r/ProstatePlay

I just got mine today! Water based lubes dry out too quickly. Has anyone tried any others and it didn't ruin it?

Right, so it’s been 16 days since I last had a traditional wank to ejaculation. What started as a simple quest for my first HFWO has turned into this daily (sometimes twice-daily) ultra-gratifying prostate pleasure spiral. My boyfriend’s out of town dealing with family drama, so it’s just been me at home having proper 45–60 minute sessions first thing in the morning before work, last thing at night, or both. Usually start with the Helix Syn or Eupho, sometimes finish with the Njoy or a dildo. I’ve been so trigger-happy that within two or three minutes of putting a toy in I’m already getting those deep abdominal contractions that bloom into HFDOs. Sometimes I’ll have porn on (usually just listening), most of the time it’s binaural beats in the headphones with classical music in the background so the neighbours don’t hear me moaning and cumming like a complete slut.

I’ve been ending every session with intentional HFWOs just so I can actually get to sleep or leave for work and shut the constant waves up. Sometimes it’s a choice, sometimes my body just forces it.

The last two days I had zero play. Work was stressful, boyfriend’s family stuff was stressful, lots of heavy conversations about aging parents — not exactly sexy vibes. This morning my stomach was off so a proper clean-out wasn’t happening. No toys today then. I just lay on the bed gooning, watching porn, playing with my poor 16-day-neglected cock. Edging myself over and over. Proper rock hard, balls feeling heavy as fuck. Keep in mind my prostate had been getting drained once or twice a day until two days ago, so now I’m backed up on top of 16 days of no penile release.

I’m lying there teasing and denying myself, having a proper goon session, when all of a sudden my legs start twitching. Then my whole body starts involuntarily shaking and a full HFDO just takes over. Legs pull up, I’m literally vibrating on the bed. Most intense prostate orgasm and it started from me stroking my dick. Completely dry, no toy, and the refractory period was like 10–20 seconds. It finally dies down, I’m lying there breathless thinking “what the fuck was that?”

Naturally I wonder if I can do it again.

Start wanking to porn again and within a minute or two another HFDO hits, even stronger. Legs clapping together, I can actually feel my prostate engorge and push like it does against a toy… except nothing’s there. I just relax into it and this orgasm rolls and rolls and keeps going until it finally lets me go.

At this point my body is desperate for release. I get on my knees, back straight, arse between my feet (my usual HFWO position) and another HFDO immediately slams into me. It’s so intense I end up folding forward, chest down, arse up, face in the pillow, just getting wrecked by it. Then that massive prostate-engorged feeling hits again, I’m groaning like an animal, start panting, feel my urethra relax like I’m about to piss… and suddenly an aless HFWO erupts. Proper gush of prostatic fluid all over my hand and my new waterproof blanket (cheers for that rec, lads).

As soon as it finishes I’m floating and the pleasure itself triggers another one. Stronger. Squirting again. Then a third wave hits and this time the HFWO morphs into a full peegasm — pure euphoric release, all that pressure just flowing out of my cock in a stream while my whole body is still convulsing with pleasure.

I properly collapsed after that. Completely fucked, deeply satisfied, and honestly a bit stunned.

I didn’t know that was even possible. I was fully planning on having a proper wank this weekend and resetting, especially after reading how some of you lot take breaks or wank weekly to stay sensitive. But now… I don’t know. Maybe I’ll see how long I can ride this wave instead. I’ve never felt anything so blissfully, ridiculously pleasurable in my life.

Had to share.

Cheers.

Over the years I experimented with a lot of different toys and lubes. I own a few aneros toys, several dildos and a knockoff njoy wand. Currently I like riding my dildos the most. It feels great and I even managed to squeeze out a few drops of thick semen one time.

However, there is something that seriously dampens my enjoyment of using my toys: Any lube seems to get completely dry within just a couple of minutes. In the past I have tried water based lubes, silicone base lubes (with a condom on silicone toys), oils like cocunut oil or crisco, and hybrid stuff. I like X-Lube very much, because I can mix it to my desired thickness and even blend it with coconut oil for a hybrid lube.

I am aware that just lubing the toy is not enough, because the sphincter will easily squeeze that off. Therefore, I am using lube shooters before starting to play with my toys.

It doesn't matter what I do, within a few minutes it feels like the friction of the toy in my butt is continuously increasing. At a certain point I can't handle that anymore and have to pull the toy out to reapply lube. When I then inspect the toy, it is indeed for the most part dry. I can go for maybe 3-5 minutes at a time, before having to reapply lube, and this just completely kills my mood after a few times.

Does anyone of you have similar experiences? Any tips to keep it slick longer?

Do you usually use porn, audio, or something else during your sessions?

I have been a fairly regular user of a Njoy wand and a suction dildo that I like standing up in the shower. I’ve never used a vibrator before but I have used a plug.

I recently bought the lovense edge 2 because I was attracted to the concept of syncing with music and using more advanced patterns.

,Usually in my other sessions I can go for 15-30 minutes and there’s only minor tissue stress that goes away by the next day when I’m done. However, with the lovense after 5-10 minutes of a beginner setting and the head angled far away from the base (ie less pressure on prostate) I’m very sore and have to stop.

Is this something I really need to build up to slowly even though I’m otherwise experienced or am I maybe just sensitive to vibe?

TLDR: Does anyone feel a difference between vibrating toys that buzz vs toys that rumble?

Hey guys,

My boyfriend and I (20s, hetero) have recently got into prostate play.

We have a lovense edge 2, njoy wand, glass wand, plus all my girl toys.

Regarding vibration, he doesn’t get anything out of the edge 2 - it has a “high pitched”, buzzy vibration that seems to numb him a lot.

However, the other night i tried one of my own cheap vibrating dildos on him, that has a very intense but very low/rumbly vibration, and instantly he was moaning in pleasure.

Does anyone here know what I’m talking about? Are there any prostate toys out there that “rumble” instead of buzzing? Cant seem to find much online about this. Would love to hear if anyone has any recommendations!

I’ve always loved playing with dildos. That feeling when you’ve been aching for it all day, you get home, and you go straight for your fav dildo. That tingling of anticipation as you lube the dildo feels great. But the sensation as you slide it completely in for the first time is mind blowing. It makes my toes curl every time.

I’ve recently found a new feeling I love. Mid session, I’ll push the dildo in as deep as I can, lay flat on my back on the bed, and squeeze my legs together and roll my hips. The fullness I feel is incredible!

Are there any movements and sensations you have with dildos that give those incredible sensations?

I apologise and please feel free to remove if this is not the right place for this but I have been taking Peruvian maca and i have been feeling a lot more pleasure from my prostate sessions sex and life in general. Does anyone know if there are any reported effects on prostate play? Also I am planning on using Ashwaganda as well. Does anyone know if there are any side effects ?

So usually when I play I'll get some pre cum leaking out which I love and would do anything to make it happen even more. But the other night I was playing as normal and leaking a little bit before I took a break to get some food and water. Then I went back to playing with my dildo on the wall and backing myself against it, and out of nowhere cum came out of my dick, but it wasn't cum or precum it was weird. It had the consistency of cum, but the colour and taste of precum. I never had this happen before, I didn't cum, I didn't orgasm in any way and my dick was completely limp. I could feel it coming up through my dick as my dildo pressed against my prostate, and it felt amazing. How do I make this happen again, I haven't had any luck whatsoever in recreating this, but am definitely going to keep trying. If I can make myself cum precum while limp I don't think I'd ever need to touch my dick again.

It doesn't get talked about as much here compared to HFWOs, HFDOs, etc, but man I was surprised by how good this was.

So, one day when I was fingering myself, I managed to get some fluid come out by pressing on the gland. It felt good and I wanted to keep going, but my fingers were getting tired. I already have an Njoy, so I looked up how to do it, and I eventually tried it.

It was amazing. Took me a while to get the right technique and positioning down, but once I got going, I just kept leaking and leaking. Looks like cum, but it isn't. And I couldn't resist tasting some every time I leaked. My cock was a mess when I was done.

Anyone else tried or like milking?

I’m still a beginner when it comes to prostate stimulation, and I wanted to share what happened during my third full session.

I described my first session in this post. As for the second one, there isn’t really much to say - it was much less enjoyable than the first and honestly a bit disappointing.

Yesterday evening, I wasn’t sure whether I should have another session or take a break after the disappointing second one. In the end, I decided to give it another try.

I basically followed the same routine as during my first session. I prepared everything, relaxed, and put on an erotic audio story in the background. I started lying on my back and slowly inserted the toy using the smaller end. I left it there for a while without moving it, just to get used to the sensation.

After that, I slowly started trying to find that particular feeling I experienced during my first session. It took some time, but eventually I managed to feel it again. I stayed in that position for a while, experimenting with the movement and depth.

Then I changed positions. I turned over, rested on my knees and head against the bed, and raised my hips. I noticed that, at least for me, the sensation in my penis was slightly stronger in this position compared to lying on my back.

I stayed like that for quite a while and also experimented with the position of my legs - bringing them closer together and moving them farther apart. I eventually found that having my legs spread slightly wider than shoulder-width worked best for me.

I also experimented with the movement and depth of the toy. Because of that, the sensation in my penis would sometimes disappear completely. Interestingly, when that happened, I sometimes felt a different but still quite pleasant sensation in the anus, right around the area I was stimulating.

After spending some time in that position, I decided to try squatting. That position wasn't particularly comfortable for me either. The sensation in my penis would appear and then quickly disappear, and this happened several times while I was in that position.

Eventually, I decided to try the larger end of the toy. Until then, I had only used the smaller end. Honestly, I wasn't even sure I'd be able to insert the larger end, and I was a little nervous about trying it. But I decided to give it a shot, and surprisingly, it went in very smoothly and without any pain.

And it seemed to work much better for me.

Almost immediately after inserting it that way, I felt that familiar pleasant sensation in my penis. I barely had to search for it at all.

I then changed positions again. I got on my knees and sat back toward my heels, but slightly lifted myself and supported one hand on the bed in front of me. For some reason, this position worked really well for me. I stayed like that for quite a long time, and the sensation in my penis was almost constant. Occasionally it would disappear for a few seconds, but then it would come back again.

Eventually, I started getting tired and decided to finish the session. But I was curious about how things would feel if I just kept listening to the audio story I had put on.

I lay flat on my stomach, spread my legs slightly, switched back to the smaller end of the toy, and made very small back-and-forth movements while applying a little pressure toward the front wall.

After some time, the sensation in the head of my penis started getting stronger. I gradually increased the intensity of the movements, and eventually I had an orgasm.

I want to point out that I wasn't intentionally trying to stimulate my penis by lying on it. It just happened as a result of the position I was in.

The orgasm was stronger than my usual orgasms from masturbation and lasted longer as well. During the orgasm, my whole body started twitching, especially my legs, which were shaking quite strongly. That has never happened to me during a normal masturbation orgasm.

One more thing I noticed afterward: when I got up to start cleaning up after the session, my legs were slightly shaky and felt a little weak. I had to take it easy for a moment before I felt completely steady again.

I should also mention that I hadn't masturbated for 7 days before this session.

I know this probably wasn't a true prostate orgasm, since I was lying on my stomach at the end and the position may have provided some indirect stimulation to my penis, which could have contributed to the orgasm.

I just wanted to share the experience because it was definitely a big step forward compared with my previous sessions. I'm still trying to understand exactly what I'm feeling and what is actually happening, but I'm really curious to hear what you guys think.

And thanks again for reading another ridiculously long post all the way to the end! I really appreciate everyone who takes the time to read my experiences and share their thoughts.

Had a break of sorts from prostate play last week. Didnt completely stop it but did it a hell of a lot less, no proper sessions, just little ones.

I did a lot more wanking as opposed to the none i usually do. It confirmed what i basically already know. That cock play shuts down the nice prostate feelings i get spontaneously throughout the day and shut off my horniness. Sex also wasnt as mindblowingly great as it is when im only prostate playing and ignoring my cock.

So it was a break of sorts. I usually start my week with 4 days of no ejaculation and no cock play, just lots and lots of prostate orgasms. This week has been mindbendingly insane.

On just the first day i was having orgasms as great and as easily as what id usually get on day 3 or 4. Day 2 blew that out of the water, best sessions ive ever had. Im on day 3 now and my first session of the day (which can be my least receptive) wad just as wild as day 2. I cant fathom day 4 being able to get any better but well see.

Has anyone else ever taken a break and came back to their prostate being wilder than ever before?

Okay, it's the knock off Amazon one, but damn. I've had this thing for a year and have tried it consistently with no luck. Until last night.

I recently learned that my prostate really loves pressure rather than vibration or movement. So I inserted the smaller side and had the other end go towards my back so that the curve was pressed right into my prostate.

I've done this before in the shower, but I decided this time to lay in my bed on my back so that it pressed up HARD against my prostate.

OH FUCK...

I knew instantly I was going to be a puddle. Orgasm after orgasm until I was fully leaking precum all over myself. Then I took it further, as I like to just have my mind melt. I put on an erotic hypnosis file that encourages hands free orgasms and had it loop were each loop the orgasm got stronger and stronger.

I'm talking earth shattering orgasms where my whole body is shaking, causing the toy to rub even more on my prostate, and then having another orgasm. Fucking moaning uncontrollably.

I did this for two hours until I struggled to form sentences. Uhggg, this is what I crave so much and why I even decided to train my body to have prostate orgasms.

Side note: I highly encourage erotic hypnosis files. Best case, you are cumming your brains out. Worst case, it's like a guided meditation that helps you relax and focus your attention on your pleasure (which also helps you cum your brains out).

I can still feel my prostate throbbing with pleasure the day after. Almost teasing me to go at it again tonight.

One thing has always bothered me and i want an answer.

So the prostate is 2-3 inches inside the ass right. So why are vast majority of devices designed to stimulate it WAY longer that 2-3 inches. Surely that means it goes past it entirely, surely smaller devices are the way forward!

Ive found that myself, the smaller the device the better.

Just wondering you guys would use small toys just enough to hit the prostate or go all in with 7+ inches, vibrating or non vibrating?

Hey guys! I've been bottoming a lot in the past, but never got the real deal hands free orgasm. Then I've got fissure and stopped for years. Now I'm trying to get in shape again, and I've randomly found this sub a while ago, so I've decided to try.

Have been stretching for some time - very very cautiously. Then started to rub the prostate with some cheap silicone dildo I have - it has convenient bumps in some places. Didn't get much effect. Tried that for a week.

The trick was to stop ejaculating for a couple of days - this was very hard for me - couldn't sleep, couldn't concentrate on my work, turned out I'm totally addicted. But it did help.

After a couple of days touching my nipples instead of penis while rubbing the prostate - I've started to get fair amount of precum out of it, eating it, like some dude from the sub adviced earlier - it really does make you more horny - how does that work, it's some magic?

So anyways, I've got so horny that I've forgot about caution and used bigger dildo, with bigger and sharper bumps on it. I've milked what felt like gallons of precum out of it. In fact it wasn't that much, but felt like I'm peeing a whole puddle of it. I mostly did reverse kegel, like I'm pushing it out - it felt better. Sensations were incredible, like usual anal, but more intense. And what's more incredible - I didn't feel the urge to ejaculate with my penis, like at all - I was all about the ass.

So in the heat of the moment I think I've overdone it - I've felt some discomfort and got scared that I've got another fissure (later turned out it's fine, probably just not enough lube) - I'd had to end it. So I've remembered the first rule of training - always cum with something in your butt - and decided to cum while it's still in my butt.

It was very intense penile orgasm, it lasted much longer than usual - and after that for about 5 minutes I've experienced involuntary contractions, with about 5 seconds period. They weren't super pleasant, just, you know, my anus was clenching and penis twitching, just mechanically.

And after 20 minutes I've found out that I'm horny again - usually takes me at least 5 hours.

What do you think? Did I experience some kind of lesser version of prostate orgasm mixed with penile orgasm or something? Anyways, it already was great! I'm anticipating round 2, once my poor ass gets some rest.

So my wife has known about my prostate play for about a year now and we do incorporate it into sex. She has also come home and found me with a toy in my ass before, once completely by accident and a few times when I knew she was coming home and I was getting a head start on our night. No big deal.

Well, yesterday was a bit different. I can see our work cameras on my phone so only do the more extreme things she doesn't know about when I am 100% not going to get caught, but somehow lost track of time and thought I had more time. Did a bit of THC so time compressed somehow since the last time I checked in.

Heard the dogs bark and figured it was just Amazon or something again since I thought I checked recently and had at least an hour. For some reason though I decided to get up and peek out just in case and panic hit me as I saw her car already parked in the driveway and she could walk in any second.

As I said before, she has caught me before, but this time there were many things that she didn't know about. For one, I was wearing a pair of her panties. Two, I had on a negative chastity cage and I don't think she even knows what a regular cage is. Three, had camera on my phone streaming to the TV so I could watch. My balls were rubbed down with shea butter which I use for the cage. Also had three stainless steel ball stretcher rings she doesn't know about in the bathroom sink along with three different Aneros I had been trying in addition to the one in me.

Talk about panic! Had no idea how I would explain all that to her at one time. Had no idea if I could put away anything in time or get cage off.

Luckily she took a bit of time so I was able to get the cage off quick. Threw the cage and the harness that holds it on in a drawer. Pulled out toy and three in the sink with the others. Had no idea how to hide them all so just scooped them all up with both hands and threw in our sex toy drawer still all covered in Xlube. Tried my best to wipe my ass and hands and throw on sweat pants.

Well, she came in and asked if I was playing and didn't answer he so she probably just thought a standard session and let it go.

Lesson to be learned. Next time I will keep a plastic grocery bag around your quick throwing everything into and also wash and put away the toys as I use them. Also need to keep much better track of time.

So recently I've had a lot of time to myself and I've been using it to explore a lot. Different toys and positions all with the goal of maybe one day having a dry orgasm. I've managed to cum a few times laying on my side and fucking myself with a dildo that's got just the right curve to brush my prostate until I shake, and cum all over myself. The feeling of cumming from just fucking myself is so intense it makes me want to give up stroking entirely and just fuck myself all day everyday, but that can wait. In the meantime I'm going to have a whole day to myself next week and I fully intend to do nothing but play, ride and fuck myself until I cum over and over again.