r/ButtplugEveryday

Hi everyone!
So far I have been using mainly water-based lubes but I thought about getting some unrefined coconut oil because a lot of people here are using it. How much are you using approximately?
I‘m test-running the coconut oil and it‘s fine but doesn’t feel as slippery as the water-based lubes I‘ve tried so far. Or am I just doing something wrong somehow?

I’ve just started wearing a plug to school everyday and to sleep. This is the first time I’ve gone a whole school week with it in (barring bathroom breaks) and I honestly get why people love this so much.

I have for a long time wanted to plug for a long period but never been able to achieve more than a couple of hours.
I am a male aged 72 and have been stretching for many years but have yearned for daily wear.
Well today I achieved my first goal of wearing my plug to work which is on my feet and physical.
I managed 12 hours continual wearing of my glass plug. My plug is glass 6 inch insertable and 3 inch diameter. Minimal lube was required which was from Amazon.
I have tried other plugs but glass seems to suit me best. Having it in all day lived up to my expectations.

I started getting into plugging at the beginning of this year. I had some interest and curiosity in this area most of my life, but finally decided it was time to loosen up and pay more attention to my pelvic floor and body awareness.

I started my adventure with glass plugs, but eventually came across the N-joy Pure Plug line and bought the Large. My first insertion of the Njoy was problem-free, but it would not stay in place. Eventually I got it to stay, but it dug into my perineum and became uncomfortable. I was confused and didn’t really know what to do, so on a whim I rotated it 180 degrees and suddenly it settled perfectly into place. It became secure, comfortable, and stable.

Once I started using it more regularly, I noticed the handle was too short for me and the edges of the handle eventually caused discomfort during longer wear. That being said, one thing I immediately noticed was that if I was tense and inserted it while laying on my side, it would almost melt the tension out of my body.

Over time I became so relaxed and adapted to it that I could no longer comfortably wear it for long periods because the handle width was similar to the diameter of the other plugs I was already using regularly. At that point I knew it was time to upgrade.

The N-joy Pure Plug 2.0 looked intimidating to me for a long time. Honestly, I thought it was a beast that needed to be mastered. Long story short, I received my 2.0 today and tried it as soon as I got home. To my surprise, it inserted in about two seconds and immediately settled perfectly into place.

The design is outstanding. The handle sits exactly where it should, I can sit comfortably anywhere, and once it’s in place I mostly notice the weight and slight movement rather than pressure or strain.

For the first time, I even decided to continue wearing it while working. I’m doing physical labour today and it has remained comfortable and stable the entire time. Obviously listen to your own body and use common sense, but for me the experience has been unexpectedly smooth and comfortable.

Bottom line: if I had known this piece was going to be this good, I would have bought it weeks ago. Thanks to the other members here for the recommendations. The N-joy Pure Plug 2.0 is genuinely a masterpiece and I recommend it without hesitation.

I’ve been wearing my plug for the last 4 days (1.5/2”width) but I feel like going bigger again. It’s great having it but I just feel like the thought of wearing bigger while people don’t know might be more enjoyable, also not sure if the fact I’ve gotten comfortable and used to this one might be half of the reason and I want the feeling that I had when I’d only just started, anyone else felt this way before?

I do because I find that it helps keep the toys clean, reduces unnecessary friction from the silicone, and overall feels much better and softer (at least to me). I use my TailRaiser 90 with magnum condoms and they fit perfectly.

Hi all

I currently own 3 plugs, gk45, SquarePegToys egg xs and small.

I was running into issues with the gk45 it felt like it was being sucked in. The squarepegtoys are a lot better but now I feel like I can't get past the 20 25 minute mark as it feels like it's being pushed out and then I always need a bowel movement after.

I'm unsure if this is just my current level, or if I am doing something wrong. Has anyone else had a similar issue?

Can someone recommend me a good plug to use for my first nights sleep with a plug in just want the best and safest plug todo so

So I still have the tailbone/muscle pain when inserting the plug, but it goes away if I just gently push it to that threshold, hold, and then pull out, then go back to that threshold and check. It seems fine.

My issue is, I can sit down, lay down, no problem for the most part. At least for a few hours. But the moment I stand up, bottomless btw, the plug wants to partially push out. Not fall out, just no be hilted slightly.

I've tried relubing the neck, my hole, my ass, I've tried sitting on the corner of something to wedge it in more. I just... Don't know if it is actually resting properly, or if the plug might be too long?

Cuz the other issue is, I might be able to wear the plug for hours while lying down. But if I take it out, relube and try to put it back in, the tailbone area is sore again but even MORE so when I get to that threshold. Just a quick sharp pain, and then it's fine again.

Speaking of relubing, the reason I do so, is because the entrance, it just seems to hate pressure after some time, and DEVOURS the coconut oil. So I'll try to reapply, put it back in, but the same dull burning ache happens at the entrance.

Finally, the next day, my tailbone is sore if the plug is gone. And itll be sore for a day or so. But only when sitting or clenching.

I just want to know if it's girth, plug length being too much, or if the plug just isn't fully inserted when I think it is?

I use the spt egg L/XL. And I want to make sure I'm not damaging anything. I have hemorrhoids if that helps with anything.

I purchased a plug hoping to finally be able to wear it without discomfort. It arrived today and I immediately excitedly opened it. Whoa! It filled my palm. My thought was maybe I should’ve ordered one size down. I went to the bathroom and prepped. I lubed myself and the plug. I layed down on my bed and pressed it to my hole and pushed gently breathing deeply in and out. After several pushes in and pushing it back out it popped into place. Kinda scary as it didn’t take long at all. The smile on face was huge. It fills me and I definitely feel its presence but not painfully. I am sitting on my couch right now and feel so happy. I am going to remove it before sleeping. I want to try to wear it this weekend for extended periods. I have a festival to attend and possibly pool time on Sunday. I am so excited to start this journey!

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So normally, you need to poop when your rectum feels the pressure of poop in it. With a plug in, that pressure is always there and we have trained our brain to realise we dont need to actually poop. But i have still noticed that the second any poop enters my rectum, wearing a plug is uncomfortable.

What is causing the urge to poop if pressure in my rectum is no longer a trigger?

So the weather is getting warmer where I live which means I’m leaving the house way more to do stuff, meet people and just enjoy the sun. The topic about being around other people while plugged comes up in this community here and there and I’ve also been thinking about it of course.

The switch from being apprehensive and nervous to just going out without so much as a second thought came really quickly from me. I guess because the plug is much more of a helpful tool for grounding and something like an accessory (or extension of the body) to me most of the time - especially when I’m occupied with chores, events or get-togethers.

I think this is also influenced by growing up in a culture where nakedness is not always associated with sexual contexts. There are plenty of nude beaches, people tan nude in their gardens or shirtless in parks. Nude saunas are also the norm. It’s pretty normal for me that bodies are just bodies, butts are just butts and buttholes are just another one of our holes in our bodies. We are free to do with our bodies as we want, accessorize it or modify it. We pierce our skin, we tattoo ourselves with inks, so why not also plug our holes? I tend to think of the plug more like a hidden accessory that I’m wearing just for myself. I wouldn’t be ashamed if I had a tunnel or plug as an ear piercing. So why shouldn’t I wear another type of plug?

This does not mean that I’d go out and involve anyone else (who isn’t consenting) in me wearing a plug because it’s still an object that carries that sexual association for most people. I still pick and choose where and when it is appropriate or isn’t for me and I’d never risk the chance of accidentally exposing this habit to anyone else who doesn’t already know and consent.

What are your thoughts on this? Do you think similarly or in a different way when it comes to this?

I think I'm ready to go up a size on my XL Squarepeg Eggplug

• I mostly like to wear while doing housework etc, and wanted to know about folks' experience with the different models?

The cost at this point is what prevents me from just buying the XXL Egg and trying out another model.

If your ass was on the line what plug would you fork over the cash for?

Made a post a bit ago about issues with Snug Plugs (the rigidity, the T-bar digging into skin, ect.) so I decided to try a Gape Keeper instead. It arrived today and I already like it way more. Gives that full feeling, the more flexible material isn't overly intrusive, the neck is in that sweet spot of keeping the anus open without constantly clamping down and no issues with the handle causing discomfort. I do feel stretched out but it feels manageable over time compared to the Snug Plug where it was actively getting uncomfortable. That and I need to get better lube as I only have basic Lube Life stuff that doesn't stay around long. Many here recommend Boy Butter so I'll try that.

Only real caveat is it feels looser than the Snug, which is good to a degree as it's not stuck in one place and moves with me while I'm walking and all, but not sure if it might fall out or not. Might get a thong although I've never used one before so not sure on that yet.

I just purchased a Medium and L/XL Egg from SPT, and expecting them in a few days. Anxious to try them out.
Any advice anyone can provide as far as wearing them long term would be appreciated! I’ve used Njoy Pure Large, but wanted to try a more filling plug. I’ve also picked up Boy Butter lube. How much lube do you use? Thx

So I am trying to get into daily plugging, I have a good ammount of size I can comfy put in without anything done in advance. Currently as of writing, the second time after arriving, using a Snug Plug 3.

Now to my burning question, is it normal that any kind of base, especially T bases hurt more than actually wearing the plug itself? For me it is not the actual insertion and having something inside me that feels weird or hurts, its only the base that kinda pokes into me and feels sore after taking it out.

Has anyone else experienced this and if yes, got me some advice to enjoy the ride more comfortably?

Sooo I've just treated myself to some squarepeg egg plugs. Got really excited and bought an xs for overnight wear and a medium for day wear.

Popped the medium in and can barely keep it in. I don't wear underwear, so obviously not going to work. Is there any way I can train myself to keep it in, or am I just not suited to this type? Or is it too small?

So gutted as it felt like bliss going in. I'm guessing the small will just fall out overnight...

I was torn between this and the GK and wishing I'd gone for the GK now!

Hi

I enjoy times with a plug inside me. But I never (or I miss it) see discussion about having anal beads instead of a plug for short or long term?

Is it unsafe?

Anybody doing it?

Thanks and enjoy your time filled.

Today I completed my first full 24-hour wear session using an Njoy Pure Plug Large during the day, a 40mm glass plug while sleeping, and a 50mm glass plug for comfort and presence in the morning.

The interesting part wasn’t the intensity — it was how “normal” it became over time. Since starting with plugs, my experience has gradually transitioned from a consciously erotic experience into body awareness, and finally into more of a background grounding sensation.

The biggest psychological hurdle was wearing during a full social/work day and trusting my body not to betray me. That anxiety ended up being much larger than the actual physical challenge, which turned out to be minimal.

I noticed comfort depended almost entirely on relaxation. If I tensed or over-focused on it, the plug became intrusive quickly. When relaxed, it almost disappeared physically while still positively affecting posture and body awareness.

I’m also noticing a major difference between heavy glass plugs and softer silicone. The weight and rigidity of glass seem to create a richer feedback experience for me that encourages deeper relaxation and awareness.

Curious whether others experienced a similar shift from “sexual stimulation” toward more of a persistent body-mapping or comfort sensation over longer wear periods. Also curious whether anyone else strongly prefers glass for similar reasons.