We are already in the lifestyle, and we get a lot of messages from men. Usually my husband looks through them first. But recently I logged into our account on a local site myself and honestly the amount of messages was too much. I couldn’t even sort through it properly. Some are an obvious no. But there are also many “maybe” messages, and I don’t want to meet every man just to find out if he is respectful, safe and normal in real life. So I’m curious how other hotwives and husbands do it.
Do you have specific questions you ask before a first meeting?
Do you chat for a while, do a video call, or just meet for a casual drink?
What makes a man stand out in a good way?
And what are your instant red flags?
u/DangerousMuse0909 — 24 days ago