Any advice on figuring out what type of dom works for you?
So for a bit of context a little over a month ago now I had made the decision and had a long conversation with my domme about our dynamic and we eventually decided it was better to end things... After that I started reflecting and had realized that in those ~3 months that it pretty much wasn't working at all for me even tho I still liked how most things were but after looking back on it I noticed that I don't think I had what I may have needed.. but the issue is idk what I actually need, mainly because I'm new to being a sub, and that had been my first dynamic so I knew that seeing that was my fist experience it wasn't going to be perfect and that it might not work, especially seeing I'm not fully sure what kind of sub I am... But now I've been thinking more about maybe trying dynamics again so whenever I'm ready to find a dom again I know I'd at least want a dom who can understand (or at least educate themselves about) my mental health issues and become someone I can talk about it with. Before I felt like I couldn't say certain things to my previous domme because I didn't think it'd be understood and I didn't think I could be 100% honest about some things especially those topics (mental health).
In short basically I'm trying to ask how do you figure out the type of dom that would match (?) what you need when you're not fully sure what specifically you're 100% interested in? Are there specific types that are more understanding when it comes to subs who have mental health issues? (any other advice related is also appreciated tho)
{ Also, this is unrelated to the questions above but last time when I posted for the very first time on here a dom was in my DMs... at first I assumed they were a sub as they said they saw my post here, on a sub only page, until they had mentioned a couple messages later they were a dom.. I'd like to say that if this happens again, and a dom does do this I'll be ignoring it, I don't want to have someone giving advice then almost immediately trying to ask me what I look like, where I'm from, and making it obvious that they are there possibly with other motives instead... }