Punishments and what it entails?
What are some creative punishments your daddys/masters/doms have done to you that are effective? Does the punishments fit the crime?
Im only asking because Daddy uses some of my yellow boundaries for punishment which I have agreed to and im comfortable with, i mean we arent supposed to like it but is that a regular thing? Im a new sub so this is all new, daddy isnt. He likes pushing my boundaries with punishment and I have yet to say my safe word (during punishment). We have a lot of rules, mostly the ones I break are habits im trying to stop.
Example, i am to shower twice a day to be ready for Daddy to take at all times. I did not shower the other day when I woke because I woke up late and had to get going. When I got home, daddy was there and tried to take me. I told him I had to shower real quick. He took that as me denying him (offense one) He asked why and told me its not hot out (an exception to having to shower before hand) and I explained I woke up late (one habit, offense two) and wasnt able too (showering and self care is something I struggled with in the past due to depression) so (habit 2, offense 3). He demanded i undress right then and there. I complied and he led me into the shower turned on the cold water full blast and told me to wash so I did. He then turned the water off, had me kneel and pissed all over me while telling me how dirty i am, then he turned the water back on and had me wash my entire body again in cold water.
Im not big into degradation or pee play so that is an effective punishment for me for not showering.
Denying him was the biggest offense, what daddy wants, daddy gets right then and there. The punishment is usually him taking all of my holes roughly, claiming me. But that day we didn't have any other obligations so I was tied to the bed for a few hours and was used as he pleased while covering me in his cum which was really hot but I was sore after from being tied up that long. He did other things around the house while I was tied up which I HATED because there was no attention on me and im just laying there nude and alone for 15-20 minutes at a time until daddy built up stamina to cum again.
He showered me after and babied me (he babys me all the time), which I do love. The aftercare is always phenomenal and its hard to have any negative feelings about anything that happened. He explains to me softly how its done out of love and how he wants me to be the best version of myself but that I am also his.
I have a 9pm bed time now so I do not over sleep anymore until daddy says otherwise.
Another rule I have broken a few times is cursing outside of the bedroom. This is to help me feel better perceived outside of our house. When I break it, I bite a bar of soap.
These are things I have agreed to and are truly effective for my personal growth.
But im curious if there are any other punishments that I can bring up to daddy that would help. Hes very creative himself so this is strictly for my curiosity. I wouldnt say im a brat and do things on purpose to get punished, trust me, I do what I can to avoid them but I know im going to continue to mess up, im not perfect but its important to me I have personal growth and I undestand thats the ultimate goal for both of us. Id love to know if anyone can relate and to hear stories and examples.