u/Curiousity223344

52 M4F Utah The perfect OA kind of ruined us

We’ve all (or at least some of us) can recall that perfect amazing online affair we had. The conversation clicked. The flirting started slowly and sort of had a slow build. The pics were hot. Wild attraction. Chemistry. The butterflies. The “feelings” started to happen.

Then, it ends. These things usually do. But since we have tasted that pure bliss it is now a constant search to find that again. But, what happens? We end up starting and stopping with the next connection. We get ghosted, we get burned, we get disappointed. We are constantly comparing this new connection to that one GREAT ONE. We keep mistakenly thinking the next one will be the one. We keep starting all over again.

However I do still believe despite all the challenges that a great online affair is out there. Waiting.

I’m 6’1” 225, white, husky but not fat, good looking, funny, inspired. I’ve been married for 23 years and it’s just not working. Friendship yes, romance and passion no! I could be that guy you think about. That you love chatting with. That makes you forget about your dull marriage.

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u/Curiousity223344 — 6 days ago