u/fr0st_mourne

Do you usually use porn, audio, or something else during your sessions?

I’m still a beginner when it comes to prostate stimulation, and I wanted to share what happened during my third full session.

I described my first session in this post. As for the second one, there isn’t really much to say - it was much less enjoyable than the first and honestly a bit disappointing.

Yesterday evening, I wasn’t sure whether I should have another session or take a break after the disappointing second one. In the end, I decided to give it another try.

I basically followed the same routine as during my first session. I prepared everything, relaxed, and put on an erotic audio story in the background. I started lying on my back and slowly inserted the toy using the smaller end. I left it there for a while without moving it, just to get used to the sensation.

After that, I slowly started trying to find that particular feeling I experienced during my first session. It took some time, but eventually I managed to feel it again. I stayed in that position for a while, experimenting with the movement and depth.

Then I changed positions. I turned over, rested on my knees and head against the bed, and raised my hips. I noticed that, at least for me, the sensation in my penis was slightly stronger in this position compared to lying on my back.

I stayed like that for quite a while and also experimented with the position of my legs - bringing them closer together and moving them farther apart. I eventually found that having my legs spread slightly wider than shoulder-width worked best for me.

I also experimented with the movement and depth of the toy. Because of that, the sensation in my penis would sometimes disappear completely. Interestingly, when that happened, I sometimes felt a different but still quite pleasant sensation in the anus, right around the area I was stimulating.

After spending some time in that position, I decided to try squatting. That position wasn't particularly comfortable for me either. The sensation in my penis would appear and then quickly disappear, and this happened several times while I was in that position.

Eventually, I decided to try the larger end of the toy. Until then, I had only used the smaller end. Honestly, I wasn't even sure I'd be able to insert the larger end, and I was a little nervous about trying it. But I decided to give it a shot, and surprisingly, it went in very smoothly and without any pain.

And it seemed to work much better for me.

Almost immediately after inserting it that way, I felt that familiar pleasant sensation in my penis. I barely had to search for it at all.

I then changed positions again. I got on my knees and sat back toward my heels, but slightly lifted myself and supported one hand on the bed in front of me. For some reason, this position worked really well for me. I stayed like that for quite a long time, and the sensation in my penis was almost constant. Occasionally it would disappear for a few seconds, but then it would come back again.

Eventually, I started getting tired and decided to finish the session. But I was curious about how things would feel if I just kept listening to the audio story I had put on.

I lay flat on my stomach, spread my legs slightly, switched back to the smaller end of the toy, and made very small back-and-forth movements while applying a little pressure toward the front wall.

After some time, the sensation in the head of my penis started getting stronger. I gradually increased the intensity of the movements, and eventually I had an orgasm.

I want to point out that I wasn't intentionally trying to stimulate my penis by lying on it. It just happened as a result of the position I was in.

The orgasm was stronger than my usual orgasms from masturbation and lasted longer as well. During the orgasm, my whole body started twitching, especially my legs, which were shaking quite strongly. That has never happened to me during a normal masturbation orgasm.

One more thing I noticed afterward: when I got up to start cleaning up after the session, my legs were slightly shaky and felt a little weak. I had to take it easy for a moment before I felt completely steady again.

I should also mention that I hadn't masturbated for 7 days before this session.

I know this probably wasn't a true prostate orgasm, since I was lying on my stomach at the end and the position may have provided some indirect stimulation to my penis, which could have contributed to the orgasm.

I just wanted to share the experience because it was definitely a big step forward compared with my previous sessions. I'm still trying to understand exactly what I'm feeling and what is actually happening, but I'm really curious to hear what you guys think.

And thanks again for reading another ridiculously long post all the way to the end! I really appreciate everyone who takes the time to read my experiences and share their thoughts.

I’m a complete beginner when it comes to prostate stimulation, and I wanted to share what happened during what I’d consider my first proper session.

(A couple of days ago, I made a post here asking how long it took people to actually find their prostate. A lot of people replied with advice, so I just wanted to thank everyone again.)

Yesterday evening, instead of focusing on finding my prostate, I decided to spend some time just playing with my Njoy Wand. It was probably my second session with it since I bought it.

I decided to follow some of the advice I’d read online. I got some lube, tissues, etc., completely undressed, lay down on my back, and just stayed there for a while to relax.

Then I lubed the toy and myself and spent a little time playing around without inserting it. After that, I started inserting it as slowly as possible. I honestly have no idea how long it took, but I was trying to go extremely slowly.

Once it was fully inside, I just lay there for a while and got used to the sensation. After some time, I started moving it very slowly - applying a little pressure toward the front wall, going a bit deeper, then pulling it back slightly. I spent quite a while doing that on my back with my knees bent and my feet on the bed.

Eventually, I decided to change positions. First, I brought my legs up a bit over my head and stayed like that for a while, but I didn't find it particularly comfortable. Then I stayed on my back, pushed my feet into the bed, and lifted my hips. That wasn't especially comfortable either, although the sensations seemed slightly stronger.

So I changed positions again. I turned over, raised my hips, and rested my head against the bed so that my butt was higher than my head.

And that's when things suddenly got interesting.

In that position, I started moving the toy more, going deeper and then pulling it back without completely removing it, applying pressure toward the front wall, and rotating the handle by just a few degrees. At one point I even turned it around 180 degrees, although I eventually went back to the original position.

Then I tried a rhythmic, not-too-fast up-and-down motion while applying a little pressure.

That's when I started feeling a really strange sensation in the head of my penis, even though my penis wasn't touching anything.

It felt almost like I hadn't masturbated for months and suddenly someone had uncovered the head of my penis and wrapped it in a warm, soft blanket. There was also this strong sensation that something was about to come out of my penis, almost like I was about to pee.

The sensation would get stronger and then weaker. My penis would also alternate between being extremely hard and going soft again.

At one point, my muscles started contracting on their own, and my penis was basically moving and twitching on its own. Then I got another very strange sensation, almost as if small amounts of semen were slowly coming out. I actually thought I was about to cum.

However, when I stopped and checked afterward, the bed was basically dry. There was only a small amount of lube, so apparently I wasn't actually ejaculating.

Most of the sensations I experienced were actually concentrated in my penis rather than feeling like they were coming from somewhere deep inside my pelvis, which is how I've seen people describe a prostate orgasm. That's another reason I'm not really sure whether what I experienced was actually prostate stimulation or just some other kind of response.

So now I'm wondering if anyone else has experienced something similar.

I know everyone's experience with prostate stimulation can be completely different, but has anyone felt that intense sensation in the head of the penis, the feeling that something was about to come out, or those involuntary contractions?

And does this sound like I was actually stimulating my prostate, or could it have been something else?

I tried to describe the whole process and everything I felt in as much detail as possible, so thanks for reading this ridiculously long post all the way to the end 😅 And thanks in advance to everyone who takes the time to share their experiences or answer my questions!

Hey everyone! I’m pretty new to prostate stimulation and I’ve been trying to figure out how to locate my prostate.

I’ve followed the usual advice - relaxing, taking my time, trying different positions (on my back, side, knees, etc.) - but I still can’t seem to feel or identify it.

So I wanted to ask: how long did it take you to successfully find your prostate for the first time? Was it something you found relatively quickly, or did it take several attempts/sessions?

Just curious about other people’s experiences, because I’m starting to wonder if I’m doing something wrong.

Hi everyone!

I'm a beginner when it comes to anal stimulation and prostate massage. I recently ordered my first toy - a curved glass wand. While waiting for the package to arrive, I want to get prepared and gather practical tips and secrets from experienced folks so that my first session goes smoothly, safely, and comfortably.

Please help me out with the following questions:

Which position is easiest for a beginner to control the angle of insertion while keeping the body fully relaxed?

What techniques work best with a glass wand?

I'm worried my muscles might instinctively tense up against a hard material. What are some reliable breathing and sphincter relaxation hacks for insertion?

How realistic is it to get intense pleasure during the very first try? Or is it better to treat the first session purely as "exploratory" - just to get used to the toy, explore my anatomy, and locate the right spot?

Thanks in advance for any tips, hacks, warnings, and personal experience!

Hey everyone,

I’m a complete beginner looking to explore prostate play and want to buy my very first toy. My goal is to find something safe, comfortable, and easy to learn with without getting overwhelmed.

I’ve been browsing different options, but I’d love to get advice from experienced guys on how to choose the right starter setup. Specifically:

1. Material: Is it better to start with firm, body-safe silicone (since it has a bit of give and flex) or jump straight into rigid materials like stainless steel or borosilicate glass?

2. Shape & Type: What’s easier for a newbie to handle? An angled wand/stick (where you hold it and manually control every micro-movement) or a small, hands-free plug with a wide T-base that just sits inside?

3. Size/Diameter: What’s the ideal "sweet spot" diameter for a total beginner? I’m currently looking at options around 22mm (under 1 inch). Is that a safe size to start, or should I go even smaller?

4. Vibration: Should my first toy have vibration, or is it just a distraction when you're trying to locate the prostate for the first time?

If you have any specific feature recommendations, budget-friendly tips, or golden rules for a first-timer, please let me know. Thanks in advance!

Hey everyone,

I’m completely new to this and looking for some advice on buying my first toy. I recently tried exploring manually with my finger, but I had a really hard time actually locating my prostate. I tried different depths, but I struggled to stay relaxed, and my erection kept fading because I was focusing too much on the search.

I’ve been browsing some budget options online, but I'm honestly overwhelmed by the choices. I've seen glass wands, smooth silicone massagers, and even wearable ones with built-in cock rings.

Since I’m a beginner and my muscles tend to tense up a bit from the unfamiliar sensations, I want something that is:

Safe: Definitely with a wide, flared base so it doesn't get lost inside.

Comfortable: Not too big or thick (maybe around 22-26mm / 0.8-1 inches in diameter) so it's easy to insert.

My main question is: for a first timer, is it better to go with a smooth, non-vibrating silicone wand where I control the movement manually, or should I look into something with vibration and a cock ring to help with relaxation and keeping an erection?

Are there any specific features, shapes, or beginner-friendly brands I should look out for?

Thanks in advance for the help!