r/ProstatePlay

Here is my story about finding prostate orgasm,

First of all, I was a bit skeptical about the prostate orgasm. I’ve been into anal play for over 10 years—I love it—but I’d never experienced a prostate orgasm. So for those who doubt it, it’s very real!!

One day, I decided to get serious about it, by not touching my penis anymore and using a chastity cage. After two weeks, practicing three to four times a week, I achieved a prostate orgasm.

I used to practice with a regular dildo (I can’t afford to buy an Njoy). But I have a glass dildo, and after a regular anal session, I used it and felt something different, but nothing more. For the next session, I read that THC could help. So I used it; I started with some classic anal play, riding my dildo while watching porn. I was so turned on. Then I used the glass dildo; I felt the same as during the previous session but stronger. I kept stimulating that specific spot, and I finally reached an orgasm, then two, then three—each one more intense than the last. It was so intense; it lasted over 30 minutes.

Since then, I’ve been reaching a prostate orgasm almost every time, and it’s getting more and more intense.

I'm just wondering if I've reached the famous “super O.” All my prostate orgasms have been absolutely amazing—each one better than a penile orgasm. So if each one was better than any orgasm I've ever had, how am I supposed to know where the limit is and what the prostate climax feels like? 🤔

Hey everyone,

I’ve recently gotten into the idea of prostate massage and wanted to try it out on myself. However, I haven't really had any success so far.

I’ve already read through the Getting Started guide and checked the search bar. I’ve been experimenting a bit with relaxation, different positions, and stimulation, but I’m still unsure if I’m even hitting the right spot or if I'm doing something wrong.

I would love to get some personal tips from more experienced guys, especially regarding:

- Typical beginner mistakes to avoid

- Good positions that help when starting out

- Tips for mental and physical relaxation

- How to tell if you’re actually stimulating the prostate correctly (what does it feel like?)

- General recommendations for newcomers

I’m asking genuinely and would really appreciate your helpful answers and experiences. Thanks!

I find that when I’m riding big blue (my toy) for any length of time (either standing or kneeling) that my legs start to get fatigued and it detracts from my focus and makes it harder to have a HFDO (or even an HFWO).

Just wondering if anyone has any suggestions for positions.

I can try on my back but then if I’m reaching around that creates upper body tension and it’s the same problem.

Thanks in advance for any suggestions 🙏

Wild session tonight that left me useless. Started with my new aneros progasm. Worked it for about 20 minutes and got frustrated, so I masturbated to finish, still felt incredible with the Aneros pressing while I came.

Then I left it in and being that I was already sitting with a swollen prostate, it didnt take much time for me to work up to what I thought was going to be a prostate orgasm, but when I got to the point where it felt like I needed to pee, I had the most intense peegasm. I shot rope after powerful rope of piss and prostate fluid and absolutely drenched myself and the towels around me. I think I may have hit the ceiling. Completely new experience that I absolutely loved as I have a but of a piss kink too. Ok, kind really into piss haha. I thought I've had a peegasm before, but nothing even close to that.

After that I played think I was done playing, but somehow became super hard within a minute so I masturbated again just for fun, but that third orgasm came just as quick. My body had little to no fluid to provide on that one haha.

All in all, incredible experience and I think im starting to get the hang of all this.

When I first started, I thought that prostate orgasms are a myth. That its a huge exaggeration of some nice sensations you get from anal play.

I was so wrong… first time I had prostate orgasm, I was shocked that its actually a real thing.

So I thought, ok, prostate orgasms are real, but I’m 100% sure that you can only get one of two 10 second orgasms and thats it. I read about aneros users reporting 10-20 minute long orgasms, and thought its a bit of an exaggeration.

I was so wrong… when I learned to orgasm with aneros, I started to get continuous almost infinite orgasms. Mindblowing..

Then I thought, ok, aneros works because its such a subtle and precise tool to stimulate prostate, for sure you cant get any results with dildos. They are too aggressive and overwhelming to make you orgasm.

I was so wrong… turned out that dildos work absolutely amazing. They stimulate everything from anus to the depths of anal cavity, and orgasms they bring are next level.

Then I didnt believe that you can orgasm whilst riding a dildo instead of laying still, I was wrong about that too, then came realisation that I can orgasm standing in the shower, jumping on my bed, orgasming with fingers, orgasming without anything in my ass at all…

And the latest discovery became vibrators.
Today I decided to try my old prostate vibrator. Holy shit I had an amazing session. I was orgasming for hours until the battery died. I read on forums that vibrations hide subtle sensations that lead to dry orgasms, but people on forums were wrong too. Vibrations are amazing. I was overwhelmed by pulsating rhythm of constant vibrations, felt like I was being fucked non stop and had wave after wave of amazing deep orgasms.

So next logical step for me is trying out fuck machines. I think that people who say that they have amazing orgasms with fuck machines are exaggerating a bit.

I’m sure that I am wrong

I just bought a dildo about 2 inch in diameter and 8 inch I it felt amazing I just thrusted like 2 time and immediately I orgasmed, I actually enjoys dildos but now I think that my go to is big dildos

What works for you? I know everyone have different types of toys that make the job so what should I try next?

So a little bit of background: I have been involved in prostate stuff for years now and have bottomed regularly (so the rewiring is basically done I think). But for some reason it never occurred to me to just keep going after the first orgasm.

2 weeks ago I smoked some weed and had the best two hours of pleasure I have ever had with my prostate, I must have had 30 odd dry orgasms, each time I came my entire body was convulsing and at one point I lost control of my hands and they were moving my dildo by themselves.

I had to force myself to go get water about half way through and I could barely walk! My entire body was shaking.

As I kept going the orgasms got closer and closer together until every thrust sent p waves through me. I can only describe it as a hot energy field emanating from my prostate and flying really fast through my body, once it got to the top of my head it sort of shimmered like the northern lights? No idea if anyone has any similar experiences to this. But I think I passed out (not sure because my memory can be slightly spotty when high) and when I came to the dildo was still in me and I had 3 more full body orgasms, which felt much more mellow but more loving? I have absolutely no idea how this works but I felt so warm, loved and at peace that I started crying.

After that I crawled into bed and had aftershocks for a while before falling asleep.

My whole outlook and experience of life literally changed overnight after this, the social anxiety is gone, the constant need to prove my worth to people is gone, the self hatred has practically been eradicated. I feel like I am finally living!

I feel at home in my body, I feel proud of the things I’ve done, I feel so confident and happy. Any time I’m in a situation that would have caused me mental stress in the past my prostate reacts I get this cloud of reassurance and confidence that completely wipes out any self doubt.

It gave me the courage to come out as bi to my parents, my mother wasn’t so accepting and said some awful things but I just laughed. It has completely renewed me and I am so ready to start living and thriving instead of just surviving.

Has anyone else had a mental renewal like this? I think if every man could experience this the world would be an extremely better place.

The title says it all but to give a little context. A few weeks ago I was playing with my favorite dildo. I started the session laying down some waterproof matts because I have a kink of covering myself with oil (coconut oil is my fave). I use it all over myself. After that I got into my favorite position. Laying on left side/belly with my right leg pulled into my chest, left leg straight and ass in the air.

I used a curved dildo that hits my spot perfectly. I started out slowly then built up speed until I was completely relaxed. I started fucking myself harder and harder until my eyes were rolling back and letting out moans. I started to feel what felt like a Hands free wet orgasm which I’ve had before and it was great. This feeling was a little different though. Not like peeing either. Very intense buildup that got more and more intense with each dildo thrust. All of the sudden I felt this warm sensation over my whole body and I started shaking uncontrollably then I just completely let go and let my body fully relax face down and after a few more thrusts all of the sudden fluid started coming out like a-lot of fluid and the whole time it was coming out I felt like I was having a long massive orgasm.

After that I couldn’t physically move for a few minutes so I just laid there in a big puddle until I was ready to clean myself up. Since then I have done this 1 more time and same thing happened. From what I have read this is most likely a mixture of prostate fluid, cum and pee? It didn’t smell like pee and wasn’t tinted. It was clear but a-lot comes out.

So from my understanding this is similar to woman “Squirting” right? Either way it was absolutely amazing and I plan to have more sessions like this.

When I get stimulated, my prostate gets big af and my rectum squeezes really hard. At some point the dildos get squeezed out although they might be deep in. I can sometimes keep bouncing on the dildo and I start dripping pre but at some point it’s too intense and I can’t move and the dildo gets squeezed out. What can I do to keep going and prevent the dildo from going out ?

Wonder how many of you, particularly those happily married play alone. Either in secret, or as luckily for me my wife knows and plays with me also, but solo sessions are also very special.

For me solo sessions are amazing, but different. I can have an amazing solo session thinking only of loving myself and not really even needing to feel sexual. Just a feeling of pure bliss. I can touch myself and not have to imagine that it is someone else.
Try it sometime if you have not already. Just concentrate on being alone and loving yourself emotionally and physically.

I experience my first ever prostate orgasm and nipple orgasm at the same time. I never knew the body can feel that much pleasure. And mind you this only my 3rd day exploring my prostate. I was having a gooning/edging session and it came time I sticked my toy to prostate play in hopes I can hands free orgasm. And while enjoying the playtime with the prostate I remember a Reddit post someone mentioning that rubbing the nipples helped so I tried it. And when I tell you that tingle feeling from the prostate all the way up to the penis was the most amazing thing I felt. I immediately knew this was it a hands free orgasm was on the way. Leaking great amounts of precum and once I put my phone down and did both my nipples and focused it finally came! My first ever prostate orgasm my ass never felt so good then came the nipple playing leading me to achieve the hands free orgasm we all chase.

Hello all,

Long time lurker here and just let me say thank you for sharing all your stories and tips. Have been into prostate play now for many years with varying success. I've felt the p-waves, had HFWO and HFDO, but the other day experienced something new and amazing.

I started the day off with my Charlie Horse Milk It in. This thing tends to overwhelm me, usually make it 5-10 minutes before the p-waves start, growing in intensity until I start to moan and drip precum and prostate fluid. Muscle contractions start moving it around inside me intensifying the feeling to the point I need to take it out for a minute or two.

But as I've recently discovered, when I do gently pull it out, I'm hit with such a strong orgasm that I actually squirt! Streams of clear viscous fluid start spraying out of me with full body muscle contractions that last 30 seconds or so.

After 2 or 3 rounds of this while watching porn, nipple clamps and ball stretcher on, I decide to send an sexy message to my wife, enticing her to come home. She responds she already on the way. So grab a few toys to set out on the dresser, set up the under the mattress restraints and strap my self in with a blindfold.

I hear her walk in, let out a little laugh, then feel her mouth on my dick. After a few minutes of that, I hear the squirt of the lube bottle and feel her easing a dildo inside of me. She fucks me with the dildo occasionally licking up the precum that is now dripping out of my dick quite profusely. She can feel when the p-waves hit me as it feels like my ass is sucking the dildo in and out on its own. I lose all track of time at this point, her fucking me, biting my nipples, licking the head of my dick.

At some point she stripped naked and slid down onto my dick. Straddled over me, dildo still inside me, I begin thrusting, alternating between sliding into her and feeling a dick sliding into me in pure ecstasy, feeling my wife orgasm on my dick, feeling her juices mixed with my own dripping onto me. And that is when it hit me. I've never felt something like this before, it was like a bomb went off inside me. Pure pleasure just washing over every inch of my body, losing control over my arms and legs, moaning loudly. And it just kept going, felt like cumming for 3-5 minutes continuously, like the most intense and longest orgasm I've ever had at the same time.

Now I've spent years playing with various toys, not specifically trying to get to this point, but just enjoying the "ride", feeling the pleasure both alone and with my wife. So I suppose those of you looking for advise, that is all I can give, enjoy yourself and don't focus on the end goal, enjoy the journey.

I’ve been diving into more and more prostate and anal play over the past few months. As most of you will surely agree, this is addicting. While I certainly find myself craving it almost daily, I usually play once a week at most. I’m sure that I can safely do more, but I’m curious is there’s a limit for how often you should do it before you start running into medical issues like prolapsing.

For reference, I’m only using a toy that is 7.5” insertable and about 5.5” in circumference. I’d like to start playing more with width and depth (separately). I’d also be curious how upping girth or length could factor in. I suspect I could somewhat safely play daily with my current toy, but size changes may change the answer.

It’s been soo long since I’ve used my prostate toy but I am trying to get back into it. I’m curious to know does your dick stay hard or soft after your prostate orgasm. My gf was suggesting to use the toy and then have sex but I don’t know if that orgasm is gonna make me soft for a long while as my prostate orgasm is really intense (but really pleasurable unlike anything else). Do you stay hard whilst you have the toy in you??

Hey guys, anyone noticed any advantages or effects affecting play while taking Graminex?

TL;DR is in bold toward the bottom!

The story: After trying for like, years, in every possible position, with toys of every permutation of size and shape, vibrating, inflating, hell, even electrical-play, I have yet to hit that golden high. Occasionally, I'll hit a libidinous high point and take the extra time to be like, "What the hell am I doing wrong?" Which invariably leads me here. Every. Time. (Because websites, medical sites, etc etc are all the same boilerplate advice on this subject.)

The backstory: Pretty much my whole being is antithetical to this type of stim. I had an incredibly abusive childhood, which did include sexual abuse. I have MDD and OCD and just constant intrusive thoughts, so definitely not in that "relaxed state of mind", ever, really. Even when I was in puberty, it took me forever to get off, and I could only do so in one position. (kneeling) My frenulum is incredibly sensitive, but I simply cannot cum from having it stimulated, no matter what. I have to stimulate the dorsal part of my head, underneath the glans.

Recently, I began undergoing sexual trauma therapy and in the past few months I've had some real breakthroughs, leading to a new lease on my sexuality. It's like a switch has been flipped; I'm now horny several times a day most days, and get off at least twice. While I wouldn't say I'm able to hit that state of relaxation, I can focus now and get into the moment more. (I also had some med changes, so I'm sure that has helped as well)

At any rate, last year I got a decently large toy (9.5" insertable, 2.6" diameter) kind of out of frustration at not being able to really reach anything satisfying with an nJoy wand; nor anything thick n stout; nor this fleshy pink number of average size which, to my mind at least, brought me the closest I'd come to a Super O. I figured, why not give size a try? When I tried the 7 incher at first, it felt huge and I felt sexy with it in me.

It's strange, I see people everywhere talking about not being able to take this or that, but I have never had an issue with getting stuff to fit. To wit: the first few times using this girthy stallion, I took almost the whole thing. And, for the sake of painting a complete picture, my libido kinda sucked for a long, long time, and so buttplay was a fairly occasional thing. However, this kinda altered the game for me. I loves me a challenge, and I was determined to ride this thing to victory. But, again, it was not to be. I could ride until I was sore, and I'd hit a peak, then plateau and just lose it.

But, even though it didn't work to get me off, I did have some crazy pleasant feelings, which is what spurred me on to keep trying. Often when I'd use it, it'd be partially inserted, and then I'd move a little bit and it would slide like, right in, down to the hilt. When this happened, I'd get this intense feeling, my legs would shake and get weak, I'd get super giddy and giggly, and I wondered what the hell this was? But, the feeling was either short-lived -- I'd try and grind or wriggle around but it didn't seem to make a difference -- or I got this weird "pressure" feeling, where I felt like maybe it was going somewhere, but, while not painful, I felt this internal "go back", feeling. As I've been feeling sexually better now, I've been using this thick fucker on almost a daily basis, same sort of dead end results, which brought me back here.

Anyway, in this digital sojourn, I ran across a post about "the sigmoid colon", which in turn led to finding posts about depth play. Reading about this more and more, it definitely sounded like what I was experiencing. A few people mentioned their legs getting weak, getting a really crazy feeling once it's in all the way, their "brain short-circuiting", etc. All things I feel for those blissful few minutes it's working its magic inside of me. Haha, I giggle and laugh in a brain-turn-off-okay-feel-good-now dumb sort of way. I definitely need that.

So, apparently I've been depth playing for a while now, I just didn't know what it was, or why! Thanks, people, for informing me! Now I can go and honestly try to move it around at different angles to see if that produces any more results beyond just being bouncy and giggling like a schoolgirl.

I wanted to share my first experience with the Njoy Wand for anyone thinking about buying one.

I already own three dildos, five butt plugs, and one vibrator. While I’ve gotten pleasure from many of them (especially the bigger ones), I’ve rarely felt much direct prostate stimulation. After reading so many posts here, I finally decided to try the Njoy Wand.

I started by dilating my ass with my fingers and a medium/small dildo. I didn’t feel anything in my prostate. Then I switched to the Njoy Wand for the first time. Insertion was easy. As soon as I started moving it up and down and in and out, I immediately understood why it’s so popular. The hard metal ball pressed, scraped, and squeezed my prostate with real intensity. For me it was roughly 60% pain and 40% pleasure — quite harsh but effective. Keep in mind it's my first time though.

After a while I went back to my dildo, and the difference was big. My prostate suddenly felt “awake” and sensitive from the previous stimulation. The dildo felt dramatically more pleasurable than before. I kept switching between the Njoy Wand and the dildo. When I was thrusting with the dildo with a limp dick, I could clearly feel my prostate being massaged, and I got that strong “urge to pee” sensation that gets mentioned here so often. I thought I might have been getting close to a prostate orgasm, so I kept going, but after about an hour of play I still couldn’t get there and decided to stop.

Overall it was a very interesting first session. Any tips on how to move forward from here toward a full prostate orgasm (or even a super-O)? I’d really appreciate your advice.

Ok! Try this; stimulate the frenulum when you use a prostate massager. Do this for a a long time with only one lubricated finger. And yes! Only one finger and let it last. After a while the precum will flow out in thick long streams. And keep rubbing the frenulum with only one finger until the penis explodes into a spermfountan. Enjoy!

And for those who doesn’t know what the frenulum is; its the most sensitive part of the penis. Right under the v-shaped part of the head. Its the part where the foreskin meets the head. Its the sweetspot.

Last night I used my Aneros toy for the 3rd time ever. I had it in while playing a video game and after about 10 mins I felt a very warm sensation inside me and I believe I had one very brief p wave. My heart was pounding a bit. After that I turned off the game and just tried to focus on what was happening with my toy.

I started moving my hips back and forth while laying on my back. Warm sensation never went away but, nothing really happened beyond that. I played for about 1 hour. Thoughts?

Let my wife use a toy on me for first time last night. Full story in MarriedSex.
The toy was longer, about 8 inches, and thinner than most I’ve seen and was beaded and vibrated. I’ve posted on here before about how we have tried others, but none quite got there. This one was longer and bendable. Kind of looked like a Harry Potter wand.
It was the same as all the others until we put it completely in and I sat upright. That’s when I felt it.
Based off the description of the toy does anyone have a recommendation for one that we can put in for play while I am inside my wife? This one had to be held for the most part, and I had to sit up to bend it to the right position. Looking for something that I can lie on my back or stand up and have the bend and not have to hold it.