u/D-M-Mcmanus

I ain't great at explaining so I'll try keep this succinct; I (M25) met a woman (F42) at a rave last weekend, we chatted for abit then I worked up to make a move (self-confidence issues make it a accomplishment) we ended up fucking but due to our 'inebriation' and other complications we couldn't capitalise on the opportunity, I'm now wondering how appropriate messaging her about fucking would be, and if so how to go about it as I am sadly well versed in all steps bar actually making the first move, any advice?