36 [F4M] #USA Domme looking for new submissives to talk to and potentially just one eventually
Hey guys! I’m a 36-year-old (most people think I’m still in my 20s, not even kidding) dominant black woman with natural hair in the Midwest. I would say that I am pretty career-oriented and career-focused. I also am all about education (in fact I am working on my master’s in molecular biology, and I am working towards trying to further my education more too). I work in STEM and healthcare (feel free to ask me more about that or school/education stuff btw because I just genuinely enjoy it all haha). Outside of work and school, I really do like to just chill out and hang out with friends. I do enjoy shopping (haha don’t judge me lol). I believe in a little bit of retail therapy, okay? Haha, I do also enjoy doing yoga and dancing. I am like 5’6” or so and have a slim build I guess. I am working on getting more tone and fit (because why not? Lol). A few of my friends are trying to get me to try running and Pilates so like gl me lol. I have been thinking about learning a new instrument for fun too (maybe the piano or maybe the violin; I haven’t decided yet though).
Oh, and I just got out of a pretty serious relationship not too long ago. For the record, I am not sure if I am ready to jump into a new relationship or anything like that right now. However, I think I am open to looking for new friends or like casual conversations and like being open to getting to know some new people to see what happens.
Alright, so I guess we can get to some kinks I suppose. I think the biggest one for me would be pegging. I would consider myself to be a “female top” so it honestly just makes sense for me to ‘top’ a guy and well fuck him with a strapon or some kind of toy (excuse my French there but it’s true; and yes, I am a very blunt and direct woman lol). That is ideally the kind of sex life I would want and would kind of need if I am being totally honest. If you’re a guy who isn’t really into the idea of pegging or getting peg, then that’s fine, but I think it would be best for you to probably click out of this ad because that is a big deal and like a non-negotiable for me, sorry. I think also on top of that, I do like the idea of chastity. I have always found it to be cute and idk I feel like guys tend to look way better when their boyclits are locked up in a cage (especially when they have a nice body overall; I do like and prefer eye candy so a nice body and cute face will always be on my bingo card lol) and when they’re hairless down there (or at least like well-trimmed, ya know?) so yeah me being a keyholder just kind of always made sense to me as well. But if you’re a guy that isn’t too sure about chastity, then it’s okay. So bottom line, pegging and chastity are probably the big ones for me, I’m okay with some light feminization (like maybe having a guy wear stockings, lingerie, thongs, panties, etc), however, I am not okay with a guy getting or becoming completely feminized to the point that he looks passable (personally, I just don’t really find that fun or appealing in any way; I am straight, and I like it when a guy still well looks like a guy if that makes sense; so if a guy ends up looking more and more like a woman, then that’s going to be very unattractive and unappealing to me to the point where I will definitely get and have the ick). I just want to be clear about that because I have found myself in a few situations in the past with previous submissives where there was some confusion about like all of that and just yeah.
Hmm, what else should I mention on here? Oh well, idk what to really say about the whole age range. Obviously if we’re around the same age and if you think we will get along well, then feel free to reach out to me lol. But like I have talked to and dated guys who are younger than me and they were fine, and I have also talked to and dated guys who are a little older than me and they were fine but I know some of you really prefer like an actual age range so I guess here ya go: 25-43 but again that’s not like set in stone and if you are a few years off, but you think we might hit it off and stuff, then feel free to shoot me a message or send me a chat invite. Again, I really am open to just talking and getting to know some new people. But hey, don’t be desperate because that’s just not cute, okay? Alright, well thank you so much for taking the time to stop by my post and to like actually to read it to its entirety haha. I literally wrote a whole novel so thank you haha I am looking forward to talking to you and getting to know you better, thanks!! :D