r/ButtplugEveryday

I’ll start, the last time I regretted wearing a plug was when I first wore my TailRaiser 90 to work without having worn it long enough for my body to fully adapt to it. After around the 3rd hour it started to get a bit uncomfortable but I still had 5 more hours to go. Towards the last hour or so I was nearly waddling due to feeling of the immense girth of it being pressed against my prostate for that long. When I went home I rushed to the bathroom to push it out as fast as I could and thankfully there was no blood on it. Only thing it left me with was a noticeable gape for the remainder of the day lol but since then I predominantly wear my GapeKeeper 65 instead and save the TR90 for home or light errands.

I'm new to the plugs I'm wearing are relatively small to medium in size. The problem I'm having is that after 30 minutes or so I get the urge "to go". How do I get passed that?

So i have 3 plugs. I have a cone shaped one, i think its a mr leather type one. Its about the width of a SPT egg plug M which i also have. I also have an SPT egg plug L. So i can wear the cone for upwards of 4 hours, no issues there. The SPT M is where im having issues. I assume its because of its length which is a bit longer than my cone plug. I cant wear it for much longer than an hour as when im sitting it feels like its digging into what i assume is the fold in my rectum. It gets painful quickly. I was hoping to wear it about the same duration as my cone plug as its extremely similar but it doesnt seem to be working. The SPT L doesnt have this issue. It gets painful after an hour also but its because its too big not because its digging in. Thats ok, thats meant to happen. I assume its because its long enough to make it past the fold and push it out of the way. Are my assumptions correct? Is there anything i can do to be able to wear the M as long as the cone plug or do i just need to work up the duration gradually again?

I would like to wear a plug overnight, is it more safe to wear the rose buds t bar stainless steel plug or something silicone?
The stainless steel is only 3 inches long btw.

So im not new to anal i‘ve been using dildos, vibrators and butt plugs. Me and my Wife talked about being plugged while going out for dinner and such, but im scared of the Plug being sucked in. I have one silicone t bone plug but its a bit to small since i can take larger (don‘t know how it feels while sitting). So im looking for advice on buying a new buttplug thats known to be safe and can no be sucked in.

So first, I got the Tantus Inner Band Trainer and I love it. ❤️ It runs true to size, feels great, and I think I’m already dilating the outside sphincter to around 5.5” inches circumference after a couple sessions. It seemed like it was going to be sticky, but once you throw lube on it it’s smoother than the Future Method Dilators (which are already pretty smooth).

Question: I’ve also been using the Mr S Leather Large plug. I was stretching with that for a couple weeks and can easily get it all the way to and past the widest point (especially post Tantus), no issues. The only part the feels weird/vaguely uncomfortable is the last bit where the sphincters close over the neck. Is that normal? Again, fully able to accommodate the width, even going slightly beyond to where the hole starts to close, but that last bit of length where the neck slips into place feels weird. Even trying it 3 times in one session (full insert, wait for 20-30 seconds, gently pull out partway/back over the bulb, wait 10-20 seconds, repeat).

It’s not painful, but it doesn’t feel great either?

Added: it’s not the point poking into the rectal wall. That’s not super comfortable either but I know what that feels like.

i’ve been using k lube for about a year and i’ve nearly run out so im about to buy more.

i like how affordable powdered lube is and the ability to mix to the consistency i want.

but i know there are a few other options out there.

what lubes would you recommend over k lube?

So I've been wearing my gk55 the past month or so, typically 14-16hr wear sessions every other day or so. Absolutely love it, but do wish it was a little firmer for easier insertion. Anyways, ordered a couple eggs in medium and large in the firmer black option. Tried the medium a couple days ago - insertion was a lot easier, but I just couldn't keep it in. It's like the body to neck ratio is off. It was in for about 5 minutes before I finally gave up and went back to the gk. Anyway, tried the large yesterday and did not have any issues whatsoever. Only kept it in about 30 minutes since it was my first time with one that large, just curious if anyone has had similar results with the medium before?

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Do you have any coconut oil/lube brand thats is available in poland/europe reccomendation?

Hello,

I have some experience with shortterm buttplay, and I got interested in prolonged play, the issue is that the lube I use absorbs(?) Really fast and I need to relube every 20-30min, so my question is what would You guys reccomend as a lube? I saw a lot people say that coconut oil is the Best, but can You please name specific brand that is available in europe/Poland?

(Guy here) Basically what it says in title. I have played around with long-term plugging before, but this latest stretch is the most advanced.

Currently over three months, crucially with a very large sizeup around a month ago which has been super fun, and not something I had ever done before.

The plug I now wear is basically gatekeeper-shaped and the new size is equivalent to that of my fist. It feels great, is a very snug fit, and has definitely helped massively with depth for me.

Anyway I have been very lazily trying to get into better shape over the past year or so, with varying success rates (I'm slim, not out of shape, but would always like to try being super toned once, so that was a bit of a goal this year/next).

Anyway, there were two brief periods of pretty successful weight loss/toning last year then in this spring/summer, where I was playing closer attention to diet (keto or keto adjacent during that time) and cycling a LOT (I know this is not the best/most efficient way to get in shape, it's just what fits into my lifestyle).

Anyway, since I sized up plugs I've noticed that despite my exercise being pretty minimal (too busy) and diet being pretty unhealthy/carb heavy, I seem to be getting pretty shredded and have clearly defined abs appearing on their own without having really worked for them?

The only change I have really made in this period is the plug, so am I insane for thinking that's the reason?

One more thing I noticed is I am sleeping less with this larger one in (closer to 5-7 hours a night whereas i slept for much longer with a smaller plug and/or empty ass). Weirdly, despite sleeping considerably less each day, I still wake up feeling very well slept, so at least there's that...

Just wondering if anyone else has had a similar experience re body changes, or if they can think of some other explanation for it? Like I wrote above, aside from the plug sizeup, my diet has been pretty unhealthy/totally casual, and exercise basically minimal compared to previous months my body changed like this...

I’m looking around for a water based lube for my silicone plug that doesn’t contain Glycerin! I find I get irritated (especially when using a Dildo) Any recs?

Just wanted to ask the question or for some advice on it as I want to get into butt plugging with confidence. Only thing is that ive had a fear that I couldnt shake of like a plug in my ass and it getting sucked in.

I'm about to go live abroad and remotely, travelling a fair amount. I told my friend I was planning on bringing plugs in my luggage, and he is fairly paranoid and told me I would need to worry about homophobic TSA and border agents seeing my plugs in the bag and detaining me, deporting me, or denying me entry.

Is his paranoia unfounded? Or am I naïve? A bit of both? Does anyone here have experience travelling abroad with sex toys or plugs?