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After years of no condom with my wife we have to start using them again. Problem is I now have trouble finishing with them on and our organisms are very far apart. How do you want your partner to finish when he takes much longer than you?
For more context, we have spent a lot of time improving our communication and exploring her areas. She can now orgasim reliably but sometimes it takes me much longer with the condom.
After sometime, sh asks me what I need to finish. Which is a position with more friction or she offers a BJ. She still seems to be enjoying sex after the orgasm so sometimes we stay in a position that may get her another.
Sometimes we have limited time so Is it ok to take her at her word knowing it’s not her favorite position?
u/Current-Field3123 — 7 days ago