u/CustardComm4853

advice/personal experience. hey everyone! i have lurked on fa and other subreddits for a bit recently and ended up making this burner account to discuss more. i am trying to figure out what id be considered in this community. i (23f butch lesbian) have always been intrigued by fat women. for context too i am a bigger person in general, i am 5’11 250-260lbs (depending on the season haha) and go to the gym frequently so i would say i am big but not necessarily fat (as i’ve been told). anyway, i realized i was very attracted to big bellies and think of them when getting myself off. i had some experiences with a skinny woman last year (24f) and, alongside other things, i realized i just wasn’t attracted to her like i am to fat women. now, i am with my current girlfriend (24f) we just hit 9 months together) is 5’1 and 240lbs and carries it beautifully. her breasts, belly, and ass are/is so soft and plump. i ended up telling her that i am kind of into this community, but i don’t think i am interested in being a feeder myself, but I do enjoy some of the content. i also wouldn’t mind her gaining a little but i wouldn’t tell her that. ironically enough i ended up gaining 20 pounds in 3 months when we first started dating haha. she knows this about me and is accepting but is not interested herself. i just don’t want to creep her out or anything or for her to think i am objectifying her. i love her for who she is and her being built the way she is is a (wonderful) bonus. in terms of feedism, i think it is moreso a fantasy to be with an ssbbw for me rather than something in real life, but i don’t know maybe that will change one day. i do think it is more than a preference for me though for sure and is a kink/fetish. i just don’t know how to classify myself and feel a bit lost. if anyone has any advice or similar experiences/thoughts i would really appreciate it :) thanks.

advice/personal experience. hey everyone! i have lurked on fa subreddits for a bit and ended up making this burner account to discuss more. i am trying to figure out what id be considered in this community. i (23f butch lesbian) have always been intrigued by fat women. similar to what others have said on here, i grew up watching cartoons and videos and replaying scenes of characters getting fat. around puberty i stumbled into feedism content when looking for videos of fat women and would get off to it. when i started dating, my first girlfriend weighed more than me and that unexpectedly turned me on. for context too i am a bigger person in general, i am 5’11 250-260lbs (depending on the season haha) and go to the gym frequently so i would say i am big but not necessarily fat (as i’ve been told). anyway, i realized i was very attracted to her belly and would think of it when getting myself off or when we were together but i kept it to myself. flash forward a bit and i had some experiences with a skinny woman and, alongside other things, i realized i just wasn’t attracted to her like i am to fat women. now, i am with my current girlfriend (we just hit 9 months together) is 5’1 and 240lbs and carries it beautifully. her breasts, belly, and ass are/is so soft and plump. i ended up telling her that i am kind of into this community, but i don’t think i am interested in being a feeder myself, but do enjoy some of the content. she knows this about me and is accepting but is not interested herself. i just don’t want to creep her out or anything or for her to think i am objectifying her. i love her for who she is and her being built the way she is is a (wonderful) bonus. in terms of feedism, i think it is moreso a fantasy to be with an ssbbw for me rather than something in real life, but i don’t know maybe that will change one day. i do think it is more than a preference for me though for sure and is a kink/fetish. i just don’t know how to classify myself and feel a bit lost. if anyone has any advice or similar experiences/thoughts i would really appreciate it :) thanks.