Hello, interested reader! Sorry for the novel but I want to be as thorough as possible so as not to waste anyone's time 😄

About Me

White male with glasses, tattoos, stretched ears (1"), tongue ring, bald, and a short beard. 5’10”, 230 lbs (working on losing weight). My SFW interests include music (I both play multiple instruments with varying degrees of proficiency as well as listen to a wide range of genres from pop to metal to EDM to even a little rap, classical, and country and an international range of artists - I LOVE Eurovision though I'm a recent fan), cybersecurity, true crime, sci-fi, reading, podcasts, gaming, and more.

I’m married but polyamorous. Wife won’t be involved, but does like to at least be on friendly speaking terms with my partners. This is a big sticking point. You don't have to be BFFs but you do have to get along and be comfortable with her. She's extremely sweet and easy to get along with, but I know some people don't want to know their metamours. If that's you, I'm not the right guy for you. Sorry.

I work full time, but from home. I mostly set my own hours, but I do work hard, so while I’m available for much of the day, I still need you to be respectful of the fact that I do have a lot to get done.

What I'm Seeking

I'm interested in finding a dominant femboy (or crossdresser, "sissy," trans woman, however you prefer to identify).

I've only ever had one Domme before, long distance. As such, there are still lots of areas to explore but it did give me a pretty good idea of what I am or might be into.

I've learned that what attracts me to being sub is the safe space to be vulnerable, to let someone else be in charge and make decisions and I can let go knowing they've got this. I love knowing I can trust someone completely, and they'll take care of me. That's why I'm more into the "gentle femdom/female-led relationship" style. I'm not looking for a harsh, cruel, sadistic mistress - at least, not all the time. I'm definitely okay with that sometimes - get tied up, denied, hurt (but not harmed) - but at the end of the day knowing that you have genuine affection for me and want what's best for me. That's what it's all about for me.

I don't consider myself a brat, although my last Domme did often claim I was being bratty so I guess maybe that's just my personality a little? I'm very much a service sub, happy to follow rules and rituals and complete tasks given to me.

I'm extremely talkative, so ideally I'd like someone I can chat with throughout the day. I strongly prefer text over voice or video calls, though of course I am open to calls when kept reasonable in both duration and frequency. I'm also okay with voice messages. I want more than just the sexual dynamic. I want us to connect outside of the bedroom just as much as behind closed doors.

Kinks

• Service
• Praise
• Oral (giving and receiving)
• Group play
• Bondage
• Orgasm control (this one comes with caveats due to my relationship status)
• JOI
• Mild degradation/humiliation
• Mild impact
• Breathplay
• Subtle public play (including things like day collars or similar signs of ownership)
• Free use
• Cum
• Open to trying most things at least once or twice

Hard limits

• Feminiziation/sissification
• CBT
• SPH
• Blood
• Scat
• Extreme pain
• Tickling of any kind
• Risky public play
• Spyware

Soft Limits

• Forced Bi
• CEI
• "Mommy" as a title
• Ruined orgasms
• Rimming

I'm also open to various ethnicities, body types, etc, as long as you present as femme. I'm open to couples (of any gender combination) and polycules. Age-wise I'd prefer you be at least 25, but I'm open to 18+ if you're mature with good communication. Local strongly preferred, but if you're interested and we click and you're willing to put in the work for an LDR, so am I. If I’ve missed anything, let me know. I’m an open book. Willing to share pics in DMs. Hope to hear from someone who's a good match, and good luck in your own searches!

Hello, interested reader! Sorry for the novel but I want to be as thorough as possible so as not to waste anyone's time 😄

About Me

White male with glasses, tattoos, stretched ears (1"), tongue ring, bald, and a short beard. 5’10”, 230 lbs (working on losing weight). My SFW interests include music (I both play multiple instruments with varying degrees of proficiency as well as listen to a wide range of genres from pop to metal to EDM to even a little rap, classical, and country and an international range of artists - I LOVE Eurovision though I'm a recent fan), cybersecurity, true crime, sci-fi, reading, podcasts, gaming, and more.

I’m married but polyamorous. Wife won’t be involved, but does like to at least be on friendly speaking terms with my partners. This is a big sticking point. You don't have to be BFFs but you do have to get along and be comfortable with her. She's extremely sweet and easy to get along with, but I know some people don't want to know their metamours. If that's you, I'm not the right guy for you. Sorry.

I work full time, but from home. I mostly set my own hours, but I do work hard, so while I’m available for much of the day, I still need you to be respectful of the fact that I do have a lot to get done.

What I'm Seeking

I'm interested in finding a dominant femboy (or crossdresser, "sissy," trans woman, however you prefer to identify).

I've only ever had one Domme before, long distance. As such, there are still lots of areas to explore but it did give me a pretty good idea of what I am or might be into.

I've learned that what attracts me to being sub is the safe space to be vulnerable, to let someone else be in charge and make decisions and I can let go knowing they've got this. I love knowing I can trust someone completely, and they'll take care of me. That's why I'm more into the "gentle femdom/female-led relationship" style. I'm not looking for a harsh, cruel, sadistic mistress - at least, not all the time. I'm definitely okay with that sometimes - get tied up, denied, hurt (but not harmed) - but at the end of the day knowing that you have genuine affection for me and want what's best for me. That's what it's all about for me.

I don't consider myself a brat, although my last Domme did often claim I was being bratty so I guess maybe that's just my personality a little? I'm very much a service sub, happy to follow rules and rituals and complete tasks given to me.

I'm extremely talkative, so ideally I'd like someone I can chat with throughout the day. I strongly prefer text over voice or video calls, though of course I am open to calls when kept reasonable in both duration and frequency. I'm also okay with voice messages. I want more than just the sexual dynamic. I want us to connect outside of the bedroom just as much as behind closed doors.

Kinks

• Service
• Praise
• Oral (giving and receiving)
• Group play
• Bondage
• Orgasm control (this one comes with caveats due to my relationship status)
• JOI
• Mild degradation/humiliation
• Mild impact
• Breathplay
• Subtle public play (including things like day collars or similar signs of ownership)
• Free use
• Cum
• Open to trying most things at least once or twice

Hard limits

• Feminiziation/sissification
• CBT
• SPH
• Blood
• Scat
• Extreme pain
• Tickling of any kind
• Risky public play
• Spyware

Soft Limits

• Forced Bi
• CEI
• "Mommy" as a title
• Ruined orgasms
• Rimming

I'm also open to various ethnicities, body types, etc, as long as you present as femme. I'm open to couples (of any gender combination) and polycules. Age-wise I'd prefer you be at least 25, but I'm open to 18+ if you're mature with good communication. Local strongly preferred, but if you're interested and we click and you're willing to put in the work for an LDR, so am I. If I’ve missed anything, let me know. I’m an open book. Willing to share pics in DMs. Hope to hear from someone who's a good match, and good luck in your own searches!

Hello, interested reader! As the title says, I’m a 37 year old bicurious guy who is looking to join a couple. Not looking for tonight, but sometime soon for sure. Maybe this coming weekend?

About me: white male with glasses, tattoos, and a beard. 5’10” at 240 lbs. Hoping to get in shape soon but man I’m good at making excuses to skip the gym. I’m married but we’re poly and my wife has given her okay with me looking for someone else. She won’t be involved, so please don’t ask. I’m into music, cybersecurity, true crime, sci-fi, and more.

What I’m looking for: Ideally an ongoing FWB-type situation. Not looking to "date" necessarily but it would be nice to hear from you outside the bedroom. Men must be patient with me since I’ve never been with a guy before, but I’m very open to feedback and once I get comfy I’ll be quite open and enthusiastic. I'm specifically interested in giving oral, can't promise I'll bottom all the way but it's not off the table.

If I’ve missed anything, let me know. I’m an open book. Willing to share pics in DMs. Hope to hear from someone neat, and good luck in your own searches!

Hello, interested reader! As the title says, I’m a 37 year old guy who is looking to explore my bi side more, so I’m looking for someone who’s interested in helping out. Not looking for tonight, but sometime soon for sure. Maybe this coming weekend?

About me: white male with glasses, tattoos, and a beard. 5’10” at 240 lbs. Hoping to get in shape soon but man I’m good at making excuses to skip the gym. I’m married but we’re poly and my wife has given her okay with me looking for someone else. She won’t be involved, so please don’t ask. I’m into music, cybersecurity, true crime, sci-fi, and more.

What I’m looking for: A chill FWB situation, specifically someone looking to receive oral without giving. I’d like to connect with someone first, chat for a bit. If we can hang out, play video games, grab a drink, or watch movies/shows together, awesome. But of course, I’m also looking for someone interesting in fooling around behind closed doors. Must be patient with me since I’m inexperienced lol, but I’m very open to feedback and once I get comfy I’ll be quite open and enthusiastic. Feminine types (femboys, CDs, sissies, etc) and couples (of any gender combination) to the front of the line, but I’m open to all types. Ironically I feel like there'd be less pressure if there was another person there help encourage me or show me the ropes.

If I’ve missed anything, let me know. I’m an open book. Willing to share pics in DMs. Hope to hear from someone neat, and good luck in your own searches!

Accidentally deleted my last post so resharing. 🫣

Hello, interested reader! As the title says, I’m a 37 year old guy who is looking to explore my bi side more, so I’m looking for someone who’s interested in helping out. Not looking for tonight, but sometime soon for sure. Maybe this coming weekend?

About me: white male with glasses, tattoos, and a beard. 5’10” at 240 lbs. Hoping to get in shape soon but man I’m good at making excuses to skip the gym. I’m married but we’re poly and my wife has given her okay with me looking for someone else. She won’t be involved, so please don’t ask. I’m into music, cybersecurity, true crime, sci-fi, and more.

What I’m looking for: A chill FWB situation, specifically someone looking to receive oral without giving. I’d like to connect with someone first, chat for a bit. If we can hang out, play video games, grab a drink, or watch movies/shows together, awesome. But of course, I’m also looking for someone interesting in fooling around behind closed doors. Must be patient with me since I’m inexperienced lol, but I’m very open to feedback and once I get comfy I’ll be quite open and enthusiastic. Feminine types (femboys, CDs, sissies, etc) and couples (of any gender combination) to the front of the line, but I’m open to all types. Ironically I feel like there'd be less pressure if there was another person there help encourage me or show me the ropes.

If I’ve missed anything, let me know. I’m an open book. Willing to share pics in DMs. Hope to hear from someone neat, and good luck in your own searches!

It's a holiday here in the US, but I'm stuck catching up on work cause of some disruptions this weekend. I'm just looking to chat with someone and make the day a little less monotonous. Happy to talk about fantasies, kinks, past experiences. All genders and ages welcome. I'm a switch, so I'm happy to talk from either side of the slash. Hope to hear from someone fun!

Hello, interested reader! As the title says, I’m a 37 year old guy who is looking to explore my bi side more, so I’m looking for someone who’s interested in helping out. Made a few posts before but nothing's panned out yet. Not looking for tonight, but sometime soon for sure. Maybe this coming weekend?

About me: white male with glasses, tattoos, and a short beard. 5’10” at 240 lbs. Hoping to get in shape soon but man I’m good at making excuses to skip the gym. I’m married but we’re poly and my wife has given her okay with me looking for someone else. She won’t be involved, so please don’t ask. I’m into music, cybersecurity, true crime, sci-fi, and more.

What I’m looking for: A chill FWB situation, specifically someone looking to receive oral without giving. I’d like to connect with someone first, chat for a bit. If we can hang out, play video games, grab a drink, or watch movies/shows together, awesome. But of course, I’m also looking for someone interesting in fooling around behind closed doors. Must be patient with me since I’m inexperienced lol, but I'm very open to feedback and once I get comfy I’ll be quite open and enthusiastic. Feminine types (femboys, CDs, sissies, etc) and couples (of any gender combination) to the front of the line, but I’m open to all types. Ironically I feel like there'd be less pressure if there was another person there help encourage me or show me the ropes.

If I’ve missed anything, let me know. I’m an open book. Willing to share pics in DMs. Hope to hear from someone neat, and good luck in your own searches!