u/AnonyGuy1987

So i have 3 plugs. I have a cone shaped one, i think its a mr leather type one. Its about the width of a SPT egg plug M which i also have. I also have an SPT egg plug L. So i can wear the cone for upwards of 4 hours, no issues there. The SPT M is where im having issues. I assume its because of its length which is a bit longer than my cone plug. I cant wear it for much longer than an hour as when im sitting it feels like its digging into what i assume is the fold in my rectum. It gets painful quickly. I was hoping to wear it about the same duration as my cone plug as its extremely similar but it doesnt seem to be working. The SPT L doesnt have this issue. It gets painful after an hour also but its because its too big not because its digging in. Thats ok, thats meant to happen. I assume its because its long enough to make it past the fold and push it out of the way. Are my assumptions correct? Is there anything i can do to be able to wear the M as long as the cone plug or do i just need to work up the duration gradually again?

Had a break of sorts from prostate play last week. Didnt completely stop it but did it a hell of a lot less, no proper sessions, just little ones.

I did a lot more wanking as opposed to the none i usually do. It confirmed what i basically already know. That cock play shuts down the nice prostate feelings i get spontaneously throughout the day and shut off my horniness. Sex also wasnt as mindblowingly great as it is when im only prostate playing and ignoring my cock.

So it was a break of sorts. I usually start my week with 4 days of no ejaculation and no cock play, just lots and lots of prostate orgasms. This week has been mindbendingly insane.

On just the first day i was having orgasms as great and as easily as what id usually get on day 3 or 4. Day 2 blew that out of the water, best sessions ive ever had. Im on day 3 now and my first session of the day (which can be my least receptive) wad just as wild as day 2. I cant fathom day 4 being able to get any better but well see.

Has anyone else ever taken a break and came back to their prostate being wilder than ever before?

I am wondering about the care instruction that come with an SPT plug, particularly the one about not storing it on its side as it can get deformed. How strict do i need to be with adhering to this rule? Its is hard to store it upright. Is it lying on its side on a conpletely flat surface likely to damage it?

Also how it says to not touch other toys and then touch the plug. I am not too sure what some of my other toys are made of. Are there many toys made of those materials that will damage my plug?

How seriously should i be taking these care instructions?

How common is it to feel like your cock is orgasming when having a prostate orgasm?

Its obviously involved for the people that have wet orgasms, this is more a question for those who cum dry.

I never used to get much cock involvement but now nearly every orgasm feels like my cock is cumming and its fucken awesome.

Is this just where everyone ends up eventually or have i unlocked something? It only started when i started doing more no cock play periods.

Has anyone experimented with full abstinence between between play sessions as opposed to just penile abstinence with many prostate play sessions?

Ive had great success with just penile anstinence and many prostate play sessions during that. I usually only go 4 days before getting a head job that gives me many dry orgasms that has me seeing the face of god before i eventually blow.

I am hapoy doing this but am wondering if the same would happen if i abstained completely? Or is it all the prostate play that helps build up the sensitivity and arousal?

I will experiment for myself at some point but has anyone tried both and knows if theres any difference?

Can you increase your maximum plug wearing duration through lots of short sessions?

For example, lets say i have a plug i could currently wear for 2 hours before it got uncomfortable. If i just wear it everyday for 30 minutes, would this have any impact on that 2 hour maximum just through repetitive stretching?

Im thinking no but just thinking that consistent stretching must do something right?

Just a general thought i had. Like does a plug pushing on a prostate help it out in anyway? Or anything else. Are there any known benefits to plugging?

Had something pop in my head. Is there anything i can put in my butt but wont have to worry about getting out later? Like itll just melt or something but wont ooze out, maybe just come out when i poop next.

I know its a bit of a freaky question but if anyone has any ideas?

So my lady is just getting into anal. Super beginner, super apprehensive about everything.

Ive played with my ass for years so i know what shes experiencing but ive run into one issue.

We recently started with dilators. We get one in but she has extreme difficulty inserting the full length. I dont remember having any issues with depth when i was beginning, at least not at these short lengths. Its almost immediately immediately after getting in the hole.

In my experience, the butthole is the hardest bit then it all opens up inside. That doesnt seem to be the case with her.

Does anyone have any tips on how to comfortably navigate this issue? I want anal to be comfortable for her.

Ive read many times about not exceeding a 2/10 on the scale of discomfort when increasing duration. Imcurrently sizing up and slowly increasing duration.

My question though is there must be some forms of discomfort that are expected and therefore ok to push through. For example, feeling full should be expected but feeling pain should not.

What forms of discomfort are ok to put up with when building tolerance to a new buttplug?

Its taken me awhile to get comfortable enough with a plug to wear it at work but i started yesterday.

Ive been getting horny enough to wear it at work and kept thinking "i wish i had my plug" but always left it at home. I changed that this week. I know i dont want it in the morning but forced myself to start taking it to work knowing the urge hits hard later.

So ive been putting it in around lunchtime. Yesterday i wore it until i got home before taking it out and upgrading to my bigger plug that i cant wear too long yet. I was skeptical how it would go after already being plugged for hours with the smaller one but it didnt feel any different to normal.

Am sitting in the break room at work now and am just loving the constant pressure on my prostate. I can just think of it and start feeling great. If i think even harder i can orgasm. I cum dry as a bone so no chance of mess.

Has anyone else plugged at work before?

So my method of playing is doing some prostate play a few times a day, not touching my cock and not ejaculating. Just having lots of dry orgasms, getting mega horny. I save it all up to still be horny for sex at night and then unleash on my woman.

Anyone else use prostate play like this? A sort of edging where i still get to have orgasms and it doesnt dent my desire for sex with my lady that night.

This question comes up so much. People lamenting that they cant feel their prostate at all. So heresthe definitive guide of how to get over that first hurdle of actually being able to feel your prostate. Its probably the only thing in prostate play that will work on everyone, this is not a works on some people type of guide.

All you do is have something in your butt EVERY SINGLE TIME you jerk off. You dont need something in when you have sex though if you do itd likely speed it up. You dont have to do anything with the object in your butt, you can if you want and enjoy it but you dont have to if you dont want. Just make sure its in EVERYTIME, dont do this sporadically.

Now, in the beginning your not gonna feel your prostate. Itll likely feel nice just cos having something in your butt can feel good even without a prostate. It may also be uncomfortable. The only thing you shouldnt feel is pain. Push through uncomfortable, stop with pain. It wont feel uncomfortable forever.

This process of having something in your butt everytime you orgasm teaches your brain that something in your butt=pleasure. Your brain will make a pathway where pleasure is generated when something is in your butt. And since your prostate is always being touched when something is in your butt this pathway will also tie pleasure to your prostate being touched.

Now, this isnt quick, dont expect immediate results. Mine took a year, up to a year is probably a typical timeframe. Eventually, the thing entering your butt will start to feel really nice, like before you even start jerking off. Itll feel fucking fantastic when you start jerking off. At that point, you can feel your prostate.

Im not going further than that with this guide because its at this point that methods of achieving prostate pleasure diverge and one size fits all stops working. This is not the point at which you have prostate orgasms, this is just being able to feel your prostate, a critical first step on the path to prostate orgasms. At this point, all the advice in this sub becomes possible to try.

Good luck.

Im assuming theres no way to stop this but in case you guys have some sage advice, here goes.

I usually have no problems with regularity bathroom wise. I take psyllium husk and it keeps me clean pretty much constantly.

But heres the scenario tonight and its common. Ive got my plug in this afternoon. Normally, i would need to visit the bathroom once, if at all. But with the plug, every 30 minutes it gets uncomfortable due to it stimulating a bowel movement. I have needed to remove the plug, poop and reinsert every half hour for 3 hours. Its fine once the poop is gone.

Is there anyway to stop a plug making you need to poop?

So Ive known about this spot that gives me pleasure for awhile and i assumed it was just more of the prostate. But it occurred to me that it might be the base of the penis accessible from in my butt.

The spot is right between my butthole and prostate. Rubbing there along with my prostate helps move my prostate orgasms along. Its also one of the spots that really gets the pleasure going in my cock and makes me feel like i need to ejaculate though i never do.

The considerable increase in cock pleasure and feeling like needing to blow makes me think its the base of the penis. It may also be one of the misding pieces in being able to set off wet orgasms (im always dry). I did try it yesterday and really felt like blowing but dudnt so i think theres still a mental element to work out but i feel closer.

Does anyone else have this spot or has noticed it?

Once you really get the ball rolling on achieving prostate orgasms and exploring all it is, it is like a super power.

You have the normal guys in one corner. The best they can hope to achieve is maybe edge for an hour and have a bigger orgasm that way. But at the end of the day, its still just a few seconds of orgasm and then they are done, partys over.

Then we have us, the prostate gods. We have orgasmS, plural. More than one. Those orgasms are also better, longer, stronger, more all encompassing. When youve truly experienced rolling, body melting dry orgasms, you no longer feel jealous of the orgasms women seem to have, you already get it.

And it doesnt even stop there. You explore further and start being able to induce orgasms without touching anything, just flexing your mind. Just that alone seems like a superpower. Doing anything just be thinking it is astounding.

But the real top tier god shit is when you can pull your cock, have sex, get it sucked and orgasm endlessly cos youve worked out how to make them dry. Having such control over your body that you have disconnected orgasm from ejaculation so the pleasure never has to end.

Prostate play is a superpower and all those guys who are too manly to explore it because ItS gAy, they can live life with their tiny 5 second orgasms while im here pleasuring my woman, cumming over and over again. Whos really the more manly one in this equation.

Its back! Spent yesterday just edging myself to non ejaculatry orgasms, didnt know i could do it as much as i did though. Must of did like 10 small sessions throughout the day getting an orgasm or 2 from jerking before i allowed myself to cum at the end of the day.

Didnt feel like that today so tested out the prostate. Its not perfect but i can feel it again so im happy. And discovered a different way to orgasm without cumming so that was cool.

Has anyone ever had their prostate lose all feeling? Im not talking about beginners who cant really feel it yet. Im talking an experienced player who regularly gets prostate orgasms and their prostate just loses all feeling?

Mine started a week ago. Last week it became very hard to get prostate orgasms at all. This week i can get them relatively easily but i cant feel the prostate part of them. I can feel my penis, the way it makes my body feel and all the parts of my ass around the prostate but where the prostate pleasure should be is just a void of no feeling.

Has anyone ever had this? Im not sure if ive just bruised it and its gone numb and i need to lay off. Or if its some sort of medical thing that i need checked out, though dunno how id go explaining to a doctor that i cant feel my prostate anymore.

Anyone have any clue what this is?

Has anyone ever had their prostate lose all feeling? Im not talking about beginners who cant really feel it yet. Im talking an experienced player who regularly gets prostate orgasms and their prostate just loses all feeling?

Mine started a week ago. Last week it became very hard to get prostate orgasms at all. This week i can get them relatively easily but i cant feel the prostate part of them. I can feel my penis, the way it makes my body feel and all the parts of my ass around the prostate but where the prostate pleasure should be is just a void of no feeling.

Has anyone ever had this? Im not sure if ive just bruised it and its gone numb and i need to lay off. Or if its some sort of medical thing that i need checked out, though dunno how id go explaining to a doctor that i cant feel my prostate anymore.

Anyone have any clue what this is?

Ok, so a week of little to no prostate orgasms (not due to not trying) then a weekend if not playing which is what i always do.

Ive tried a few times today, its back...sort of. Getting orgasms is coming alot easier but there is still one issue. Most of the time, not everytime, the pleasure in the prostate is extremely muted or nullified completely but i know im having a prostate orgasm cos i can still feel all the pleasure in my cock and other areas in my butt.

I can deal with this, this is still pretty good but obviously this is not normal. What has happened to my prostate? Its been like this for a week so its not just some bruising or something even though i dont play very vigorously.

Could a UTI cause this? I dont have any other symptoms but they can be mild with guys. I only wonder if its this since i did some sounding the week before it happened.

My other theory is that i blew out my dopamine receptors when i drank 3 days in a row just before this happened. But then i wonder why its only my prostate not feeling anything.

Has anyone had their prostate go numb to pleasure? Like it still orgasms, i just dont really feel it or only feel it intermitently.