u/Dark__Dagger

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I've tried to learn how to have a wet p-spot orgasm on and off for awhile and while I've been making a renewed attempt I'm finding that as usual, it's a positive, pleasurable experience but I can't seem to find the edge.

It occured to me that when masturbating normally, contractions will occur and tension will naturally build in my pelvic floor muscles leading up to orgasm, but that while doing anal it feels like I get stuck in this tug-of-war where I'm trying to grip the toy but stay relaxed enough that I can keep moving my toy.

I feel like understanding this problem will help me progress. How have y'all worked around this? Is there something you feel I'm missing or that I should try?