Discussing kinks/fetishes with long term partner. TIA
I (29m) have been with my fiance (29f) for about 8 years now. I was her second partner and she was rather “new” to sex when we first started dating. Shes not an overly sexual person at all and frankly has a very low sex drive (we have sex ~3ish times a month).
I’m naturally a very sexual person and although I’ve adapted to the quantity of sex we have, it’s a little vanilla for me which she knows about. I have a foot fetish and she’s actually been extremely cool with it and enjoys satisfying me.
I have some other kinks/fetishes but I don’t know how, or if, I should bring it up. I have a really big cuckolding fetish as well as a femdom/SPH fetish. She has no idea about either of them.
She knows I have a chastity cage, we’ve used it once or twice but she doesn’t really understand it.
How, or should, I even bring up the other fetishes / kinks I have? The cuckolding one is certainly more serious so I’m not going to just ask her to sleep with someone.
Thanks in advance