u/Dandoloan

I mean regular, cylindrical/dick shaped dildos.

I already went through a bit of a struggle to reach my first anal pleasure, which I did through the Njoy Pure Wand, but that thing is kind of small and arched which lets you ease off the prostate a lot.

Regular dildos are constantly grinding against the prostate, however, and I'm struggling really hard with enjoying it. It just feels like overstim, not in the good way. Mixed in with the hand cramps, it's a tough experience.

Just curious if anyone has advice about this. I know I could be content with my Pure Wand, but I'd still like to try this.