u/DERMYS
29 [M4F] hiii, I'm looking a gentle domme to instruct me and to make me hers :))
I’m easy going, obedient, and very eager to please. I’m also open to trying new things which we could discuss together.
I spend my days at work being in charge and making decisions, so here I love giving up control where I don't have to think.
I'm looking for a place where I can let my guard down and follow instructions, and just please others for a change. I would love the chance to talk to a gentle dominant woman, hand over control, and be my true self.
I have a soft, deep voice that I’ve been told is quite nice, and become very vocal with moans and grunts as things heat up.
I don't mind showing myself, and you don't have to :)
I'm also open to longterm if we click :)
If the post is up it means I'm still looking :)
29 [M4F] hiii, I'm looking a gentle domme to instruct me and to make me hers :))
I’m easy going, obedient, and very eager to please. I’m also open to trying new things which we could discuss together.
I spend my days at work being in charge and making decisions, so here I love giving up control where I don't have to think.
I'm looking for a place where I can let my guard down and follow instructions, and just please others for a change. I would love the chance to talk to a gentle dominant woman, hand over control, and be my true self.
I have a soft, deep voice that I’ve been told is quite nice, and become very vocal with moans and grunts as things heat up.
I don't mind showing myself, and you don't have to :)
I'm also open to longterm if we click :)
If the post is up it means I'm still looking :)
29 [M4F] hiii, I'm looking a gentle donme to instruct me and to make me hers :))
I’m easy going, obedient, and very eager to please. I’m also open to trying new things which we could discuss together.
I spend my days at work being in charge and making decisions, so here I love giving up control where I don't have to think.
I'm looking for a place where I can let my guard down and follow instructions, and just please others for a change. I would love the chance to talk to a gentle dominant woman, hand over control, and be my true self.
I have a soft, deep voice that I’ve been told is quite nice, and become very vocal with moans and grunts as things heat up.
I don't mind showing myself, and you don't have to :)
I'm also open to more than once if we click :)
If the post is up it means I'm still looking :)
29 [M4F] #Online Sweet boy hoping to find his gentle domme to own me and also chat :)
Hiii :)
I'm writing here today because I'm looking for a gentle femdom and would love to introduce myself as a potential sub :)
Some SFW information and a little background:
I'm a 29yo M from Canada and I'm in my last year of university in Europe. I'm applying to being your submissive little boy online.
I’m a little boy that gets distracted incredibly easily and I find it hard to be motivated to do the right things for myself. I am in my final year of university and have so many things to do; even though I have a lot of free time, I end up wasting it and don't get my 7-8h of sleep either. I would love for me to become way more disciplined. I want someone to hold me accountable and be somewhat of a mentor/tutor/guardian to me. I’d want you to remind me to do my projects, to study regularly instead of cramming and doing hobbies I like first instead of second.
I’d deeply respect you and greatly value your opinion on what I should do. I’d always consider what you’d tell me and if you told me to do a task I told you about, I would do it. I’ll refer to you how you’d like and you are free to refer to me how you’d like. You could treat me however you’d like; just do not demean, overstep, or demoralize me please. If you want to raise someone to be better and maintain their well-being, I think this might be for you.
I have additional hobbies I like that I’d want to be held accountable for:
- Learning languages (working on German now as I'd like to go there next year)
- Working out 5x a week and getting more fit
If you have any interest in any of those too, I’d love for you to give advice or oversee my progress.
Some NSFW information:
To be sure we have common kinks, I listed the majority of them here so you can tell if you're the kind of domme I'm looking for so I don't waste your time. You don't have to be into every single one of them.
I love edging, tease and denial, receiving JOI, getting spanked, and I love to moan a lot... I want to give up my control of my orgasms to you. I love pleasing and receiving praise and words of affirmation. I love being on display for you and posing to your instructions and wishes, and I don't mind some online exhibition and some feminization (I LOVE wearing thongs, don't have one though).
I do have a toy which you can control from your phone as well: Lovense Diamo cock ring.
Some of my limits include scat, blood, pain, marks, anal and showing my face. I can't buy things now because of my financial situation. I've also never been a fan of audio messages/calls in my life.
You:
Someone kind and loves to talk, someone I feel great chemistry with through time, someone I can be myself with and feel in a safe space to say anything without being judged. Someone I can be friends with as that would deepen our connection :)
Under 40.
Being attracted physically is also important. I'm willing to send a photo right away to see if you're physically attracted to me, and would like to see you as well (without face is totally fine because I won't be showing mine, ever). I've been told I have very nice hands hehe. I have an average/fit body. I'm looking to convert 10 kg of fat to muscle since I started working out and would love someone slim/average/fit who loves being active to share this journey with me. I have medium length wavy-to-curly black hair and attracted to dommes with long black/brunette/blonde hair. I do wish to see you often, I don't want it to be only me showing myself as it would be hard for me to develop a deeper connection. I don't mind if you have more than one sub, but you would be my only domme :)
I'm located in an European time zone for time wise but open to others.
I am someone who listens well and also respectful. This is not something spontaneous nor because of a cloudy mind. I've discovered that I am submissive about 4 years ago and been a part of this community for a while and had two, brief (5-6 months each) wonderful gentle dommes - last one had been in mid-2024. I've been trying to find one in my city through apps but unfortunately I couldn't find any so I'm searching on Reddit :)
I think that's all I have on my mind for now, I hope you enjoyed reading it!
If you're reached this part, write "Riviera" in your message please. Would love to hear from you if you have any questions :)
As long as the post is up, it means I'm still searching :)
Ciao ciao <3
29 [M4F] hiii, I'm looking a gentle donme to instruct me and to make me hers :))
I’m easy going, obedient, and very eager to please. I’m also open to trying new things which we could discuss together.
I spend my days at work being in charge and making decisions, so here I love giving up control where I don't have to think.
I'm looking for a place where I can let my guard down and follow instructions, and just please others for a change. I would love the chance to talk to a gentle dominant woman, hand over control, and be my true self.
I have a soft, deep voice that I’ve been told is quite nice, and become very vocal with moans and grunts as things heat up.
I don't mind showing myself, and you don't have to :)
I'm also open to more than once if we click :)
If the post is up it means I'm still looking :)
29 [M4F] hiii, I'm looking a gentle donme to instruct me and to make me hers :))
I’m easy going, obedient, and very eager to please. I’m also open to trying new things which we could discuss together.
I spend my days at work being in charge and making decisions, so here I love giving up control where I don't have to think.
I'm looking for a place where I can let my guard down and follow instructions, and just please others for a change. I would love the chance to talk to a gentle dominant woman, hand over control, and be my true self.
I have a soft, deep voice that I’ve been told is quite nice, and become very vocal with moans and grunts as things heat up.
I'm also open to more than once if we click :)
29 [M4F] hiii, I'm looking a gentle donme to instruct me and to make me hers :))
I’m easy going, obedient, and very eager to please. I’m also open to trying new things which we could discuss together.
I spend my days at work being in charge and making decisions, so here I love giving up control where I don't have to think.
I'm looking for a place where I can let my guard down and follow instructions, and just please others for a change. I would love the chance to talk to a gentle dominant woman, hand over control, and be my true self.
I have a soft, deep voice that I’ve been told is quite nice, and become very vocal with moans and grunts as things heat up.
I'm also open to more than once if we click :)