22m dom can't find a real sub here

This place is full of fake and horny people. They are not looking for anything real or long term. Once they cum, they disappear, and that's if they even get to the point of actually doing what the Dom asks or completing a task

They say hi and then disappear. They chat for hours and then disappear.

Even when they say, "I want something long term" and all that, they DON'T. It's just their horniness talking. Once they nut, it's all gone and they disappear

The other day I posted a very detailed post with specific requirements that I clearly said were non-negotiable. A sub messaged me, and it was like he hadn't read a single requirement

And if, by some tiny chance, we actually talk and have some fun, they disappear the next day. Before anyone says that's expected because they only wanted a session, I always make it very, very clear that I'm only interested in something long term, and they still say yes

Some subs expect you to read their minds and magically know what they like or don't like without communicating it. You tell them to do something, they disappear. Then when you ask where they went, they say, "I don't like doing that," and disappear again

Just communicate. Say what you like, what you don't like, what's on your mind. People are not wizards who can read minds

Seriously, what is wrong with this place? If you are not a real sub and all you want is to bust a nut, then DON'T WASTE PEOPLE'S TIME

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u/CuteStand8008 — 2 days ago

22 [M4M] can't find a real sub here #online

This place is full of fake and horny people. They are not looking for anything real or long term. Once they cum, they disappear, and that's if they even get to the point of actually doing what the Dom asks or completing a task

They say hi and then disappear. They chat for hours and then disappear.

Even when they say, "I want something long term" and all that, they DON'T. It's just their horniness talking. Once they nut, it's all gone and they disappear

The other day I posted a very detailed post with specific requirements that I clearly said were non-negotiable. A sub messaged me, and it was like he hadn't read a single requirement

And if, by some tiny chance, we actually talk and have some fun, they disappear the next day. Before anyone says that's expected because they only wanted a session, I always make it very, very clear that I'm only interested in something long term, and they still say yes

Some subs expect you to read their minds and magically know what they like or don't like without communicating it. You tell them to do something, they disappear. Then when you ask where they went, they say, "I don't like doing that," and disappear again

Just communicate. Say what you like, what you don't like, what's on your mind. People are not wizards who can read minds

Seriously, what is wrong with this place? If you are not a real sub and all you want is to bust a nut, then DON'T WASTE PEOPLE'S TIME

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u/CuteStand8008 — 3 days ago

22M dom looking for a sub to own and control || long term only

Hey boys

About me

I’m a dom who knows exactly what he wants. I’m kinky, calm, direct, and obsessed with control. I don’t yell, bark orders, or throw around names just to sound tough. My dominance is quieter, deeper, and way more effective.

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My style of dominance

I love slipping into your head and staying there. You will feel owned even when we are not messaging. I want your full focus and your total submission.

I’m into control, edging, denial, chastity, throat training, anal, posing for me, humiliation, pain, workout control, pup play, and a lot more.

These are things I enjoy, not mandatory requirements. If something isn’t your thing, just tell me.

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A glimpse of what It will be like

You are sitting with friends at a cafe, having dinner at a restaurant, or stuck at work. Your phone buzzes. My name appears.

I tell you to excuse yourself right away, find somewhere private, pull your pants down, and stroke slowly. No rushing. You edge quietly, leaking, heart pounding, knowing you have to go back out there and act normal with your cock throbbing and your mind completely owned by me.

Deep down you’ll fucking love that secret, being controlled by a real man, dropping everything the second I say so.

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What I’m looking for

A submissive who knows his place. A boy who gets turned on by giving up control, not because he is horny, but because it feels like his purpose.

You are excited to please, respectful, honest, and obedient. Experience is not necessary, but real willingness is.

Face is a must. You will also send photos and videos as proof when I tell you to.

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How this will work

You will have daily check-ins, rules, tasks, and regular instructions. I control your pleasure, when you touch, how you touch, and whether you’re allowed to cum.

Good behavior gets rewards. Breaking rules gets punishments.

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Next step

If your cock is twitching and you want to be mine, message me.

Be direct and put in effort. Tell me about yourself, why should i accept you as a sub, your experience, what turns you on most, and anything you really don’t enjoy.

DONT JUST SAY HI. PUT SOME EFFORT INTO YOUR MESSAGE, OR YOU WILL BE IGNORED.

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u/CuteStand8008 — 4 days ago