last night. I can’t wait until I get to actually talk to her and get all the details about the night. I asked her this morning if she enjoyed herself. She said she did. A lot actually. She said it was fun and hot but it didn’t make her as wet as she would have liked. 😜 She really did say that. Shes a keeper. Love her candidness.
I told her that’s why I suggested she move his hand up her skirt because I know what gets her wet. But hey this was the first time for her to be this bold and I think it went extremely well. I’m more than happy to say the least.

It would be much easier if she wasn’t having to navigate all of this in private from the group. Trying to keep everything incognito is adding some stress for sure. But I think she’s doing exceptionally well.

So we’ve done this sorta thing before but she never let herself really get into it like she has on this trip. She’s went to restaurants before where the clientele is mostly men, dressed sexy. Men will hit on her but she gets nervous and hits the door. 😂 This has been a big step for her. Let me rephrase, a big step for US. I don’t know that she will ever turn the hotwife fantasy into reality but the confidence that she has gained from this really lights my fire. Definitely one happy husband sitting here this morning. Especially after I knew she was safe at home. 🤦‍♂️

Now my mind is thinking about when she gets home. First thing I want to do is reclaim my pussy. That will happen immediately when she gets home. I promised her I would abstain from relieving myself manually of any tension while she was gone. 😝 Before she left, she told me to be a good boy and save it all for her. So far, I’m still staying strong but she’s making it really difficult. I’m definitely rolling ideas around in my head for our next challenge for her after she returns home. Thinking about going to a club or something with a good vibe. We live in a college town so there’s plenty of those. She’s been opposed to younger guys in the past but I think after last night she’s warming up to it. I want to sit across the bar and drink my beer and watch her so the guys think she’s alone. I dreamed of being a fly on the wall in that bar last night!!! Damn that would have been fun to watch in person. Those guys grinding up on her tight little ass and watching them check her out. I’m getting hard right now thinking about that scenario!! Geez. Fun stuff!!

Today they are having a pool day somewhere. It’s essentially a pool party. Live DJ, music, dancing and drinks. To my record I think she still has one note to give out so I bet there’s a great chance that happens today. 🤞

Will be updating again when I get more scoop. Thanks for all the positive support. Hopefully some of you are enjoying this as much as I am. Check our profile because I will try to post pics of her attire for the day.

Edit: I’ve posted a few pics on our profile of her dress attire. Someone just informed me that our profile was locked, but it’s fixed now. Not sure how that happened. Enjoy.

I shared my hotwife fantasy with my wife about 5 years ago. To my surprise, she was somewhat intrigued by it. She agreed to try a few things to see if it was something she would really be interested in. So during this time she has posted sexy pics on here and other sites. At one point, we even had an OF account. Shes had phone sex with several guys and even play sessions with a few guys on video chat. Those were some hot sessions. And a lot of of them she recorded for me and I love to go back and watch those. These are some of the things that she’s experimented with, but ultimately, she has never found the comfortability to go all in and turn it from a fantasy into a reality.

I’ve communicated to her many times that although it is my fantasy, it’s not something that I would want for her to do unless she was 100% on board and turned on by the scenario. The kink in it for me is her pleasure. And if she’s not really comfortable with the situation, then it is highly unlikely that it is going to be a pleasurable experience for her. If it’s not pleasurable for her, then it’s certainly not going be pleasurable for me.

So, I just dropped her off this morning for a week long girls trip. They have several nights planned to go out dancing, a few pool days at the casino and a lake day on the boat. She packed a lot of sexy attire. Attire that will definitely get a lot of attention. Lots of sexy swimsuits and mini skirts. I’m super pumped up right now. She was looking phenomenal this morning. She had on some really short blue jean shorts and a really nice tight fitting tank top. She is really tan and in phenomenal physical shape. She is amazingly sexy.

Before she left, I gave her a couple of challenges for this trip. The first challenge, was to have some pre-written notes in her purse that she can give to a guy if she finds one that she’s really attracted to. She wrote the notes out last night and let me read them. It was a very short and sexy note, but basically just stated her interest and with her tele information. I have her do everything through tele for safety reasons. She does have permission to do whatever she desires, but I’m not anticipating on anything really crazy happening. But, you never know.

One of her GF’s is single and loves guys of the well endowed variety. Her friend has a guy that she used to hook up with on the regular. He’s a little younger and apparently well hung. I would say around 30 years old. Her friend has told her about how well equipped he is and that he knows how to use it. My wife loves these stories. One night, about a year ago, they invited us to go out and have some drinks at a bar with them. My wife and this guy talked a lot. Just friendly conversation and banter, nothing naughty but I watched them all night and I could tell he was very interested in my wife. I already knew by our conversations about him that she was very attracted to him. Her friend no longer sees this guy so we were trying to search the guy online to try and possibly set up a date but we couldn’t remember the guy’s name. So as her second challenge, I told her to try to initiate a conversation with her friend to get the guy’s name so we could try to look him up and make contact with him. She doesn’t feel comfortable, sharing our kink with her friend and wants to do this on the down low. So we will see how this works out.

Update…………. As I was writing this post, I just received a message from my wife with the guys’s full name. She hasn’t had a chance to search him on social media yet but she will. I told her “that didn’t take long.” 😜 She’s only been gone about four hours and already one challenge complete.

I would like to add, for the guys out there, like myself, that have this fantasy. It truly is about patience and playing the Long game. If this never actually turns from fantasy to reality for us, I will still be good with it. Even the fantasy has been a tremendous amount of fun for us. It’s added a lot of heat to our intimate life.

I’ll post updates if she’s able to get rid of those notes that she has locked and loaded her purse. I told her that I posted this so I’m quite sure she will be checking out the comments periodically.

Another update………., things were looking bleak for the evening. She text and said they had dinner at a place that was supposed to have music and dancing but it was really dead. They were thinking about heading home. But they asked around and got a tip on a different bar so they are there now. Much livelier crowd. She said she spotted a guy that appeared single and he was hot. So I encouraged her to chat him up and give her some pointers on how to get his attention. For reference, she’s wearing a mini skirt that literally is an inch below her ass cheeks along with a slinky tank top. (I’ll post a pic on our profile now) she’s smoke show. So the guy actually came over and asked her to dance and she did. She said he was sexy and a great personality and 25 years old. 😆 but she’s really digging him. She’s thinking she’s going to give him a note with her telegram info. 🤞
When she finished dancing her friend told her to pull her skirt down because her ass was showing the entire time she was dancing. 🥵. So the whole bar got a show. She was nervous initially but now she’s really having fun with this.