I'm looking for the perfect little one to love and cherish. I live in Pennsylvania but can do long-distance dating anywhere (more below). This is very detailed so that you know about me and exactly what I seek. Let's start with..

About me:

I’m an easy-going person that hates rushing, enjoys nature, technology, anime, and coffee.

I’m expressive, and I write a lot. I’m big on communication and dislike conflict and spontaneity. I enjoy going on outdoor adventures every month; camping, hiking, and bikepacking. When I’m not reading, adventuring, watching anime, or playing video games (currently bouncing between Animal Crossing, RimWorld, and Mobile Legends Bang Bang), I try to study Japanese (日本語を勉強中 😼, would like to learn Mandarin some day), and learn how to build and repair small electronics.

I’ve practiced martial arts all my life and it’s a passion for me. I’ve been fascinated with Japan and China since I was very young. Other interests include ancient history, cyberpunk (love!), movies (I have 800... don't ask 👀...), writing, and cooking.

I work from home as an online personal trainer; my niche being geeky types that want to lose weight. It gives me a very flexible schedule and I love helping others transform themselves to see their final form. I'm also certified as a health coach and massage therapist, which pairs very well with my very touchy and affectionate nature.

Musical interests: 

I primarily listen to Japanese stuff: kawaii/idol fusion, Touhou Eurobeat, Vocaloid, some Hololive, and heavy Japanese bands with female vocalists. There’s other genres I’ll listen to here and there like neo-folk; I’ll listen to most things that aren’t rap or country

Physical details:

I'm 5'9", 165lbs, average build, no tattoos, no piercings, and I shave my head and face daily. I'm told I look 30ish, thanks to some youthful genes and the men in my family don't ever gray.

What I'm looking for:

I’m tired of dating; I want a forever partner, someone who will put as much effort as myself to make the relationship last instead of giving up when they're unhappy or when things are difficult (which is why communication is so crucial..).

My ideal partner should be ~25 – 35 (though that number is somewhat flexible), highly affectionate, and a good communicator (ie, able to speak up when unhappy and calmly talk about things without escalating to bickering or arguments. This is so important in a relationship). I love girly/feminine women. We should ideally bond over a love of anime and/or gaming, and preferably an interest in Japan (and/or China!) (among other mutual interests).

I’m looking for a little; someone I can baby who needs structure and growth. This would be a 24/7 DDlg dynamic; not just here and there.

Distance: Largely not an issue. I've had multiple long-distance relationships and have dated internationally (my last two partners were out of the country and D/s). We'll schedule regular trips to be able to spend time in person; my job gives me the flexibility to do this virtually any time and be able to spend time with you whenever you're free. I am very attentive and like to spend all the time I can with my partner, even if it's just messaging back and forth during our free time; you'll never feel ignored or unfulfilled with me.

Body type: normal/average or slender/skinny; define these however you wish.

Religion: I'm atheist, would prefer someone non-religious (or at least non-Abrahamic) but I'm not anti-religion and hate proselytizing so I'm not interested in changing anyone's religious views.

Ethnicity: Asian or Caucasian preferred, but I care more about skin tone; I like pale girls (though olive and south Asian are generally fine).

And: I’d like to have kids some day (key word: some day. I'm not looking to rush into this)

Lastly: I'm not big on tattoos. I'd prefer my partner have few (define how you wish) or none, but this is somewhat flexible with the right person.

Deal breakers:

• No smoking/recreational drugs, no exceptions
• Jealousy/insecurity (most of my friends are women. I'll introduce you to every single one of them so they're not strangers)
• Facial piercings (Body piercings in general are likely a no. The only exception being barbell nipple piercings)
• Choking, blood, urine, and deep bruising are a no-go.
• I have two cats that I love dearly, so if you're allergic or hate cats, that's not gonna work.
• Vegan/vegetarian diets I can't get behind unless your name is Ceres Fauna
• If you're suicidal or extremely depressed (been there, experienced that, and it's ended a few relationships..)

Also: My life goals keep me rooted in this general area (within ~1hr - 90min of NYC) and will do so for the next 20yrs or so. I am unable to relocate and would need to you to do so with time after we both feel ready for that next step.

Kinks:

Mine are largely visual things on my partner. Thigh highs are a must (no, really..), pull-ups (no bathroom stuff, just the aesthetic) and/or print panties, other little things like pacifiers etc; anything that makes my partner seem very little, I can get into. Glasses are a plus but not a necessity by any means, barbell nipple piercings (though that’s not common, nor for everyone) I like as well, and ageplay of course. There are more, but these are the ones I can perhaps best describe.

When you message me:

Please say something other than "hi" or “how are you?”. Tell me about yourself, your hobbies, something you enjoy, or something I said that piqued your interest. I understand you may be
shy (and that's fine! I digg shyness!), but in any conversation, none of us wants to feel like we have to carry the whole thing. I’ll respond to every message I get, and if I’m not feeling a connection, I’ll let you know. I really hate to hurt anyone’s feelings by expressing disinterest, but it’s best to not waste anyone’s time or lead them on. I'm willing to exchange photos whenever you feel ready to do so; I'm not pushy.