How do you safely sleep with hoes?
Might seem like a silly question but, for men who like to smash, and ideally smash on the first link, chances are these women are likely doing that with a lot of men. Some will tell you straight up, some you can just tell, and some will deny it. BUT if she doing it with you on the first link, she has probably done it with many others the same way.
My point being, I recently met a girl who straight up told me she has had a very promiscuous past. Like, slept with multiple partners in a night type past. I am not judging, but I have the ick to be honest. Who knows where she has been, who the men she has been with have been, if she has any diseases. She certainly dont seem like the type to tell you if she did.
But outside of that she is a cool person, I would def smash if I did not know all that about her. She wants to meet again and she made it very clear it was to f.
Whether or not I go forward with her, I realize this is quite a conundrum and you cant really have it both ways. If you want fast, easy sex, with girls who will do it w you relatively quickly, they likely have been around. So how do you deal with making sure you dont catch anything?
I dont think its realistic to ask every girl to get tested before you do it. Lets say you meet a girl on a cruise ship, in the club, and you guys get right to it, I wouldnt really want to hold up the show. Its either happening then and there or it wont at all.
Are condoms enough to protect you from any and everything a random girl could have? Should you avoid kissing and any oral?
If you are a man who is smashing random girls regularly, how do you handle this?
I guess the obvious answers is condoms but idk if there is any other advice.