I like the feeling of penetration but whenever I’m on my back, using the Vixen Mustang manually isn’t the most ideal. I find it better when riding or using the suction cup. I would prefer to find a smooth dildo for when I’m on my back. So I was thinking about a glass dildo. How are these for prostate play and do you guys have any recommendations?
I use a 9 inch long, 7 inch thickness dildo and love it but wanna know what would happen if I did a bi daily anal prostate play session ( around the same time every 2 days for like an hour or 2) I already know how best to be safe with starting slow and going easy to not tear or damage my insides plus use plenty of lube and good lube too.
Also give myself a break for my reserves to build up again and not constantly cleaning my ass ruining my gut health.
But I wanna know if there would be any fun or interesting changes in either my body adapting to this new rhyme like my ass opens up easier or doing this is like a workout so I may get a more toned ass cause I'm effectively doing squats, would my body ramp up semen production, I can guess I would also be rewiring my brain to get pleasure from anal only as well.
Basically i own 2 different types of lubes Durex play h2o classic and a chinese lube. Problem is they contain Glycerin and Durex play has high osmolality, I want to conduct prostate play while ensuring my anal canal remains healthy. I've been looking at either Sliquid's H2O lubricants or One Move/ One silk once my knock off Njoy Pure wand arrives. I live in Malaysia so Sliquid H2O can be rather expensive for me to buy online and I need help and recommendation!
edit: forgot to mention before my njoy knockoff arrives around early august im using silicone toys to stimulate my prostate so im hoping to find water base that has no glycerin and parabens or other alternarives that wont deteriorate my silicone toys. Thanks for the replies ^^
I own a vixen mustang but every time I use a generic water based lube, it never lasts long and dries up pretty quick. This is only the case when I do anal play. Is there a longer lasting water based lube thats better for dildos? Water based lube works great with the Njoy wand but not with my vixen mustang.
This post is like 40yrs in the making. I'm pretty ready to quit. today i spend about 2 hours with a massage gun up my ass (got an attachment that looks like a psepository - sp?).
my current partner (female) is into it, i'm into trying, i've had a prostitute suggest it one time so i had her go crazy on me with a lubed finger, thought she would know how it's done if anyone does. i've stuck thick long vibrating dildoes up there (don't tell my ex). i'm not gay, but probably heteroflexible, i'm old. i think it's time to quit trying. my ass just hurts (i use lots of lube and go slow and i'm very relaxed). honestly, i know a lot of dudes swear by it, but if it wasn't for that, i'd argue this is just bunk science after so many years and different ways of trying., i'm not gonna try sounding through the urethra but ive hooked up the rest of my junk including anus up to electrodes before too. this is fake (i know i know, too many anecdotes to ignor that it's real, but from my personal experiences, it's fake).
edit: also, i'm very small (like 5 foot tall), so i doubt it's because i've used too short implements and likewise i've tried long implements before with no success too
I was running on like 4-ish hours of sleep, when i finally went to take a nap, i was in this weird state in between awake and sleep (not all the way asleep yet) and had a rush/euphoric feeling building. I was able to concentrate it on my prostate and it felt super pleasurable and i shot precum. What is this? Has anyone had a similar experience? (Ive havent been able to achieve a prostate O yet through any other means)
It was great! I was watching Tgirls riding cock the whole time with affirmations talking too.
I did touch my cock a bit at to keep me hard and to edge for my first 2 times I came.
I then went for a 3rd time and with myself riding it and I jerked my cock hard, I was really bouncing I then came soooo fucking hard it was comical how much I came that 3rd time...
I then cleaned myself up and decided to put in my really large butt plug with a metal ball inside it but shortly after putting it in I felt the urge to jerk off again so I was like a rabid dog on the floor jerking my cock fast while tensing and un tensing my butt whole, I didn't cum or get fully hard but I leak pre cum from my cock.
So it was pretty fun morning for me to say the least xD
A little over a week ago, I made a post about how my husband has no interest in trying prostate play. It's not that he's worried about his sexuality, or anything like that (he's openly bisexual), he just has a strong aversion to any kind of anal play. He won't even play with my ass.
Well, a couple of people suggested that we could try stimulating his prostate through the perineum. It wasn't the pegging that I wanted to ultimately do in the end, but it was the best that I could hope for. I asked if that was something he would be comfortable with, and, surprisingly, he said yes. So I watched a bunch of videos, read a lot of material and... Well, you already read the title of this post, so you know how it ends. We tried a couple of times over the week, and husband didn't like it. He said that at best, it didn't do anything for him, and sometimes, I got too close to his ass for him to get comfortable. So we're officially shelving any kind of prostate play.
It's disappointing, but I think seeing how underwhelming it was for him has helped me move on from that desire that I just couldn't quite shake. I hope you lovely people have more luck than I did in exploring this.
Hey all! Prostate play enthusiast here, lol. Anyways, I'm considering my next purchase (already have several different shaped plugs/probes, a couple small to small-medium sized dildos, a med-largeish plug, and a vibrating plug). I'm really interested in either an aneros (or similar) or a thrusting plug (or maybe dildo) in the under $80-$100 price point. Does anyone have any suggestions/thoughts?
Hi, I recently made my first post here explaining how I am new to this world and have only
experimented a few times over the last year or so.
I have read the guides and a few post from others here and making some small progress!
I have a few questions / concerns which may be a bit naive / silly, but hoping some of you
may be able to help with:
what actually happens to your body during a prostate orgasm? is this a natural
thing, or are we forcing it to do something unatural that it isnt intended for?
After experiencing one, is there a hangover period afterwards? after depleting so
much energy and release of endorphins or adrenaline?
Is this something that could become overly addictive in an unhealthy way? I see
some here spending hours of time on this, which doesnt sound ideal to me!
lastly, once becoming rewired and able to achieve these type of orgasms, is that likely
to have a negative effect on appreciating normal sex / penile orgasms? (So far the prostate stimulation has made it better, but I would worry that a prostate orgasm could become too addictive!)
Thanks
I have been interested in ass play for a long time but it was always here and there. only in the last few years have I finally gotten toys to explore with. Even then my first couple toys I ended up throwing out after a few tries. I always found it frustrating I could never relax enough for a toy to go in and out, or the mess that can come with it, also the prep and the time it takes always made me give up.
After some time I ended up buying a new prostate vibrator a year ago. After the first try, it reminded me of how good it can feel ha. I then decided that I would keep it and give stick with it this time. I then was able to get it just right that I could make myself cum with it without even stroking which was amazing. Don’t think I am getting that amazing prostate orgasm I read about but it feels great nonetheless.
Then a few months ago I decided to try a dildo again. I always wanted to try riding one but could never relax enough to easily slide in and out. So like the vibe, I decided to make more of an effort and not give up so easily. First few times it was great to just insert and stroke. Just having that full feeling was amazing.
Recently I had my most success. Kept inserting and holding and pulling it out and then reinserting and just going slow. I finally was able to relax enough that it was easily sliding in and out and man I was leaking like crazy haha. Also was finally able to take the full length. Now it’s only a 5 inch so no crazy depth play but I had always stopped at about halfway. Now I was relaxed enough I was able to take the whole length. The extra 1-2 inches made a whole lot of difference too! It only took a couple strokes and I came the most I had in a while.
I still haven’t had that full body prostate orgasm, but I am stimulating the right spots and things are feeling great and I feel I got over any hang ups I may have had with anal play.
I got a set of these and haven’t found a good way to enjoy them. They’re heavy and gravity is not your friend. Tried using them while laying my stomach but not very exciting. How do you guys use these?
I’m 21 and I’ve been wanting to play with my boyfriend’s prostate for a while now. We’ve been together for almost a year and he’s always been open to trying new things, but this one took him some time to agree to. He was nervous about it feeling “weird” or that it would make him less masculine or something.
Last weekend we finally tried. I took it really slow with lots of lube and a small toy first. At first he was tense and kept laughing nervously, but after a while he started relaxing and actually enjoying it. When I found the right spot and started pressing on it properly, his whole body reacted. He got so hard without me even touching his dick. The sounds he made were completely different from normal sex.
I ended up making him cum just from prostate stimulation and it was the most intense orgasm I’ve ever seen him have. He was shaking and moaning so loud I got worried the neighbors would hear. After he came he just laid there for like 10 minutes trying to catch his breath.
Now I can’t stop thinking about doing it again. He said he really liked it but he’s still a little shy about asking for it. I want to do it more often but I don’t want to push him too hard. Has anyone else dealt with this? Like your partner enjoyed it but still feels embarrassed to ask for it regularly?
I have used a few vibrating anal plugs that really haven’t given any good sensations. I used my njoy wand recently and had good feelings but never got there. I saw some inflating anal plugs and am curious. Has anyone ever used one and did it do the trick?
Hiiii.
Long story short I recently started prostate play with toys. Currently I can either insert a finger or the douche that is basically the lenght of a long dick but barely thicker then a finger.
I already came my brains out from just playing with the douche but Im too tight for an actual dildo/cock. How can I work up to be able to take in dicks?
For people here that use weed for prostate play — how much do you normally take? I normally take either a 2.5mg edible, up to a 5mg. Anything more than that and I start to get too high to really enjoy it as my mind is to loud too focus on pleasure.
Hi all, still hunting for the big P orgasm. I’m close and enjoying the ride. It has been many years of experimenting.
So I’ve recently found that sometimes if I use a dildo BEFORE I use an aneros or my njoy wand that it feels more intense and better because I’m a little bit looser and also maybe because the pre-play with dildos has helped waken up my prostate a bit.
I am wondering if you guys have any suggestions on your pre/post play as far as the steps you take.
Do you dildo before and it makes aneros better? Or do you use aneros first then a dildo? Or back and fourth? Ect.
Always looking for good ideas. I always start with a toy then move to aneros and stay with aneros because I don’t want to go BACK to a toy because I’m trying to relax my body and riding a dildo isn’t exactly relaxing. But maybe that’s the key?!
Any tips? Thoughts?
Does anyone else love the way cannabis makes their hole tingle? I love the feeling as it seeps in. First it's imperceptible, then it grows more intense. Eventually, I'm squirming with that need, craving anal/prostate play. What a delicious sensation! I'd love to hear your stories.
I read on a forum for gay stories how someone brought another person to orgasm by stimulating their prostate with their tongue. Is that possible? If so, how? Please let me know.
I’m 22 and my boyfriend and I have a pretty good sex life. We’ve talked about trying pegging before and he seems curious, but every time we get close to actually doing it he backs out at the last minute. He says he wants to try but then gets anxious when we’re about to start.
I’ve done a lot of research and I really want to make it good for him. I bought a nice harness and a beginner-friendly dildo, and I’ve been watching tutorials on how to do it properly. I keep telling him we can go as slow as he wants and stop anytime, but he still seems nervous.
I don’t want to pressure him into something he’s not ready for, but I also really want to try this with him. He’s the first guy I’ve been with who I feel comfortable exploring this kind of thing with.
For the girls who have successfully introduced pegging or prostate play to their partners — how did you make them feel safe and comfortable enough to actually go through with it? Any specific things you said or did that helped?